Re: Warning to wanabee cuckolds

Hi Mat,
I have made a lot of posts true-and I think the unbridled enthusiasm could seem a tad overwhelming but bear with me-the forum is a new discovery. I guess that I thought that there would be a higher rate of posting from others and that my contributions would then seem in balance. The repost might be to challenge some of my points, or to post alternatives-the more of that the better as it makes the blog so lively. There are probably many perspectives in cuckolding, subtly different ideologies and then it is good to learn about these-arguably one of the functions of a blog.

There is a risk too that the bull position looks more domineering! But rest assured, I think about these things extra hard and I always attend to the couple’s interests as well as my own. I report experience, share reflections, I wouldn’t claim expertise necessarily. One of the attractions of this forum is that Luvr has set up a framework of respect and mutual interest in his guides. It sets a tone and that has encouraged me to post. Its then trying to use language that honestly reflects intelligent assertiveness as a bull-something most couples want. Cuckold lifestyle is about roles, and clear distinctions regarding the same. Beyond that, its hard to switch off your education too. I’ve studied a lot of psychology and am deeply interested in gender and ways of thinking. So the experience and the reflections well up! Fair reflection though and I’m glad that some of my points have seemed useful to you!