Re: Warning to wanabee cuckolds

I do wish some females would comment as their contribution in this is invaluable. Yes Luvr I do agree with you re the strength of the social conditioning of men and women. Of course there are biological differences between men and women. The man needs to get rid of something and the female has a desire to aquire something. Since the female is the recipient this leads to her assuming physical positions which with the help of gravity will insure the smooth deposit of the sperm. By the very nature of the process and using the anology of a hammer and a nail the hammer is dominant to the nail the nail merely receives the dominant thump of the hammer. Continuing with the anology the nail if it were a female desires to be hit as this insures the nail’s purpose which is safe insertion in the wood. This is biological reality. However it is a reality which has no place for cuckolding at all. Biologically speaking all men should wish to impregnate females and all females shoiud wish to be so impregnated. There should be no cuckolds nor should people be attracted to their own sex. But there are cuckolds and there are people who quite legitimately, and certainly wthout criticism from me , are attracted to their own sex. Why is this ? well who knows ? Personally I believe as you say a lot of this is down to social conditioning. In some societies men and women dress the same. However in our society girls are socialised to dress in a particular way as are boys. Men generally form bonds around certain sports football in the USA and soccer in the UK and universally golf plus motor sports boxing and so on. However there is no reason why any particular male should not like lingerie or wearing the same. He may like the erotic feel of it and so on. Whilst some women only own a small selection of non erotic pants. Some women also like boxing wrestling and male dominated sports to the same and often more of a degree than their male friends. I believe it is somewhere in this social crossover that cuckolding arises. Because ,as I call it female people and male people are not different except in the strict biological sense, there exists a fascination with each other’s social lifestyle. There are few men not turned on by sexy lingerie yet to a lot of women this is just a necessary piece of underwear. There are loads of women who adore male company, the sport talk, the banter and so on. And of coures yes, the social alpha male exists. This is the guy who is good male company probably successful and knows how to compliment women and satisfy their conditioned social yearnings for attention above the other women. These guys can work women well by the use of mild harmless put down and compliment. Statements like you are a woman you would not know the offside rule but you have the most beautiful ass. And the cuckold, well where do I start, I would suggest they are often lonely inward looking and certainly not kings of the male banter club. They can be sensitive but intellectual. Often quite successful as they have chosen careers where there personality is very suited. A woman marrying such a man can expect devotion and sensitivity plus security. They will not desert her for the golf club or the football match. She can absolutely rely on him and her mother will love him. He will not give her however what she needs the social attention of the social alpha male. Women love these bad boys becasuse they know that a compliment extracted from such a man is proabably genuine as he doesn’t have to give it. They also have to work to get him and work at keeping him. They may not however have the stamina to be married to such a guy as he is hard work and other women will follow in his wake. The cheating wife will try to have him on the side and she will be totally addicted to him and not mind. If they find a married one all the better particularly better if he will not leave his wife that means she will not be out competed from where she currently stands.The irony is he may not even be Alpha to his wife only Alpha to her. Socual cuckolding therefore works in that she gets her Alpha with the full knowledge of her husband. However as this post is essentially about warnings there is a warning in this. With practice the shy woman can learn how to handle the Alpha and if she cuckolds her husband enough eventually she will settle with an Alpha male and be very happy. There is no problem with Alpha male thye are what women want ie. socially well connected males who are confident in and out of bed and good company. Many women are happily married to such men. It is just that shy reserved girls take a bit of practice before they can handle this situation and aquire the happiness they desire. Shy reserved girls marry cuckold type males to be on the safe side. So, cuckolds, no there is no hope. or just a little …………….. possibly. There may be some,though very few women who are socially dominant so much so they are not interested in dominant males, to an extent they actually like beta males. I have never met any nor chatted to any on line. I don’t even know if they exist. The shy intellectual reserved cuckold could allow himself to be teased and abused by this goddess who would never leave him as he is what she wants. But , cuckold, if your wife wants and needs Alpha males she will find them and eventually stay with them. Your only other hope is to give up sex or lessen it’s effect in the marriage and try to turn her attention to other things convince her she is morally wrong or something divert her attention in some way. Only hope……………………..