Re: Warning to wanabee cuckolds

Thanks for the compliments Jim-that is very kind. Val sounds a very sophisticated lady, certainly one that has a right to have her desires respected. Reference the last point I suspect that there is a spectrum of female position on humiliation. Some cuckoldresses are definitely into active humiliation and they engineer situations where they can enjoy doing it. They seem signed up to elitist sex and see the downing of the beta male as something that really accentuates that. When they are really aroused they humiliate in private as well as public. At issue then is whether they push toe boundary too far and too fast and the husband snaps. He often needs humiliation, but you can overdose it! So when I am with a wife like that I monitor how she handles her cuck in public. I like the put downs she uses on him, but I might rein the worst excesses in. Its an experience thing.

Many more hotwives are more passive about the humiliation thing. As long as she is getting serviced by the better able and better equipped male, she doesn’t go looking to rub cuck’s nose in it. Its the rut thing, the alpha male has won, cuck has stood aside, so its natural now that the victor enjoys her. She instinctively gives herself to him and knows that this shames her husband, but there is no special need to highlight it. Very intelligent women know when the analysis of the change is ended, and don’t expect husbands to go over old ground. ‘Look, Carl is fucking me now, we’ve agreed that, so let’s get on to other explorations.’ This situation still feeds the cuck humiliation need-he has a very active imagination and knows what every touch, kiss and thrust represents.

I’ll finish on a maturity point Jim. Before I highlighted the importance of the woman’s maturity but that goes for the cuck as well. Val takes what she wants, needs and deserves. But this is facilitated by your consistent love. Well done Sir. There are so few women who enjoy one sustained relationship and you gift Val two. How many women are lucky enough to have a husband who accepts that women instinctively chose and that they are perfectly capable of running with more than one mate! Jezz