Re: So near, yet so far.

Hi guys,

Very similar situation here too. The man we chose was very forthcoming with his texts and pictures when he first met us..and I was included all the time. Even if I wasn’t there I would receive texts..pictures and calls.

Now he has his feet under the table so to speak I seem to be excluded and my involvement is pretty much non existant. My wife really likes him and so do I actually, but it seems he isn’t imaginative and the meets seem to be just about him fucking her. I know he texts her as she tells me..but she does think about how much enjoyment I get from the meets also. I have no problem with her seeing him as a boyfriend or fuck buddy..but If I am not feeling the angst and frustration then it does nothing for me. In fact its killed the cuckold scenario for me totally. I am also fully capable of satisfying her or anyone else for that matter. The reason we followed this path was because it enriched our sex lives and indeed our relationship. Far more than being swingers as we both are/were. I am now at a loss as to how to proceed. Do we find a new bull? which is a very time consuming and on the whole fruitless process…or do we let him be a fuck buddy and I return to being a player as I was before…

Dismayed and confused.

Rob