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In my case it has nothing to do with penis size or me being bad in bed.
First, it turns me on to know my wife is being fucked by another man.
Second, she wanted to do it – but it had to be the right man.
Third, my PTSD/MST has gotten to the point where I’m disconnecting from people – even my wife. She has a hard time with that because she needs the intimacy and romantic attentions, and I just can’t give that to her.
So it took a few years but she found the right man for the job. They have bondage type sex in the main bedroom, while I moved into the spare bedroom down the hall. She spends her romantic time with him. He’ll be moving in come spring. Overall, I’m REALLY happy that we did this.