Re: Slightly confused

Hi there,

You’ll see from other Jezz offerings that i consider such private sex to be quite normal at the outset and to feature periodically as your wife choses thereafter. The point is (I would argue) that cuck life here is certainly about submission to her will and in this instance that also seems to serve the launch of the lifestyle. I know that voyeurism is big for some cuck males, perhaps even the primary interest, but that only works well where the wife is inclined to show off with another man. It sort of assumes voyeurism and exhibitionism always coincide. As you may guess they don’t. A woman may have to get comfortable fucking with the other man before you are admitted to the arrangement. Sometimes that doesn’t work out and then you have to accept that she continues to explore other relationships. This is where angst meets trust.

What is important is that your wife finds a safe place to have sex with her suitor. Its not wise (unless she knows him very well) for her to go somewhere that you don’t know about. We’re talking her safety here. I therefore agree neutral territory first and that she tells you when she will be with him, where and when she plans to be back. You might find that arousing, having to wait. But if she doesn’t show and you worry that ill might happen, you know where to go or direct others.

Now for what its worth, some couples thrive on cucking as a voyeuristic thing. But i would see it her way, what seems aesthetic- what allows the other guy to enjoy her. Key to everything is her comfort. That’s a good place to start. Jezz