nigelcuck
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    Hi Not sure what this is all about now forgive me folks. Just blowing some fresh air into the subject. Surely the purpose of becoming a couple i.e as in a man and a woman together is to share your love for each other at least that is the ideal. Lets look at this. Loving someone is to make them feel whole, make then feel better about themselves than they could do on their own.In case you are thinking I am not some religous intruder in your lifestyle. I have been cuckolded as in my wife had an affair. I did for a while think it could be sexualised. And indeed it can be to a degree.However all the cuckolding and masturbating fantasies in the world will not and cannot replace the love of a good woman, for you meaning, for you and nobody else. You may have a smallish penis and be quite accommodating in your nature , some may call being kind and generous submissive, so be it. But lets smell the coffee here there are some people who actually like kind and generous people in this unforgiving world.Sometimes it is nice just to be valued and everyone is unique and has a value. So where does a cuckold end up in this lifestyle. How can someone drive themselves down sexually and a a person for so long and this not have a real effect on their wellbeing overall. At some point this is for real and you are really the person you imagine you are and there is no going back.Do you want to be that person? Take a step back and think. I dont doubt it is possible your wife could have another sexual partner. I do not doubt she could love both of you or maybe even more men.I do not doubt her or you could have a sexually submissive experience as a turn on. However this would be done as a one off or in a fixed session after which all return to normal.I just think there is a warning to be made here if you keep playing the game long enough it will be for real with dubious consequences. I believe all cuckolds need this debate