Reply To: 'Something new'

Having some of the same issues and struggles as we head down the path. Nikki has only been with me, married 21 years. Considering a bf OR multiple lovers – either way something regular and not a one time thing. Two daughters at home and we’ve started talking about if/when/what they will know (basically do we consider hosting or not) and we’re talking about my role going forward. The big one weighing on me is over the condoms issue and what we do on that. I’m glad and encouraged to see others walk through the same concerns and talking about it on here has helped some for it to feel ‘normal’ and work through my anxieties.