Reply To: Her lover move in during quarantine

Ownership

If ownership continues, what will be dictated by Wayne. Will
he tell you when and how you sleep with Jenn? Will he dictate
your sex lives? Will she be asking him for approval? Will she
report to Wayne if you misbehave? What type of marriage is that?
It seems that control is what Wayne wants. If Jenn works for
Wayne, won’t she be more under his control?

What if Wayne says, “it is time for you and Jenn to divorce,
and you will sign over the house, the farm and the financial
accounts to us…”

In intimate moments, isn’t Wayne telling Jenn: “he never
was good enough for you…”

Questions for you and Jenn:
How will we celebrate our anniversary?
Will Wayne tell us how?
How do you feel about our marriage now?
Do you want to marry Wayne?
How will we celebrate each others birthdays?
How will we celebrate the holidays?

People are mostly motivated by love or fear. In this dynamic
have you been motivated by love? Or fear?

If you have had sleepless nights, loss of appetite, anxiety
and a knot in your stomach, isn’t fear the order of the day?