Re: Says he is not a cuck, but…

@sinnermike said:
Cuckolds around here are treated as men that are inadequate to the basic task of being a man to their woman.

No, cuckolds are not treated that way here. I’ve worked long to dispel the notion that being a cuckold is a synonym for inadequate. What cuckold inherently means is having a submissive, or at least not leadership role, in the sharing of the wife.

As I’ve said repeatedly in articles and posts on this site and in discussions in the chatroom, there are only two ways to share a wife: from a position of authority or from a position lacking authority. If a husband takes a passive or ‘neutral’ role rather than an obviously submissive one – it’s still not a position of leadership and therefore is still a cuckold role even if/even though it’s not fully expressed or realized.

Many husbands/couples have a negative view of the term cuckold because of the stupid fucking cuckold porn which promotes the misconceptions about cuckolding and it prevents them from accepting and enjoying it for what it is.

Yes, inadequacy plays a role in this lifestyle – sometimes it’s a large factor in a couples choice to pursue this and sometimes it’s a small factor. The reason inadequacy exists as a factor is because it helps create need, urgency, and contrast. As I’ve written about here, cuckolding is a lifestyle based on the recognition, creation and expansion of contrasts – being ‘less’ able to do X is a contrast.

We do NOT see ‘cuckold’ as a pejorative here and anyone using it as such will find themselves unwelcome and fast.