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May I ask, “What are the effects?”

Does being in chastity help your cuck/husband avoid post-masturbation anxiety? I ask because I’ve been trying to convince my wife to cuck me. I’m no longer able to get an erection (though I can still cum from manual stroking), and the idea of her having another man’s penis inside her, and her enjoying him, drives me wild with excitement and anticipation. We have begun using a black dildo on her that is bigger than I am, but not by much. And, I have described another man fucking her, while using it on her, and also relaxed her and talked through fantasizing that the man of her dreams is fucking her while I’m watching. In the last case, she once got so excited, when I asked her to kiss me as he entered her (and I had the dildo enter her at that time), that she sighed and whispered, “Oh! He’s fucking me!” She was very aroused and her orgasm was much stronger than normal. So, I think we’re getting closer, but she is still worried that “I don’t think it would be good for you,” as she puts it, while I have a slightly different concern. I’m worried that I’ll come too soon, suddenly be filled with anxiety and perhaps feel I’ve been a fool. I’m wondering if it might help me to be in chastity while my wife is enjoying a future lover or boyfriend, because I won’t be able to masturbate and lose the sexual excitement derived from the idea of her having sex with another man. Have you perhaps found this to be one of the effects you are talking about in your comment?

Thank you.