Reply To: We talked about it. What next?

we both need to chat with each other and ideally with others on this site.then we will get answers. raise questions and have a better understanding if its really what we want to venture into. its not good for example if a wife feels only doing it for hubby or under pressure as afterwards can feel .guilty? used?dirty etc
where wife is seeking that extra erotic and rewarding expansion of adult sex life. it can be both thrilling. ego boosting and addictive.
much revolves around the coupes expectation or reality and bull the interact with. some couples for example simply seek sexual adventure and slow exploration of aspects with own pace . others can be submissive and seek an assertive and confident bull whom will push the invoke for them so no guilt feelings as they ca put any extra activities or anything different down to him. thus neatly enjoying benefits without having to ask something they may feel shy about. do chat a lot with a potential bull before first meet. then have a school drink ,chat . only when we sure chemistry is good should we priced to bedroom stage. here too its not uncommon for a wife to decline husbands interaction or looking for that first time a stash can have an inhibiting factor on wife. she needs to feel relaxed and want engage with the bull. no easy for many at first.once they have been sexually coupled then they will feel confident in selves and relaxed enough for hubby to partake.watch or whatever they feel happy about. bull is major factor in all so important to get right. sometimes its helps to have a quick holiday event thus if we find afterwards we feel it was a mistake? then we can walk away and put it behind us . if we did find that actually is was thrilling.rewarding and we want more? then that is a good time to look for a reg bull. random bulls are ok for some but most couples tend to favour as one may realise a reg bull and easier more relaxed arrangements .