Marriage Evolved › discussion › Lifestyle Discussions › what to do? discovered husband’s interest in cuckolding › Re: what to do? discovered husband’s interest in cuckolding
Well, I would probably suggest you ask your husband why the change of heart with his contradictory thoughts. Usually men find it emasculating to not be able to please their wives, for some cucks, I imagine being able to provide a bull for the wife is one way he can please her and if you go to youtube and watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hwXtkmMARM8 it does show that many cuckolded men do love to see their women happy. For my bf its been a fantasy for a very long time and he was ridiculed for it by his exwife. I embraced his fantasies and though they were shocking at first, I had no issues talking with him about them and exploring them for him. The psychology behind cuckoldry is quite in depth and is different for everyone. My bf likes the humiliation aspect, he likes being dominated and he likes the mental challenge of the angst. We are still pretty new to it, we’ve only dabbled in BDSM for a little over a year and just entered the cuckoldry into the relationship a little over a month ago, but things have never been better. He seems to really appreciate that I didnt ridicule him or condone him for his desires, and I appreciate that he loved and trusted me enough to share his darkest secrets with me. Its not always easy to share things with people when you dont know how they’ll react. I suggest talking with him, a lot, several times and try to figure out where the motivation is coming from, what his intentions are (if its to stay fantasy or if he needs that as a reality for him to be satisfied) and what he expects of you. Keep us posted! Good luck!
