Re: giving up sex

Hello groom 2010,

I would be thinking along the lines of “how long is my wife likely to be with her current lover”? A month, 6 months, a year, longer? I know it’s not a question that can be asked directly or answered directly but it’s one you should console yourself with, at least. The likelihood of your wife’s relationship being indefinite is going to be remote I would have thought. Especially if you know that your wife loves you. A ceremony such as what you’re talking about ticks off a big cuckold fantasy I reckon. On the other hand, if the relationship is looking more like a marriage between your wife and her lover then your whole situation needs a complete reappraisal.