Re: Alpha Cucks

The problem is you come at it from the perspective that sharing your wife is what equates to being a cuckold when, in reality, it’s the role you play in sharing her that defines your ‘label’.

If you’re in control of sharing her – and share her from a position of authority in the marriage, you’re not a cuckold – you’re being her Dom, basically. Sharing her is an exercise of dominance on your part and submission on hers.

If you prefer to more be the voyeur and let her make the moves/decisions, then you’re taking a submissive role and are essentially her cuckold. Overt, heavy humiliation is never a requirement of cuckolding but rather one of many aspects that couples explore and enjoy as expressions of the experience.

Many men who find they’d prefer the cuckold role find the humiliation that can come with it to be very conflicting and very threatening to their ego. Many will still choose to share her and assert control when and where they can to try and have it both ways. While this is understandable, it’s also counter-productive and cheapens the experience for both spouses.