Re: So near, yet so far.

On the subject of chastity. When we first engaged in this lifestyle..I would have agreed with mat. I am fairly virile too and have no problem holding my own in the bedroom. With my wife or anyone else for that matter. As time progressed and we found ourselves becoming more deeply committed to the cuckold lifestyle, denial and chastity became part of the scene. We found that keeping me denied heightened the excitement and emotional bond between us..and imbued my wife..and her lover with more power and dominance over me. It also gave them both more ammunition to tease me and let me know that she could..he could..yet I couldn’t. They will both laugh and ridicule my raging and usually leaking but redundant erection..which of course appeals to my submissive nature. This is incredibly frustrating and sometimes agonisingly torturous. My erection left to subside on its own..unused and useless. But the feelings and emotions are most certainly enhanced by my omission from both her and indeed even orgasm at all…total denial.

The result is that I am constantly in a frustrated but heightened frame of mind..with only the slightest stimulation..either verbal or physical..to arouse me to an erect and therefore accepting and obedient state.

I do have a cage and will wear it if requested to do so. But I have grown to appreciate the denial and enjoy the feelings and emotions associated with it. So I am voluntarily chaste. As long as my wife has a lover (s) then I honestly do not need the momentary release of orgasm..instead enjoying the indefinite frustration and denial that only a cuckold husband can appreciate,