Re: Cuckolds,should we all be very careful with all of this

I do enjoy these morning posts given the time zone difference.

I agree again with what you are saying re different races of people and stereotyping which of course is a wrong thing to do.

Please understand I am not talking about scientific issues here.

Look at what we all have in common at least in the western world. Marriage is still very common and simple boy meets girl romance still takes place. I have grown up children who are very educated and very well travelled between the UK and the USA and other countries, and yet I see no discernible difference between their romantic ties now and when I was young. They seem to strive, in their case for Mr right and cheating even before marriage is a terminal incident.

All I am saying, and I have not got personal on this like you have, is that cuckolding where it is practiced by choice is a fetish a form of sexual entertainment.

There is no scientific  evidence that I know of which eludes to the idea that females need multi partners and are unsatisfied without. There is also no social evidence at least that I know of that indicates pair bonding is ending and multi partner or multi man on woman is taking over.

My original post was a warning to wanabee cuckolds not to fall into a trap where they confuse an affair for something else. A genuine cuckold in the true sense i.e. a man who has a wife who has taken another man, should not take comfort from cuckolding sites like this as these are quite rightly best seen as clubs for people of similar interests i.e. in this case people who like the cuckold fetish. If the wife is having an affair communication is necessary.

I hope this explains my position