Reply To: We talked about it, now what?

Hard to say since every situation is different.

I’ve found my wife is hesitant and unsure until she’s experienced something then she quickly embraces it. She didn’t like the idea of talking to a bull until she read a conversation I was having on Kik with a bull and she realised we really were talking about her and not other women and she found it very arousing. A Kik group chat was a natural next step and then she’s talking 1 on 1 with a bull, sending him pics and suggesting places to meet socially. My wife was very reserved so she and I were surprised how she loved talking filth to another man.

The biggest step change was for her to talk to another man. It’s harmless fun but it makes it real and she can hear from you how hot she is and how fun it can be but being desired by another man and seeing you actually enjoying it makes it real. It takes some effort but its so worth it.