Re: Where does it end?

Jack, pleased the thoughts seem of use. Some postscript ideas and then I’ll leave you to explore on.

I reckon the forthright submission to her choice, the acceptance that your wife is his sexually, will seem a huge thrill for her as well as a relief. If she is wise she will remind you again and again what a wonderful, generous, thoughtful, loving and crazy husband you are. She will check that you really mean it and perhaps insist that you tell her bull to his face (or perhaps in a note). The fucking may well intensify as she enjoys this freedom. What will seem tougher is her new demeanour. She may preen, dress better, strut, the aphrodisiac of feeling a alpha female in a alpha relationship is extreme. The angst quota goes up when she sleeps over elsewhere more and more. So keep engaged with this, ask to prepare her clothes, to roll on her stockings and clip them to her suspender belt. Signal your submission and reinforce her sense of being elite. There is a frisson in that for many women and they then discover they need this too. It keeps you in the picture and that is key in a cuckolding lifestyle. Don’t let that go…

The baby thing is such a major step. It must not be taken without huge forethought and that over time. Instinct is a powerful thing and once your exclusion from pussy is absolute, it can be very tempting to think of her womb as his to fill as well. The urge to conceive during ovulation weeks can be intense and especially if the bull seems a rounded as well as a physical male. She starts to picture herself suckling his baby, being out with him and their child in certain social settings. If he seems interested in making a sustained commitment, you find her opening discussions about that. ‘You would support my boyfriend wouldn’t you, accept him openly as the father of my baby.’ But beware the other risk, that if he shows commitment she decides that it is really best for you to move out (see above my points about intelligent bulls-this is not a game). This is then a conversation way ahead and one that should only be contemplated when the new lifestyle is stabilised-you have found an alternative role in your marriage and you are relating openly, honestly and submissively to her boyfriend as well. Manage the public menage a trois thing first to avoid chaos. Remember the psyche problem she has with sharing her body with two men.