Reply To: Does submissive mean, sissy?

While Jan has never sissified me in front of her boyfriend(s), she has however dressed me in panties and stockings when alone though. I have also been threatened me with me having to wear them when her boyfriend does call round. Obviously this would have a real effect in diminishing any remaining vestiges of supposed manhood that is left.

Jan (along with various lovers) have however humiliated me on many occasions, I am caged as a rule during any sexual activity whether I am physically involved or not, I have done all the things that good cuckolds are expected to do for their respected wives and lovers. OK it’s not quite sissification but orally servicing your wife’s lover is pretty close and very damning as to how her boyfriend views you. Although 2 of Jan’s ex lovers would talk to me friendly she always insisted they regarded me as nothing but a sissy cocksucker, just there to serve their needs. They had no respect for a cuckold. To them any manhood and dignity was long gone.

However, I am if I am honest I very happy with the situation. Initially I wasn’t sure about my role. There is a lot goes through the head of a guy who is in the process of accepting that moving forward he will be a long term cuckold. However slowly but surely I have come to enjoy my place in Jan and any respective lovers life. If I was to be feminised I am sure it would be in the best interests of all involved. I am there after all to please them rather than look for any satisfaction myself.

I do think its very much being content and happy with surrounding events and all parties have to respect this. I do think though it’s almost natural for a cuckold (however male he is outside the confines of the cuckold environment) to start to to move towards a sissy role in the bedroom particularly when faced with a much better alpha male who is enjoying his wife. The wife, Jan in this case will naturally start looking at you as being so much less than a man because of the submissiveness being a cuckold entails.

So I personally think while yo can be a submissive without being a sissy there is an overlap and there is a direction of travel. At some point the vast majority of submissive cuckolds will cross the line and become sissified to one degree or another by either words, what their made to wear, how they are spoken to, or what even is thought about them after their respective duties are completed.

The longer you are a cuckold the more likely that you will be looked at as a sissy.

My humble view. M