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hi. i’m no shrink and i dont play one on tv. but when a hubby sabotages the culmination of their role play and real swinging adventures, well, then, bucko, it’s time to assess and address what’s holding you back. if you got a great wife and marriage, you talk this through. let her know the anxiety you feel. she is a wife and a woman and therefore smarter than you and me. she will figure out the answer and the way to overcome your hesitancy. she will make it work. let her. let her lead.let her set out boundaries with you and your bull. and dont get amped up and bent out of shape if the edges of the agreement get blurred a bit. it’s ok. it’s sex. it’s fucking. enjoy the hottest live porn show you ever will see. this is not going to be a problem … tell her you love her. tell her to say the same to you while she is getting fucked. that will reignite the ties that bind… until you go and try, you have no data and no path to resolution. just a frustrated wife who will get pissed at you for that… self fulfilling prophecy coming at you…. be ready. time to put your toe in the water.
