Re: My wife doesn’t want to try cuckolding MMF scenario- and I can see why. Any advice?

I think the most note-worthy phrase in there is “She feels that she is only doing it because i want it, and that while it may be enjoyable at the time, she will resent me for making her do it sooner or later.” While this is the case – while she doesn’t appreciate for herself the wonder, the pleasure and the bonding experience such an event can be, you would be well-advised to not pursue this.

One path to take with her is to discuss this idea of her forming an emotional bond with a guy she has sex with. She’s right, that will happen, but she’s wrong in assuming that’s somehow inherently a problem. Women are perfectly capable of caring about more than one male at a time and even loving them while loving them differently, by my fear is this isn’t really her issue. I suspect she may be using it as leverage to ‘ward you off’ of the idea feeling if she emphasizes the emotional risks, you’ll back off. The question is: why does she really want you to back off?

Does she assume that if you let her have another male you’ll expect to be permitted to have another female? Are there other reasons she’s reluctant? Until you know the true reasons she’s opposed, you won’t be able to help her understand why those reasons aren’t really a problem.