Reply To: Going to her bf’s family wedding as a couple for a weekend without me (cuck)

It seems to me the critical component, like in any cuckold situation, is that the two of you are completely honest with each other.

In a healthy cuckold relationship, the husband and wife are teammates, both of who have as a primary goal the maximizing of the sexual pleasure of the wife, with the husband finding extreme pleasure in supporting his wife in that way, and the marriage being strengthened by that dynamic of both husband and wife achieving that sexual goal. Naturally, that will involve a lot of sexual pleasure for her bulls as well, and there is certainly nothing wrong, and a lot right, with supporting the bulls’ pleasure as another goal for the couple.

I am sensing your worry in this situation that it will not be merely sexual pleasure for your wife and the bull, but romantic pleasure on a level very different than previously. I also sense that is at least partly because your wife started with him as “a cheat” (your words).

A cuckold marriage has a different dynamic than other marriages, but it is still a marriage in which both partners matter … the cuckold just matters in a different way. If you detect that she is not being completely honest with you, that is a concern, so stress to her that she needs to be completely honest with you and that as a couple you will deal with anything that arises.

Good luck, and keep us posted!