Reply To: Close friend and my Hotwife

It has been five years since the night my beautiful wife coupled with Her lover. There had been consistent meetings between them for two years and then a gap of some two and a half years for various reasons until now. I have written an update to share, in an attempt to understand my angst and clearly describe to you and I what is now happening.
Just to give you an update:

Nic’s visit turned out to be a revelation in many ways if not a shocking one for me! If you have read some of my writings you will know that J has had a long term relationship with a once close friend of mine called Nic on and off for the past five years. They have not seen each other for two years as we relocated and they had put the brakes on things due to some emotional conflicts and concerns, but for the past two weeks they have been messaging together and arranging to see each other.

This Monday, after collecting Nic from the rail station having arrived from his business strip to London, we caught up, sharing dinner together and a few drinks as three old friends, I left them about 9PM to enjoy their evening spending the night in the annex building where we have a guest bedroom. It was a long night as I had already been made aware that when J took Nic to our marital bedroom on arrival to drop his bag to assure him they would spend the night together, he had forced her onto the bed and fingered her whilst kissing and smothering her. J told me this as he hung his suit up and took a shower whilst she adjusted all her clothing and tried to control her own breathing with me in the kitchen. I spent the whole night awake, having seen the effect he had on her. Indeed this has to be the first time I have not slept at least a few hours during a cuckold night of isolation. I must have known something was different.

Nic’s visit was a short one, and I had to drive him to the airport for his 9AM flight hence I let myself into the house made coffee for them and I woke them at 6AM. They were asleep and I was invited into the room to deliver the coffees to their bed side tables. I noticed they were entwined together in bed and looked extremely content. During the drive to the airport I received no clue from him that things had suddenly changed between them and the conclusions they have come to as Hotwife and Her Lover……

When I got home later later that in the morning I learnt that they had spent the entire night heavy petting, masturbating each other but had no penetrative sex at all! I found this surprising as she loves his cock and he loved fucking her. This first surprise, resulting in J now being a very frustrated woman, masturbating throughout all of yesterday and screaming his name whilst I assisted Her as Her cum waiter. They had spent from 9PM to 2 AM taking and as our American cousins say, making out with neither cuming.

It appears that they had a very intimate night of talking and petting as they reviewed their relationship today, the concerns and mistakes they had made, and what the future could look like. The concerns had always been me, and his ability to understand that they could fall in love and commit to each other without breaking either marriage which they both feel is the corner stone of their lives. They have now made plans to bring their relationship into full bloom as they had declared strong feelings for each other and an unquenchable lust for one another, without actually saying they love each other, they have decided to make it a full blown affair between them. She will now start start traveling with him on all his business trips so she expects to be gone one week in six. Nic is a successful business owner like us and hence the pattern is familiar and not unlike our current life style in terms of travel. When they are not travelling together he will either be at home with his wife in Holland and he will start coming here to visit for the odd few nights. J has asked that I plan my business trips around his visits here so that I am away when they are together.

I have been assured by her that whilst she will never leave me, it is her intention to fall deeply in love with Nic and enjoy loving two men, Her husband and Her Lover. We have discussed this numerous times over the years but they had both been unable to get to this point previously hence they extended period of not seeing each other, The next surprise is that J informed me that from this moment on they have agreed that I am cut off form any penetrative sex with Her!!! Nic had instigated this as he wants her to himself sexually and I believe that his withholding penetrative sex from her was part of his approach. She has agreed as we had previously discussed what would happen if she ever had a full loving affair and this was always going to be the direction our sexuality took in such an event. I will now only be allowed to cum as a cuckold through milking, monitored masturbation when and where she decides. I am truly shocked but pleased for them which is rather a contradictory statement,I had never expected the night to unravel as it has.

So, J is off to Germany in ten days to spend 3 days with Nic, and as you can appreciate I am full of angst but full of love and admiration for my wife who is extremely hoppy and loving toward me at this time, discussing her intentions, hopes and expectations. She has tempered all of this with a learned caution as Nic has not been consistent enough to allow her to fully commit to the idea in the past. During their discussions through the night she pointed this out and he explained it was because of concern for his marriage and me as his friend. She has assured him that as a cuckold couple this is our goal and there is no reason he cannot love two women as she loves two men. She has also reminded him the old adage that it is better to have loved and lost than not at all.

So, this cuckold is about to be tortured as only another cuckold can relate!