A Winning Combination?

Thanks Motley.

Hi Glasgow982000,

To be honest, I could spill the beans a little more but to what end? If it’s titillation you’re looking for, you may be better off on something like Literotica.com perhaps. I’ve been on this site for many years and I know that it’s a well respected site, full of very useful resources and guidance and such. If there’s anything you think I may be able to help you with in your own quest, ask away!

The follow up date is pencilled in for Friday 26th, which I think is well timed. This one is potentially going to be a quickie for her but an over nighter isn’t ruled out yet. I’d much prefer for her to return home soon after. I want the chance to offer to go down on her and to get a taste of her well used body!

There has been a mention of her new friend everyday since their hook up and always excites me. All I can say is that I’m glad I have a cage on or I would be edging myself into oblivion! If all goes well again, I think my birthday idea will go down well with them both. If you haven’t read my idea, it’s over on the Submissive Husbands forum. It should be easy enough to find.

We’re 4 days away from my wife’s 2nd coupling with her “FWB” and as you can imagine, my mind is ramping up the activity as the date draws closer. The topic of her cuckolding me has been brought up on quite a few occasions since her first meet with her new man. Sometimes serious, sometimes light-hearted teasing but either way, always exciting for me. My wife is looking to the future too, albeit a short term future and she’s making decisions without any influence whatsoever from me. Although she is consulting me very frequently about things but I think that that is for the benefit of her confidence, which is absolutely perfect for me. Anything to boost my wife’s experience in this new found dynamic!

My wife is very confident that her new man is going to remain exclusive to us and as she’s never been a fan of condoms, she’s picked up the contraceptive pill for a month. This can be easily renewed online should things continue in a positive manner, although if they do, it is more than likely that she will visit the family planning clinic and have the Coil implanted again. The pill is only reliable if you run it like clockwork where as the Coil, you can just forget about it. So my wife has every intention of going bare with her man and this excites me greatly. I’m praying that they go from strength to strength. That they develop a physical bond and my own bond with my wife is reduced to that of physical comforting and spiritual support for her new relationship. I want her to become accustomed to his body and his sperm. So much so that she becomes dependent on it.

We have talked about how everything is filling her mind more than she’s been used to, and so she’s not rushing anything. The idea of this becoming more than just a “FWB” type relationship is just not appealing to my wife yet, although I am hoping that with each passing coupling, something a little more develops. It would be my dream for them to become a dating couple. Meals out, cinema nights, concerts, social events etc. Maybe even weekends away together? But, I must keep my dreams in check and remain in the real world for now and enjoy every moment for what it is. A bit of fun for us all.

I really can’t describe how happy we are right now. Just talking about Friday’s coupling has both grinning from ear to ear. The kissing between us both is electric! And when I ask my wife if she is still looking forward to the date and I get, I’m REALLY REALLY looking forward to it” from her and her eyes are wide and bright, it really excites me!

She has decided that she will take only two miniature bottles of wine with her so that she can really experience the pleasure of her FWB’s cock and efforts and she’s hoping he will take a leaf from her book by doing similar. Now that the ice is broken, the need for the numbing effects of alcohol is just not anywhere near as necessary this time around. The two of them can only benefit from it too. To feel every square millimeter of each other’s bodies and to have that electricity of first and second time intimate coupling is what should be on everyone’s mind. That kind of thing has my dick straining in it’s chastity device and leaking cuck tears.

In the words of one of Madonna’s songs, time goes by so slowly!

Well it is approaching 7am and the last contact that I had with my wife was 10 hours ago, via WhatsApp. She wrote, “Love you. Thinking of you while I’m having fun. Xx”. I responded with a couple of loving emojis but that wasn’t acknowledged until a couple of hours later. The fact that she is still there suggests that they were enjoying each other enormously and in a much more sober manner.

I can’t wait to hear from her!

It got to around 10am and I hadn’t heard from my wife so I thought I’d send a tongue in cheek question. Keeping it vague so that she could decide how much of an answer she gave. Check out the screenshot! Oh my!! I love my wife and can’t wait to see her come through the door, beaming from ear to ear!!

My wife is currently napping in our sun drenched conservatory. Absolutly shattered for all the right reasons. On her drive back home, she couldn’t express enough how happy she was with the sex between her and her new FWB! They’d chatted for a few hours and enjoyed a small amount of drinks over a few hours. My wife remained pretty sober throughout and C (we’ll call him) measured his drinking too. From 10pm until around 2am, it was pretty much non-stop sex for them. She told me how she now realises that he is brilliant fuck. He knows how to tease her with his superior cock in just the right ways and how he knows how to give her just what she needs and when she needs it.

Due to the cramped conditions on the boat, I was told that apart from the morning sex that they had, it was all missionary with LOTS of passionate kissing, which she likes a LOT too. She lost count of the number of times that he brought her to incredible climaxes! And this morning, they awoke and had incredible sex again. Starting with my wife going down on his cut cock for a while. He definitely has problems ejaculating when the under the influence it seems but this morning, my wife brought him close enough with her mouth before jumping on his cock and riding him to both their orgasms and her first experience of him cumming inside her. He complimented my wife on her oral skills, lamenting how she gave the best he had ever had!

They have decided that their arrangements are to continue. No date has been set yet but once more, it can’t come soon enough for me. I have floated the idea of me treating her to a nice Italian meal at a restaurant that I know of that is part of a hotel for her birthday in a month’s time.
The hotel/restaurant are only a mile or so from where C’s home is moored. Her face lit up when I suggested that I get the pleasure of taking her for a birthday meal but C will have opportunity to use the hotel room for the night with her, providing her with birthday sex while I drive home. Only returning the next day to pick her up. Fingers crossed for that one!

I hope that tonight my wife will release my aching dick and maybe give it a nice edging while going into more details of last night. Once again, I couldn’t be happier with the way things are going currently and my wife has expressed how lucky she feels to have a husband that is happy for his wife to seek sexual satisfaction from another man. I love her more than I thought possible right now!

Hi Ricky.

Thanks for the input. I have accepted your friend request by the way.

Believe me, I am letting my wife dictate the pace of everything. I have to. We agreed to a FLR and all that comes with it. I must just simply support and encourage her choices. And where I get an opportunity to have some input, then I will for sure!

There are a couple of flys in ointment in terms of her developing things beyond a FWB dynamic but I’m not going to go into that here. That’s not for public divulging. But it is early days yet, let’s say. The thought of them dating, out and proud is such a thrilling one. The restaurant/hotel idea I thought would be a good way of opening that door for them a little. And it really would show him my willing for their relationship, but that idea is still being kicked about by my wife. It’s a wait and see for that one.

I love to buy my wife clothes and lingerie. Unfortunately for me, my wife hates the whole shopping experience. She knows what she likes and she orders most things online and usually from Next. I’ve been pretty good over the years with my choices for her though. Only on a couple of occasions has she not really liked what I bought for her. She really detests the idea of expensive lingerie though. Buying it herself or having it bought for her. She just doesn’t see the point of it. I will get her some for the restaurant/hotel date if she agrees to that. I’ll just have to down play the price.

I like the idea of your wife having a separate wardrobe that only he lover gets to see. That’s commitment to the cause right there!! Maybe if things go well, we can enjoy similar experiences to the ones you have. Keep your fingers crossed!

Well I didn’t expect to be going into that conversation soon after waking, but I suppose it was as good a time for it as any.

With or without the contraceptive pill, the whole dynamic has been very much present in my wife’s mind. Sometimes it’s joyous recollections, sometimes it’s doubt and other times curiosity. Last night she wanted some passion from me (including sex), so I gave it my all…..for about 2 minutes until I finished with my usual disappointing orgasm but it was about my wife wanted. This morning my wife woke a little time before me and once more, she went off in her head to that cuckolding place, so when I awoke, she wanted to talk about it. It was probably more of an affirmation than anything though. A stop check to confirm that we are doing the right thing and to reassure that we love each other and that love will only be between my wife and I……..and how to avoid it becoming between my wife and the two men in her life. She agreed that she was thinking far too much into things and getting way ahead of herself, but as she had been there in her head, let’s talk about it. I pointed out the glaringly obvious hurdles to my wife and her FWB falling for one and other that have been there from before we got started. He lives on a narrow boat, has a slight dependency on alcohol and a certain level social anxiety (maybe connected, maybe not) that make him anything but good boyfriend material.

We talked about these issues and I reminded her that she has only seen him twice and there is also a chance that he has revealed all the lovemaking tools that he has at his disposal, possibly revealing him to be extremely vanilla in his sexual outlook. I reiterated that they need to utilise hotels. Get him out of his comfort zone, literally and metaphorically, where there is space for the wilder sex that my wife craves and if that works out and he does have more skills in his bag, then that’s a bonus.

This kind of led to the part of the discussion about how all good things must come to an end. Deep down, I know I don’t want any of this to end. I want it to go from strength to strength. I’d love nothing more than for my wife and her FWB to become more of a dating type dynamic but as mentioned, the not insignificant issues are going to make that transition very doubtful so in the meantime, and I said this in our conversation, my wife should try and put any and all negative aspects to this dynamic to one side and just enjoy the great sex she is getting from him and treat it for what it is. Simply three adults enjoying consensual sex together in way or another and nothing more. My wife can’t help herself from thinking that one day, it has to end though and finding another guy that will tick all the right boxes is going to be impossible. She can’t see yet that however long this relationship lasts, it can only strengthen her confidence to seek out other men if and when this particular relationship fizzles out. Perhaps even better men are out there for her. Better cocks, better lovers, dominants etc. I’m hoping that if right now, we’ve only got one door open on this journey of sexual exploration and my wife is already liking what she’s found, that it will only embolden her to try more doors, more men and to get out there and find the next perfect match and subconsciously, she’s thinking along those lines too. Spending £300 (nearly $400) to have the contraceptive Coil fitted, that will last for 10 years is some commitment to extramarital sex.

My wife has said that in all liklihood, she is going to dig a little deeper into his psyche. He is well aware that she is married. She mentions me fairly frequently in the conversations but so far, all their conversations have been quite superficial. No deep and meaningfuls. Well it’s time to go a little deeper and talk more of kinks and fetishes. To find out how much he knows of cuckolding, hotwifing, swinging etc. I don’t care what anybody says, her FWB has to have done a little researching on the subject since this all began. He asked her about her tattoo, a BDSM emblem, and she told him. So again, if he didn’t already have some BDSM knowledge, I’m pretty sure he would have looked it up. I mean he used to be a Stripper so he must have heard of some BDSM elements during his stripping days. He just can not be that vanilla, that innocent. It can’t be possible. Once that conversation is had, we should be able to address the occasional interaction/involvement between him, my wife and me.

They have agreed to meet again in the next couple of weeks or so and I’m going to try and persuade my wife to make it birthday sex in the hotel that I will be pay for. I’ve already floated the idea to her and if she can lure him out of his crib for the night, it’ll be on. Fingers crossed for things to continue in the right direction!

Hi TransStar,

So far, he’s checking all the right boxes off and hopefully, someday soon, he’ll check off the “communicates with husband” box.

Well, today is the day that my wife heads to a private clinic to have the contraceptive coil fitted (almost $400) so that she can finally experience completely, unadulterated sexual release. After her first coupling with her FWB, she resorted to the Morning After pill and after that, bought the contraceptive pill online and that played havoc with her hormone. One minute she was on cloud 9 and the next minute she was confused and very sad. No way to go through life.

We touched on the subject briefly last night and she confirmed that she is excited to see C again. Excited to experience the 10/10 sex once more and to generally just be in his relaxing company. We’re still a full week away from that but just hearing her voice when talking about it, her unbridled enthusiasm is such a turn on for me.

It will be her 39th birthday in 20 days and so I will be doing everything to encourage her sleeping with C on or around her birthday and in comfortable hotel room at my expense. I can’t tell you how much I’m enjoying all this and only wish we could have had this amount of fun 12 years ago!

Less than a week to go to date 3 and my wife is getting excited for it. The 10 year contraceptive coil is in and settled and the only thing that scupper her plans is for her period to show up any time now, so fingers crossed, that doesn’t happen!

Apparently he will be cooking them a meal on this occasion. All very cosy and less FWB like and more date like! Just thinking that and typing it makes my dick stir somewhat! I really hope that the impossible happens and they start acting more like couple with each other. As I’ve outlined before though, due to his circumstances and personal character traits, I do think that the meal cooking is a just a convenient way to show some appreciation for the sex he had been getting without resorting to spending money on a restaurant and venturing beyond the safe confines of his boat. I am just guessing there though.

Our youngest child is possibly going to be going to her grandparents for an overnight stay on the same night, so there is is half a chance that I could get myself to a fairly close proximity of my wife and her FWB and catch a small sound show at least? I won’t be able to make that call until the night itself but the thought has definitely crossed my mind.

Apart from that, I’m hoping that my wife does start the conversation about me and how the dynamic needs to turn in to a 3 way relationship so fingers crossed for that too!

I can’t wait for the details!

OK, so I’ve just had a debrief conversation with my wife as she travelled back (to work unfortunately for me) and all the signs are positive. Not much changed in terms of the kind of sex they had but her FWB is consistent if nothing else. Consistent in giving her the sex she needs and is growing to love and it’s the kind that I can’t compete with. For a start, he has me beat in the girth stakes and my wife just told me that she can feel the aftermath of their coupling. That’s something that she has never said about our sex. She said that just talking about things like that got her all tingly too. I told her that it gives me the tingles when she tells me things like that! He’s definitely doing things to her insides that I could never do.

We got on to the subject of her feeling bad for me again. I reminded her that at for now, if the bare minimum I get is titillation from hearing about their coupling and the occasion edging from her, then I’m happy! Any more is a bonus. Foreplay without the intercourse, outercourse etc. I’m not going to lie, I was getting excited and hard just hearing some of the details and what it does to her when she thinks back to the sex and she can look forward to more of it too. THAT really excites me.

Because of the industry we work in and some of the practices of the industry (hotels), my wife is going to organise a hotel for them both, in a neutral city that will happen one day after her birthday, and unless something comes up, he has no objection to the plan. So she will be able to go the whole way in glamming herself up for him and they’ll be able to enjoy more space and comfort for their sex together. They will be able to enjoy a restaurant meal together beforehand if they like. It’s not entirely what I had in mind but it excites me no less and my wife is excited about the fourth coupling too. It also turns out that the arrangement they have been enjoying is something that her FWB is beginning to enjoy and relax more with.

They touched briefly on relationships and dynamics last night and a full blown girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is not something is looking for. It doesn’t want that level of connection. It’s too much. He’s very happy to have my wife as occasional, slightly regular company and to have some sexual intimacy and release with. I think that their sexual organs are really becoming accustomed to each other. Hopefully this will mean that I will one day become cut off from intercourse of any kind, completely from my wife. Related to that, my wife said that after her birthday coupling with him, she will take a month break from him. This is to loosen any bond that may be developing between them. I assured her that if that is what she wants to do, I will completely support her but I also told her that having some regularity means that she has something sexually positive to look forward to with clockwork frequency, which I don’t think is a bad thing for her.

They did have a conversation kinks too. It turns out that he is a little coy of confessing his darkest secrets so soon but he does have a little swinging experience and so isn’t completely green about things. He doesn’t really have a dominant side to him unfortunately. Just a damn good cock and a damn good method of use with it, but as he is becoming more relaxed with things, I’m confident that direct involvement in some way between myself and him IS on the cards. I think if I haven’t had any direct involvement after the next couple of meets, I will step up and introduce myself in some fashion and start with a thank you to him for looking after my wife.

From my perspective, so far, so good!

You need to spend more time on the Literotica site. You would really enjoy it over there.

Hi everyone. Sorry for my absence over the last couple of weeks or so. Just to update you, my wife is currently, as I type this out, with her FWB on his boat and I have already had message back about an hour ago that read, “Thinking about you….. whilst having fucking epic sex! Xxx”. I’m hoping that I get another before I head of to sleep and hopefully it’ll be similar to the earlier one.

I’ll try and update you tomorrow when my wife is home and napping. She likes a nap to catch up on lost sleep from all the great sex from the night before.

Finally managed to find a few minutes.

My wife had arranged a hotel meet with her FWB at the end of March. Had it panned out, it would have been a nice birthday treat for her but in the end, it wasn’t to be. He cancelled a few days ahead. Thankfully, no deposit on the hotel room had been paid of petrol put in the tank. The room was going to cost nothing (a loophole/benefit of working in the hotel industry) thankfully but did leave my wife feeling frustrated to say the least. Every dark cloud has a silver lining though, right?

This hiccup allowed my wife and I to take stock a little. To reflect on the situation and in the end, we remembered that nobody is beholden to anyone and that any one of us could call it quits at any given time. So cherish the good times and………that’s it. Just enjoy things for what they are and lower expectations to more realistic levels. Disappointments are going to be less frequent with that kind of mindset.

Fast forward a week or so and new plans were made. The usual arrangement though. My wife travels to him, they remain on the boat, chat, relax, maybe a drink or two and loads of great sex. In preparation, my wife bought new underwear for the occasion. She had a new dress that she wanted to test out too. Both items got little attention from her FWB. When the time came, the underwear was quickly dispatched to the floor with little or no time for admiration. The sex part of the evening started earlier too, so the effects of alcohol made no impression on them, which was a bonus. It was more of the same kind of goings on though. Lots of missionary, lots of kissing and my wife rode him more this time. He still couldn’t cum though. Not until the morning fun started and my wife gave him one of her blowjobs. He came then though and again complemented her oral skills. At some point in the proceedings, my wife straddled his face and according to her, he’s pretty good at oral also. This guy has the talents it seems. Oh to find out what he would be like with more room to romp around in!

I got a WhatsApp message quite early in the evening and it just said, “thinking about you while I have lots of really great sex. Xxx”. That was it though. I didn’t hear from her again until the next day when she was on her way home. I was busy doing something though and after a little chat, it was decided that we would continue the debrief upon her return home. When she returned, we had hug and did some kissing ourselves and she did taste different. 40 minutes prior, she had taken his cum in her mouth. I couldn’t say what the kiss tasted like but it was definitely different. We tried to talk about her night but we kept getting interrupted by our daughter so it was going to be a bedtime discussion in the main but we did touch on a couple of things.

They did discuss me a little more. Along the lines of, “Is Matt still OK with things?” So that was a yes and with a little further discussion, my wife came to the conclusion that her FWB was practically vanilla in his sexual outlook and the bad news for me is that in all liklihood, me being in the same room anytime is just not going to happen. Being in the general vacinity is going to be unlikely too. So I suggested an open ended phone call. She calls me at an opportune moment, doesn’t talk but just leaves the phone on the side so I can listen in. But it’s finding that moment. The idea of her saying, “let me just call my hubby so he can get his rocks off” just as they’re getting going just isn’t going to work. My wife knows that I need some form titillation to keep this 3-way dynamic alive and we discuss ending things if she was sure that he couldn’t be brought into our marriage some more and ending things is a serious option. But I love how happy and full of joy and sexually satisfied she is when she comes home so for now, unless that changes, we’re going to carry on for a while. Who knows. Maybe (hopefully) he can come out of his anxiety a little more.

Later on in bed, after releasing me from my chastity device, I was given a loving and long edging session by my wife’s hand at first before moving onto PIV missionary edging. A little dirty talk thrown in helped things along very nicely. I did say to my wife that as long as she is happy to continue getting the sexual servicing from her FWB, then I am happy too, but I do need this physical teasing to make it worth while for me. She could cut me off from PIV stimulation but I definitely need physical stimulation of some kind. Hearing this was delightful to her and so it shall be this way……at least for a while.

Right now, there’s a high probability that my wife’s FWB is balls deep inside my wife on this, her 5th visit to him. Slightly different this time as it’s not a weekend night and she has work tomorrow. Fortunately, her position in the company that she works in allows her the privilege of working from home occasionally. It also means that she can take her sweet time getting home as she works to her own schedule and demands.

This morning as I left for work, my wife was getting ready for work in the usual way, only today, she wore a skirt, a Hawes & Curtis satin pussybow blouse, suspenders and stockings and t-bar stilettos. My favourite kind of look on a woman and I’m quite sure that her FWB will be quite appreciative too! I’d like to think that the at least the heels are still on while he’s fucking her ways that I can’t. Filling her fuller that I absolutely can’t and I really think that my wife is getting quite comfortable with our arrangementt/dynamic.

We discuss her FWB with some regularity. It can be related to their connected work or it will be related, to their sexual chemistry but the conversation is easy often but without it being obsessive or worrying and I think that we both share the same perspective in that regard.

The dynamic and nuances of it are slightly different to how imagined it would be. The chastity element is inconsistent but that has it’s plus and negative sides. The plus sides being that my wife is more likely to indulge me with some physical teasing if my dick is free and easy and edging is just so much more exciting when done by her. It also means that I can edge a little when time and circumstances afford me it. As easy as it is to wear my current device, day-to-day life is a little easier without it too. Working and especially my bike riding benefit from things being loose. Negatives of not being locked are things like not being constantly reminded of the kind of relationship that we are in. Constantly? Perpetually I mean! Haha!! That’s about it really.

What I am loving is how relaxed and enjoyable things have been getting for my wife. We’re coming to the end of the, “well this is quite weird” stage and entering into a very relaxed, “what will be, will be” plain of thinking. Not in a devil may care type of attitude but more like a natural state of mind. Things are just humming along nicely. The strange thing being, that that state of naturalism is actually quite thrilling to me and whilst there isn’t the creampies, the photo’s or videos and the various other peripheral elements often associated with cuckolding, I know that tomorrow evening, my wife and I will enjoy some intimacy together ourselves and it will be electric when we’re touching each other and the liklihood of me cumming or being made give her every ounce of me, seems to be slowly waning.

That’s where we are at.

It was 10:40pm-ish when I messaged my wife to say that I was hoped that she was having a great time and getting lots of the good sex she’s come to expect from her FWB. It was roughly midnight when she responded with “Round three already 😀😘 Xx” and then 4 hours later came the next message saying she hadn’t slept at all and would likely have to pull a sick day as she would be too exhausted to get any of her work done and would need to recuperate. I was asleep when both messages landed in my phone and didn’t pick them up until shortly after 5am. I immediately began to get aroused whilst reading the messages and began edging. I responded with a message saying that if she was going to completely scrap the work day, she may as well spend some more time with her FWB and get some more of his sex.

I hope she does spend some more time than planned there this morning. Maybe get breakfast/lunch together and top things off with more sex before coming home to me? Now there’s a horny thought!!

As I was typing that last update, I received a message from my wife and a very short video of her surroundings. The message read, “Up at 5:44 edging. Very naughty. I kinda like the thought of you edging while I’m out getting fucked. 😉

We have just enjoyed some phenomenal morning sex and now he is dozing while I cuddle up to him. I might go back to sleep myself.

😘😘😘

I love you xxxxxx”

What a wife!!

How many stories and memes must I have read and seen on Literotica, Tumblr and BDSMLR about wives catching feelings for their regular FWB? The whole kissing and cuddling and time spent together resulting in emotional bonds and attachments? This sort of cuckolding has always resonated with me and struck chords within me that have resulted in huge excitement, but it always seemed so unlikely. We had very serious conversation yesterday afternoon when I returned home from work and again in the evening in bed. My wife has been self aware enough to see signs of feelings blossoming between her and her FWB and thought it a good idea to discuss things now, rather than later.

There has been a combination of elements that have culminated in this situation. The first being the obvious one. Great sex. The kind of sex that has been missing in our relationship for some time. That raw, basic instinct type, animal attraction style sex. Throw in a cock that fills her more than my own and does things to her in different ways that mine can’t and voila! But there has also been other elements of their intimacy that have contributed to these feelings my wife has discovered.

The constant close proximity to each other when they have been together. His safety net or comfort zone of his small house boat means that even during regular conversation, they are practically on top of each other. Lots of unavoidable touching when passing each other there. Perhaps to bathroom or to make something in the kitchen area or going outside for a smoke. When they are in bed, it’s a small bed meant for one person so they are constantly intertwined with each other to prevent someone literally falling out of bed. That’s front to front or spooning between episodes of intercourse. Their bodies becoming so very accustomed.

Then there is the increased frequency of interaction when not together. Beit for work purposes or just in innocuous like on a Facebook or Instagram (they’re friends/following each other) or comment on a posting. It has all come together to form those feelings that all new couples go through in those early days when they realise that the numbers add up VERY well. And upon hearing my wife’s confessions, I could just feel myself getting happy and more tellingly…..hard!

I couldn’t tell my wife fast enough that the words coming from her mouth were exciting to hear. She was actually expecting me to say to her that now would be a good time to break it off between them. It turns out that she already had gone ahead and told him that the brakes were being pumped hard on their relationship but not completely halted. She told him that she needed a few weeks of thinking space. Time to recalibrate. About 3 weeks of absolute minimal contact. That contact being for business purposes only. Social media contact being zero. She hasn’t unfriended/unfollowed her FWB but she’s “muted” the connections. All she has to do for her own piece if mind, is to resist the temptation to have a look to see what he has been doing with himself. To keep him at arms length. Maybe when she has had that time to reflect, time to calm down and think rationally about things instead of with emotions, she can make a decision about their future. What my wife says that she wants, is that ability to separate the emotion from the act. Much like men seem to be more capable of. So that’s the plan. Take a step back and reorganise mentally.

What hasn’t helped her is my insistence that whatever she chooses to do, I will support her 100%. As I have done since day one of our marriage. Of course I would be disappointed if she broke things off but as it stands, with her current outlook, it is my wife that is the one that is going to be hurt the most if things are ended. Her FWB will very quickly reset. I will get over the disappointment quite well and quite quickly but my wife has been having the time of her life! Fantastic sex with a guy she has the serious hots for, different mental stimulation that she has been enjoying and then being able to come home to me and warm and enthusiastic embrace and all the rock solid constants that she appreciates from me. Not to mention the reinvigorated passion that we are sharing lately.

One of the things I have said to my wife is that as long as communication remains strong between us on the subject, then I think that we can work through anything. It’s when things start getting held back that problems arise. The little secrets. My wife said that she actually doesn’t want to give her FWB up. She enjoys every thing they have together. His seemingly inability to venture beyond the confines if his houseboat for anything other than absolute necessary work. She loves the way he not only fucks her, but the way he makes love to her. His passion for her. His kisses, the way he holds her close and tight. Both during sex and between bouts of sex. They converse easily now. Any awkwardness is almost nonexistent now. She likes how he cooks meals for her, she likes how she can smell him on her when she is on her way home. She so SO sexually satisfied by him, she can’t believe it! And I don’t want her to give any of that up if it’s making her happy. She has my unyielding love and support that she knows only I can give her and if he can live with her leaving him every time to return to me and her HOME, then I’m happy for her to have a different love with him.

Last night, we enjoyed each other again as we discussed things. I was allowed to edge inside her and she felt different. She was very wet and definitely a little looser. Her FWB will have spent more time inside my wife during their 5 meets over 3 months than I have in that time. As we were making our new kind of love, I asked her who’s cum did she want inside of her the most. Until last night, she has wanted me to finish inside her and preferably by way of me having a full orgasm. Almost like she needed her husband to take her back? Last night though, she didn’t want me to cum at all. She said that she wants only his cum inside her. I want that too and I hope when they next get together (fingers are crossed that her emotions win over her rationale) that I can cum inside her without the aid of her exceptional oral skills!

I have never been so in love with my wife as I have today!

My wife is on her way home and has been giving me the low down on last night’s hotel meet with C. It’s been 4 week since they last met and few little wrinkles in plans but they’ve been ironed out. The hotel was one under my wife’s Sales control and he was there as a performer for an event booked by my wife. So there was some concern about the wrong people being in the know or suspecting my wife of having an affair or at the least, a one night stand with the star performer. Any concerns went out of the window after a few drinks had been downed!

The initial plan was for my wife to go to to work and then wind down for a few hours and prepare for C’s arrival at her room when he’d finished his act. In the end. Before he’d even begun though, he visited her in her room, but only to say hello and to grab a quick kissing session. A little later, as his performance got going, she went down to see how things were going but with no intention of sitting and staying. Some colleagues who were there as paying spectators invited her to their table though and so a glass or two of wine were consumed. Then there was some dancing and then the main set finished and C’s duties become those of a party DJ so he could start to relax a bit. Him and his business partner joined my wife and they all began to socialise.

As the night wore on into the early hours, hand-holding at the bar and kissing began to increase in frequency. Things are getting a little more public! I’m happy for this development but I wasn’t expecting it to occur on the premises of one of my wife’s business interests. But it’s happened now and we can only wait to see what happens, if anything, in terms of gossip. Come what may though, my wife told me that she enjoyed to moments and the night of sex/love making that followed.

C’s partner is fully aware of their dynamic now. As strange as it seems, C’s business partner is female and also doubles up as his best friend. My wife and I are still a little puzzled at how it’s remained platonic between them as his partner clearly adores him and will do anything for him. They take small vacations together too. He invited my wife to join them on their last one a little over a 2 weeks ago but my wife declined, feeling it was a little odd. But after last night, she feels she would be more comfortable accepting such invitations. It turns me on thinking how that could develop. Possibly into small weekends away between just my wife and C? I would be more than happy for them to go down that route.

They discussed their relationship some more and my wife told C that he can make the first move if he wishes as she felt things were getting a bit one sided in the chase. He being who he is said that he was shit at organising himself and dates when he was free but my wife responded by telling him that short notice was not a problem for her. All she needs is a text message the day before and she can shuffle things around. Maybe even shorter notice than that!!

I like the way things are moving. Developing a relationship of sorts with hints of romance in it is the stuff of my cuckold dreams. I’m going to start dreaming of them in our bed here at home and on vacations together!

I feel like I’m living the dream these days. My wife and I spent the weekend together on city break away. It was my 47th birthday on Sunday but we got the celebrations rolling on Friday. We checked into the Novotel Hotel and my wife had told them it was my birthday so they upgraded our room to an executive. Much better appointed and with more space. We decided early on that we do the drinking on the Friday night to get it over and done with and the rest of the weekend could be spent recovering/relaxing.

We have penchant for Rock and heavy metal music so we located the bar that was exclusively rock/heavy metal themed and the drinks started flowing. We talked about our music experiences, dug deeper into the memories about concerts and festivals and what not, until finally, our conversation turned to C. I’m going to cut to the chase here or you’ll be reading all day. My wife mentioned that a friend had confided in her that she had been sleeping with another guy behind her very long term partner’s back. Maybe only 2 or 3 times per year but it had been going on for 5 or 6 years. My wife had obviously talked about what we were doing and her friend offered her some advice. Be careful not to fall in love, because she had herself developed deep feelings for the guy, even though they saw each other very infrequently. What was not infrequent was the messaging between them. This is where my wife began to confess that the feelings she thought she had for C a couple of months back, instead of being put in a box and packed away, had developed further. Especially after their last encounter that included public displays of affection.

My wife went on to explain that she was actually falling in love with C. She told me how it was different to we have as married couple though. She explained that it was like having a girlfriend that she could sleep with and with no regrets or embarrassment after the event. I must tell you before going any further that one of her best friends has slept with my wife on several occasions and there has been no trouble following. It’s just a thing that happens from time to time. They meet up, have a drink, get up to date on their lives, talk turns to kink events that have transpired or are coming up and before they know it, they’re enjoying each other physically. And my wife has likened C to this friend. Someone she can talk with, laugh with, put aside her home life and then have incredible sex with him. Wake up the next day thoroughly refreshed and return home to me. Her loving, doting husband. Her carer, her true confident, her partner in life and soul mate.

My wife went on to consider him as a genuine boyfriend. They were slowly developing into just such a dynamic between them and although she is aware that if he called the sex off, that would be a bullet she would have to bite, she would still consider him a very good friend that she would like to remain in contact with. And just like her female friend that she has slept with, if the occasion was to present itself, she could sleep with him again without fear of condemnation or embarrassment.

All this talk had me very excited and straining in my chastity device. I was so happy, excited and deeply in love with my wife that night. When we returned to the hotel, she released me from my device and edged me several times before we finally went to sleep. The next day we discussed events further. My wife plans on asking C if he would like to go away for a weekend together with her. Maybe a secluded lodge with a hot tub, Friday to Sunday, just the two of them so that they can spend some quality time together without my wife worrying about getting home to me and the kids. They could go to a tourist type location, see sights, take lunch and a restaurant together or whatever. All without the constraint of time hanging around their necks.

Another thing we talked about was the possibility of C not genuinely believing that my wife has a husband that fully on board with her having a boyfriend/lover. So when they next get together, I’m to call my wife to ask her something. Just a brief a call but I’m to say something along the lines of “Sorry to bother you while you are with C” or, “I hope you’re having a nice time with C”, and she will have the volume up so that he hears it.

Going back to the friendship thing, my wife has said that as long as things go good, she has the intention of inviting him to her 40th birthday party next March. For obvious reasons, the public displays of affection are going to have to be curbed for the duration but afterwards, they can retire to a hotel or if we can get our eldest child to go to his grandparents with his younger sister, they can go back to our house to have intimate birthday celebrations.

As we discussed all these things, I was again edged several times, pegged and given a ruined orgasm and then edged some more. What a birthday weekend I had. The best to my memory. And the icing on the cake is that she is seeing C again on Friday night and he is paying for a hotel for them and much closer to our house too.

I love my wife!!!

I just got a message from my wife saying that she will be setting off in half an hour. She described her night as “lush”! I told her to enjoy herself until the very last minute of being with her boyfriend. I can’t wait until she’s home though!

My wife came away from her overnighter at a local-ish hotel very happy again. Obviously the sex is great but they’re really beginning to connect on an emotional level. They’re really settling into each other’s company.

My wife arrived at the hotel considerably earlier than C, giving her time to freshen up and relax a little. She half expected C to come straight to the room but he decided that he needed a drink so he messaged my wife on arrival and invited her to the bar. They spent an hour in the bar, enjoying a couple of drinks and the atmosphere, and to any onlookers, they were just a respectable couple enjoying their own company (which I find so HOT!). They then headed to the room where they spent the next 6 hours or so making love, kissing, cuddling and talking before finally going to sleep.

My wife woke at around 8am and made herself a cup of tea, caught up on her social media etc, waiting for C to wake. They then continued to have morning sex, finishing with my wife giving him one of her amazing blow jobs. And that’s where he deposited his cum. In her mouth. He still seems to struggle cumming inside her vagina. A combination of his anxieties and the drink. In my opinion, he needs to learn that he can truly relax with my wife. They’ve been seeing each other for several months now, after all?!

As mentioned in a previous update, C has agreed to a full weekend away with my wife, at a some sort of holiday lodge in the country with a private hot-tub. This prospect excites me so much. The two of them spending some serious quality time together with no time constraints and no agenda. Just more getting to know each other, sex as and when, a hot-tub, a restaurant date where my wife can really dress up for him and go to town and he will know that it will ALL be for him and him only. The thought of them potentially being in bed together and making love for hours and hours, day and night makes my cage so tight! I love it and more than anything, I love my wife!

Further to the planned break, he will be performing at one of the hotels that falls under my wife’s sales remit, several times over the Christmas period. It also happens to be the hotel that work at during the day. C asked my wife if they will be able to see each other and spend a night together at the hotel. My wife was initially, “it’s a bit close to home”, in terms of being seen by colleagues. She wouldn’t normally be there so if she took her car, someone would notice. Especially if it was still in the car park the next morning. So I said that I could drop her off in the evening and pick her up the next day. That way, if she’s discreet when leaving, nobody would ever know that she spent the night with the “entertainment”. I will do anything to help them grow their relationship and a little taxiing is the least I can do.

Back to when my wife returned home from this past Friday’s date, Saturday night couldn’t come soon enough for me and we called it a day, my wife gave me the key to the chastity device and instructed me to remove it and clean myself up. When I returned to bed, we discussed in more detail the previous night as my wife edged me by hand. I was in pure heaven and tried hard not to allow the edge to come too soon. It must have been 5 minutes at the most when that feeling of the edge approached me. I allowed it to approach as much as I dare before telling her to stop. The precum was copious! 15 minutes later, I put the cage back on and handed my wife the key before we both fell asleep in each other’s arms.

I hope they get together before their planned weekend away. I told my wife that for me, they couldn’t see each other enough and we agreed that it would be nice to have it much more often.

And that’s where we’re at at the moment.

It seems that as much as we’d both love for my wife and C to be seeing each other much more often, for the foreseeable it looks like once a month at best. His diary of work events and associated travel plans and the renovation of his house boat being the stumbling blocks for planning get-togethers. C is also somewhat of a commitment phone too. My wife and I have discussed this several times and at length and for the purposes of not falling completely in love, that’s great for us. My wife now has him at “special friend” level. She loves his company and she loves his sex. He on the other hand seems to be quite blasé about what they are doing. For now, I think the arms length approach he has is his own safety buffer, to stop him getting hurt by committing too deep? When they are together though, his affection towards my wife, on the surface, is strong. He’s either a very good actor or he has issues and we think it’s the latter from the conversations they’ve had. As things stand though, my wife is committed and has every intention of slowly breaking down any anxieties he has.

My wife is a very organised individual. So much so that you could say that she is a borderline control freak. C on the other hand is the complete opposite and his entertainment business (more or less run by his best friend) allows him to just float through the days carefree. This means that while he’s floating with the fairies, he’s not really thinking at all about the next sex session with my wife. It’s a very strange place to be I would say. From a man’s perspective, I’m thinking “what’s wrong with this guy”? He has sex on tap from my wife (and he’s only scratched the surface of the kind of sex that is available from her) but it’s my wife that gets frustrated by the knowing when she can next enjoy him. As I said, she likes to be organised and well planned. Which brings us to the next interesting state of the affair.

My wife was talking with C’s female business partner about C and the various work commitments they have coming up and how my wife wants to go away with C for a weekend. C’s partner said that a free weekend is going to be hard to come-by over the next month or two. Perhaps a couple of mid-week days together could be arranged? In the meantime, his partner would schedule a date that is certain, for my wife to visit him again on his boat. And so my wife is booked in to see him in 3 weeks time. How crazy is that?!? He is or wasn’t aware of the date but his partner will or has told him that he is seeing my wife on a given date. No consultation or anything. It’s just booked, locked and loaded! My wife and I laughed in disbelief together when she filled me in about this development. It’s like something out of rom-com! Anyway, it ticks my wife’s organisation boxes so she’s happy.

We also discussed how my felt that I wasn’t getting the maximum benefit from the relationship and it is something that she is going to work hard to improve. The initial goal is for us all to meet up at some stage. At this stage I can only imagine the circumstances to be quite formal, like dinner perhaps but not between the three of us. I think his anxieties will mean that his business partner and best friend will be there. That way, it’s less likely for the gooseberry effect to occur. I have let my mind wonder on this scenario though. Thoughts along the lines of seating arrangements? Would my wife want to be sat by my side or C’s side? I’d like the latter personally! Should I offer to leave early and alone so that they can finish the evening together in whatever manner they choose? How would the interactions go down? Would there be overt flirting between them? Stuff like that. I know logically that that is same way off down the line, but in my heart of hearts, some level of humiliation for me would go some way to making things so much spicier than it already is! Only time will tell.

My wife set off to see C about 80 minutes ago so she should be with him now. I don’t know whether it was hormones but I’ve never seen her quite so giddy before meeting him. She was absolutely grinning from ear to ear for most of today! She went pretty casual today but in a sexy casual way. Hair and makeup looking fine, some tight jeans, a figure hugging vest top with a hint of red bra straps on show and some leopard print stiletto heels. Her excitement was hot as hell!

She was undecided as to whether to lock my dick up but in the end, she decided that she liked the thought of me edging myself in her absence, thinking about his “great cock” being inside her several times. I’m not going to lie, I’ve done some leaking already thinking about them!

I can’t wait for tomorrow night when we’re in bed together talking about what their sex and the kissing and talking and stuff. No doubt I’ll be getting edged in some manner as we do so!

Thanks CRCouple!

So I just got off of a telephone conversation with my wife. By 9.30am I hadn’t heard anything from my wife and considering that she was supposed to be working, I sent her a WhatsApp message asking if she was awake. There was no response until a couple of minutes before 10am. “Awake but not until recently and then busy fucking 😜

Just getting ready for work and I’ll call you in 15 – 20 from the car Xx”. I was instantly aroused again reading this. My wife loves morning sex. Something that we have rarely done since our youngest child was born 12 years ago. When she rang me back, the jubilation in her voice was as much of a turn on as the words she was spilling out to me. I’m probably letting my my mind race away but all that I could think is that their connection is really coming to another level! The style of sex was in much the same vein as previous couplings but as they really get to know each other, the fire is burning brighter in them both and they both appear to becoming very……together, I want to say?

They discussed their relationship and what it means to them both and how they define it themselves and both are very happy with things. They both feel safe with each other and really enjoy each others company. They’re planning on a bit of friends/date night at the hotel my wife works at once a week (which is only 20 minutes from where he has recently moved his boat to). My wife’s friend, C’s business partner, C and my wife of course, for a fun Ouija Board night. And being an entertainer with access to studio equipment, he has offered to help my wife record a song that is close to her grandfather’s heart. Helping her with a bit of voice training, then recording and engineering it to get the sound quality just right and then burning it on to a CD with cover and case for her grandfather. They really are getting like boyfriend and girlfriend now and that really excites me.

Anyhow, for me, I’ve been promised more details and edging tonight so I’m more than happy right now!

It’s been a minute since my last update. For one reason or another, there hasn’t been anything to really log. My is finally meeting up with C again next Friday, after having to cancel their previous date due to unfavourable circumstances. What I can say though is that my wife is putting serious consideration into calling it all off. As much fun and enjoyment has been had out of it by her, during the meets, she really has been the one doing all the running and after a while, that’s going to suck for anyone.

As I talked about much earlier in this thread, C’s temperament and whole outlook on life isn’t what you’d describe as being normal and what was once novel and interesting has now become frustrating and to a degree, upsetting for my wife. She intends to break it off in a manner that leaves the door open for future hook-ups but she’s done with the chasing. It’ll be up to C if they get together again and I’m backing my wife all the way and I’m as disheartened about the whole thing as she is. Whether or not she jumps on the cuckoldress train again is likely going to depend on her coming across another man that ticks a lot of boxes like C did, and that they are somewhat more “normal”. That’s asking for a whole bunch of planets to line up! We shall see I guess.

It’s been about 6 weeks since my wife and C were last together but they hooked up again last night. My wife has been deliberating breaking things off with C because in her eyes, it’s been too much of a 1 way street which has been at the least, frustrating. That decision is likely to be on hold if the message I received early this morning is anything to go by. “Best sex yet”.

I’m looking forward to tonight’s account of things!

It’s already been 3 weeks since my wife and C spent the night at the hotel where I work and occasionally where my wife works. As I mentioned earlier, it turned out to be the best coupling they’ve had. Certainly for my wife at least. There was much less conversation before they got down to the passionate sex that went down. There was, as per usual, lots of kissing and caressing, followed by C going down and pleasuring her with his mouth and tongue. Really it was a case of my wife planting herself on his face before moving back and riding him for a while. There was some missionary love making before C surprised her and put her on all fours for a Doggy session. That just happens to be her favourite position ever and once again, he took her to heaven with his love making, finishing up with his sperm lovingly nestled inside her.

All told, they were having sex for well over an hour non-stop. Very different to the usual stop start sex they have. Upon returning home, she was glowing about the experience more than any of the previous occasions. Any idea in my wife’s mind about calling things off with C were well and truly kicked to the kerb as a result.

I myself have just returned from a trip to see friends in Paris and last night, I received a WhatsApp message from my wife saying that she organised a weekend away in a “romantic little lodge getting my brains fucked out by C” in two weeks time! I’m looking forward to that as much as she is nearly!! I’m looking forward to getting home from my trip and discussing this development much more. Hopefully with an edging or 3 at the same time!

It’s hard to believe that it’s been around 10 months since this journey started for us. I really had given up any hope of being a fully fledged cuckold. I’m still holding out for direct interaction with C in the future but I’m a patient man and I’m REALLY enjoying this journey!

A little of some conversation between my wife and I from towards the end of my trip to Paris and today. I’m still waiting to see if I can get a glimpse of the nightware she has ordered.

Oh. My. God! My wife went on a mini vacation with C today. For 2, maybe 3 nights. She’s just shared a selfie photo of her and C drinking champagne in the hot-tub together! So HOT!!!!!