A Wife’s Response

I’ve written this response several times. Each time trying to edit it down from a lengthy essay on our marriage. Trying to stay within the “meat” of our story.
If anyone wants the longer version or has questions, I would be happy to expand in private conversation.
So here goes, hopefully, the final draft.
I find that I have to respond to the messages and posts he has made here.

I won’t rehash what David has posted or replied to in private messages.

David is my rock. We’ve supported each other through heartache and pain. I couldn’t imagine a life without him.

Dean is what David is to me in the physical sense.
He’s my Marlboro Man. My bad boy. And I love him just as much as I love my husband. Differently.
I know David hates to hear this but Dean has the stamina and technique that David never had.
He doesn’t hesitate to bend me over the car on a evening drive. Put me on my knees in the parking lot of a club.
He grabs my hair and guides me wherever he wants. He leaves red marks on my ass when I’ve been bad.
Wobbly kneed after a hard night of sex.
I have my sexual needs met and then some.
And then I go back to my husband and live my domestic life.
After careful thought and discussion with both, I have decided that to give Dean ownership. I will be on-call for certain situations.

I also want him to own David and I as a couple. I’ve read an article on here that takes the porn aspect out of this and sets realistic standards to ownership.
Dean has agreed to own me but we are still working out what it means to own David. Both men are heterosexual.
But I kind of like the idea of David doing certain things to prove his submission to Dean.
David is a bit hesitant too.

I would love to hear honest and real situations from those of you who have chosen this in your marriage.
I would especially love to hear from the wives on how this has affected their marriage.