Marriage Evolved discussion Lifestyle Discussions Warning to wanabee cuckolds Re: Warning to wanabee cuckolds

nigelcuck
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    Hi all again, I thought i would add some more thoughts around this having thought about the subject for a long time. There is a lot of chat re dominant males and dominant females and so on, plus a lot of the discussion is in and around these ideas. May I share this, there are no dominant males or dominant females in reality. There are male people and female people. The people bit is universal and applies to 99% of what we do. Males and females are people and 99% of the activities, thoughts etc are the same. I don’t believe there is any difference in the political outlook for example, taking one aspect of life, between a male person and a female person. People are eiher political or not or they are interested in sport or not and so on the sex makes no difference. However there is a difference in the availability of sex between male and females. Females can get as much sex as they desire just by asking. Males cannot as female people can get pregnant therefore there is a caution which the female person must be aware of. The male person therefore would love a situation where he can have as much sex as he wants from a submissive female as this is something he cannot get. The idea of a willing compliant female turns him on and hence passes for domination. There is no such thing as a dominant female in this respect as a submissive compliant man is easily achieved anywhere and most female people can find one. Hence no need to be a dominatrix, there is nothing to be gained from it. Therefore 1% maybe no more of the activity us male and female people get up to is pure fantasy play and role play which is exciting, and cuckolding falls into this. If your female partner wants another man for real outside of fantasy chances are she doesnt want you period. However female people have been socialised form girls to be in competition with other girls for the resource of the available willing and possibly well off man who will spoil them, the prince charming idea. Hence female clothing which can say please look I may be available. The hit rate of attention is the high ladies want. This is no diffenrent to any other competitive activity from sport to slaes the high is in the winning. Therefore social cuckolding can be fun i.e. th elady having unrestricted fun with men and satisfying her desire to be noticed in the highly competitve world of female romance. I will continue but would love comments.