Buttercup118
Well family and careers come first, and our relationship is not solely based on playtime, we have a very strong, loving, friendship based relationship and our communications with play are limited to little comments here and there to one another, not out loud for others to hear. My confusion is more about where I draw the line with him. He seems to thrive off of my humiliating him and reminding him that I am wanted by several other men. He loves the competitive aspect and loves to be ordered/smacked around and put in his place by me… but Im not sure how much of that to carry out into normal life. I know he prefers that I call the shots, even with something as simple as where we go to dinner… he can’t make decisions for himself. I tell him what I want and I get it, usually. If not, that comes out in play time. 
I am naturally bossy, in my career I have to be, I command respect from the hardest people to gain respect from… children… and I get it whole heartedly because I am a firm but very loving person. I would love to hear from some of your hot wives and hear how much of their real personalities come out in play, how much is over acted in play, or under acted in real life. Besides the bulls I have considered to join us and my cuck no one knows about our involvement in the lifestyle, although I do wear my key and an anklet that is very cute and looks to be for stylistic purposes. I wear a very innocent mask when I am my normal self… I just want to make sure that my cuck doesn’t forget in our every day life that he is my cuck and even though I am his sweet loving girlfriend that I am also his Mistress.