Reply To: Finally Told My Wife, She is hurt by what I said

Thanks for your reply MatureMUK. You are probably right, she didn’t mind the role play but didn’t expect me to ask that it become a reality. I am aware that many men come here or to similar websites to live out a fantasy but this is real life example of how it doesn’t always translate when one actually tries it in real life. I love my wife very much so finding a different wife who is open to this fantasy is not an option. It has only been a few days and she seems to be over her initial reaction of being hurt or mad. We have talked around the subject but not directly about it (if that makes any sense). A part of me is still hoping that she is processing and am hoping that her curiosity will lead her to want a conversation about it. At this point I am honestly afraid to bring it up. I feel that if this is to happen I should allow her the time and space to settle her thoughts around the subject. What do you folks think?