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    • #38522
      cuckmatt

      This is a long one.

      I have been on and off this site for a good number of years now, contributing to the “Getting Started” forum with new topics several times and with one topic started on this “Success Stories” forum.  Well finally, my wife and I may be at the starting line of a potentially good and steady cuckold relationship if last night was anything to go by.  My wife returned home this morning shattered but glowing like she’s never glowed before after a date.

      Previous dates have all resulted with a mixed bag of results.  Some itches scratched here and there, some disappointments of course and until very recently, a long lull in activities that involved other men.  The lull being caused by a combination of a poor previous experience, kids getting to an age where even vanilla sex between us has to be thought out, work commitments and so on.  More like life getting in the way than anything else but there was a sea-change in both our attitudes towards sex as a result of life’s negative impact on us.  Not so long ago, my wife and I had our most candid conversation over a couple of beers and it went along the lines of, how as time had gone by, I had allowed myself to become even further immersed in all things related to cuckolding. Nurturing my submissive side by indulging (way more often than my wife knew) in porn via BDSMLR and Pornhub.  Always the same stuff too. Cuckolding, Interracial stuff, feminization, chastity, tease & denial, prostate massage, cream-pies, pegging and with growing frequency, fluffing and forced-bi stuff.  My wife was still visiting her porn sites too. BDSMLR, the remnant accounts of Tumblr etc too, but we weren’t doing it together and sharing stuff with each other.  We were on sepetate trajectories now. 

      In the early days, we’d share a lot of stuff. Pretty much everything. We’d switch in the bedroom too.  I lost heart BIG time though after the last disastrous interaction with another guy and his wife that we had, and my wife, while not 100% writing off the chances of playing with others again, pretty much was done with the whole 3rd party thing.  But she did occasionally remind me to, “never say never”.  Getting back to our candid conversation, I reminded my wife that on the previous occasion we had indulged in chastity play, I’d gotten myself to the place where I’d have very probably performed orally on another man if it had been something my wife wanted me to do.  I’d been locked for about 2 months with lots of edging and denial and BDSMLR.  This idea turned her on a lot and we used it often when in bed together and especially during edging sessions, which 9 times out of 10 would be PIV edgings.  Even though I craved to be cut off from sex, my wife couldn’t stand that idea.  I’ve always been able to satisfy her sexually and especially on the oral side, but my wife likes hard, animalistic sex too and that’s where I fall short. If I try, I’m a 1 minute wonder. 

      I also confessed to her that over the last year or two, my orgasms had felt generally rubbish and I’m not kidding when I say that. I don’t know if I’ve self pleasured myself too many times over the years or whether it’s an age thing but they just don’t feel all that special. Now the Edge…..that’s altogether different! You’ve got to be disciplined but if you can keep your head together, the edge is the gift that keeps on giving, in my opinion! I also found myself consuming my own cum if I gave myself a ruined orgasm. I think that this was some kind of subconscious belief that one day, contrary to the odds, I may get to experience a fresh load of another man’s cum from my wife, but either way, I grew more tolerance towards eating my cum. What another man’s cum would taste like, I’ve very little idea but I’m that little further bit down the road to being able to handle it I think. And now she’s heard it on several different occasions, that if she wants me to take a cock in my mouth, I will……for her….but I need chastity and teasing for a while first I think. Now for the bit you’ve all be waiting for.

      Three weeks ago we was on a long weekend vacation together at a country lodge. Just my wife and I. I’d been in chastity for a few weeks already and we brought plenty of toys and it had a hot-tub. We had a lot of fun together over that weekend and during a long walk that we went on, we got talking about the cuckold thing. She said she had caught herself sizing up a work acquaintance. He was an entertainer that my wife hired in her capacity as General Manager of a hotel for several Christmas functions. Not only did he do some of the entertaining himself but he had his own company that had various forms of public entertainment and entertainers on his books. Acrobats, bands, fire eaters, strippers, musicians……a real array of entertainment. They had obviously spoken on several occasions but at no point did my wife think there was anything between them, as much as she would have liked there to be. He also seemed to be heavily involved with his business partner who happened to be a woman. To cut a long story a little shorter, that relationship is strictly platonic and after becoming friends on Facebook, interaction between him my wife increased a little. Nothing flirty but definite banter, as we call it here in the UK. So my wife decided that she would try and find a way of pinging up on his radar that she was attracted to him, but she needed to do it in such a way that wouldn’t jeopardise their working relationship. 

      Her ploy worked. A date was set.  She would travel the 20 miles to his place. A few drinks to settle the nerves and then hopefully, the pair of them would click in bed as well as over mutual interests. I got a message from my wife via WhatsApp at a little after 8pm. They’d been chatting and having a couple of drinks for a couple of hours and the message from wife was positive. She was enjoying his company. From that point on, my mind was whirring! What had they been talking about? He knew she was married and that we are very much together. Had he questioned this? Had they had the talk or was that going to come after my wife had had her itch scratched, to highlight just a few questions going through my mind. I kept checking WhatsApp to see if she’d been on looking for messages from myself. She had briefly about an hour after her first message and it was just to acknowledge my response of a couple of emojis that I sent to her as further encouragement. After that, nothing until this morning. 

      At 7.30am this morning I got a call. My wife was coming home. She would have stayed out longer but his narrowboat home wasn’t ideal for two adults to maintain any comfort in for any longer. But she did relay to me her enjoyment and overall satisfaction with her new mate. How They’d talked for hours with great ease in a bar before walking the short distance to his narrowboat home. There’d been lots of kissing once inside and that would continue for most of their encounter. He was very appreciative of her 39 year old body which while isn’t as youthful as it once was, it retains curves in all the right places. As you know, she already had the hots for him and she had a good idea about what was under his clothes. She told me that he was her first circumcised cock and so she enjoyed getting to know that. It wasn’t especially large in length, maybe about the same as mine but a lot thicker. They coupled many times over the course of the night and he knew how to use cock. Varying pace and depth, angles and so forth. For the most part, they enjoyed each other in the Missionary and Spoons positions. My wife’s favourites! She certainly got her fill of the hard and fast variety snd with a bit of hair pulling and biting (which she wishes I could do), so she got the rough side of things ticked off as well as the gentle love making kind. Apparently she orgasmed a few times but he couldn’t reach climax himself. Reasons for that iI won’t get into at this time. That was a little disappointing to hear but it happens I guess. 

      As they were getting ready to part, the question of whether they wanted to repeat things was asked by him. My wife responded with an affirmative answer so it looks like it could become a regular coupling. That excites me so much. My wife even has a regular night away once a week with work that she thinks he will be able to join her on occasionally. She’s likely to go back on birth control too. The Coil. That way she can have him bare. She sounds confident about being exclusive too or she wouldn’t entertain the idea of going bare. 

      So yeah, I think we have turned a really good corner. One with plenty of opportunity.  

      Maybe one day I can convince my wife to join me on here. In her own words, “never say never”! 

      Sent from my Galaxy

    • #38523
      motley

      Congratulations!!!!

    • #38524
      cuckmatt

      Thanks Motley.

    • #38525
      Glasgow982000

      Nice Update. Any more details from her what happen that night when she reach home?

    • #38527
      cuckmatt

      Hi Glasgow982000,

      To be honest, I could spill the beans a little more but to what end? If it’s titillation you’re looking for, you may be better off on something like Literotica.com perhaps. I’ve been on this site for many years and I know that it’s a well respected site, full of very useful resources and guidance and such. If there’s anything you think I may be able to help you with in your own quest, ask away!

    • #38528
      cuckmatt

      The follow up date is pencilled in for Friday 26th, which I think is well timed. This one is potentially going to be a quickie for her but an over nighter isn’t ruled out yet. I’d much prefer for her to return home soon after. I want the chance to offer to go down on her and to get a taste of her well used body!

      There has been a mention of her new friend everyday since their hook up and always excites me. All I can say is that I’m glad I have a cage on or I would be edging myself into oblivion! If all goes well again, I think my birthday idea will go down well with them both. If you haven’t read my idea, it’s over on the Submissive Husbands forum. It should be easy enough to find.

    • #38531
      Cathy & Jerry

      Very happy here to see that things are progressing well. Hopefully she’ll cut you off for good and he’ll be taking her as his own much more often. Good for you!!

    • #38551
      cuckmatt

      We’re 4 days away from my wife’s 2nd coupling with her “FWB” and as you can imagine, my mind is ramping up the activity as the date draws closer. The topic of her cuckolding me has been brought up on quite a few occasions since her first meet with her new man. Sometimes serious, sometimes light-hearted teasing but either way, always exciting for me. My wife is looking to the future too, albeit a short term future and she’s making decisions without any influence whatsoever from me. Although she is consulting me very frequently about things but I think that that is for the benefit of her confidence, which is absolutely perfect for me. Anything to boost my wife’s experience in this new found dynamic!

      My wife is very confident that her new man is going to remain exclusive to us and as she’s never been a fan of condoms, she’s picked up the contraceptive pill for a month. This can be easily renewed online should things continue in a positive manner, although if they do, it is more than likely that she will visit the family planning clinic and have the Coil implanted again. The pill is only reliable if you run it like clockwork where as the Coil, you can just forget about it. So my wife has every intention of going bare with her man and this excites me greatly. I’m praying that they go from strength to strength. That they develop a physical bond and my own bond with my wife is reduced to that of physical comforting and spiritual support for her new relationship. I want her to become accustomed to his body and his sperm. So much so that she becomes dependent on it.

      We have talked about how everything is filling her mind more than she’s been used to, and so she’s not rushing anything. The idea of this becoming more than just a “FWB” type relationship is just not appealing to my wife yet, although I am hoping that with each passing coupling, something a little more develops. It would be my dream for them to become a dating couple. Meals out, cinema nights, concerts, social events etc. Maybe even weekends away together? But, I must keep my dreams in check and remain in the real world for now and enjoy every moment for what it is. A bit of fun for us all.

      • #38554
        Cathy & Jerry

        We’re so very happy for you both, hopefully they’ll be seeing each other more and more often then maybe they will both come to you to let you know that they are in love and that your cock is no longer needed. We’ve been there (are there) and we would never want it any other way. Good luck! 🙂

        • #38558
          cuckmatt

          Thanks Cathy & Jerry! Keep those fingers crossed that this relationship becomes a very steady one at least, for us please!

    • #38559
      cuckmatt

      I really can’t describe how happy we are right now. Just talking about Friday’s coupling has both grinning from ear to ear. The kissing between us both is electric! And when I ask my wife if she is still looking forward to the date and I get, I’m REALLY REALLY looking forward to it” from her and her eyes are wide and bright, it really excites me!

      She has decided that she will take only two miniature bottles of wine with her so that she can really experience the pleasure of her FWB’s cock and efforts and she’s hoping he will take a leaf from her book by doing similar. Now that the ice is broken, the need for the numbing effects of alcohol is just not anywhere near as necessary this time around. The two of them can only benefit from it too. To feel every square millimeter of each other’s bodies and to have that electricity of first and second time intimate coupling is what should be on everyone’s mind. That kind of thing has my dick straining in it’s chastity device and leaking cuck tears.

      In the words of one of Madonna’s songs, time goes by so slowly!

    • #38560
      TransStar

      Thank you so much for sharing.

      It sounds like you are enthusiastic to nurse their relationship to quickly mature. You’re at the initialpart of curve of this lifestyle change. Move slowly ahead and savor every moment. They will make it grow. Enjoy listening to where they want to go. I’m really envious. It’ll be so exciting to hear about how this unfolds.

      • #38563
        cuckmatt

        Thanks TransStar,

        My wife set off from home only a few minutes ago and I am already recalling the time I kept her company while she was getting ready for her second date. She looked divine and radiant as she applied her make-up and did her hair. Prior to that, she had a private bath. I watched her pull up her hold-ups and position everything with care. I couldn’t help myself. I came up to her from behind and embraced her. Kissing her neck as I did so and telling her how I enjoyed watching my wife prepare herself for another man to enjoy. Her face glowed even more upon hearing that from me. Now I have to be patient and hope that the second round is equally as fantastic for her as the first.

        The next twelve hours or so are going to be bitter/sweet. Bitter because I am unable at this time to watch or listen to their interactions and physical couplings but sweet because I know that this is potentially a long game and we’re only just at the start!

        • #38564
          Cathy & Jerry

          Congratulations Cuckmatt

          We’re both very happy for you and your lovely wife. She will have the lover of her dreams (hopefully) and you’ll be the complete cuckold you have been dreaming of of being. If her love affair moves along quickly maybe she’ll be willing to cut you off of intercourse, at least while she has a terrific cock taking care of her needs. I know how excited I was to finally be cuckolded then eventually cut off, but I can say with all honesty that what excited me the most was when my pretty wife came to me and told me that she was in love with her boyfriend. When I told her that I was very happy to hear that she called him over. When he was here he walked up to me and put out his hand to shake mine and said “Thank you for being so understanding and allowing me to be your wife’s lover.” He also said “I am very much in love with Cathy and I promise to treat her like the queen she is, and I also promise that I’ll never try to take her away from you because she loves you very much”. It felt like what I was hoping to happen in this lifestyle had finally reached the point I had always hoped it would. We’re hoping you reach that point as well very soon. You might not be hoping that she falls in love with her “lover” but maybe you do, it’s a lovely thing! 🙂

          We await to hear more about her coupling/love making.

        • #38565
          cuckmatt

          Thanks Cathy & Jerry,

          We have a tracking app on all the cell phones in the family. I watched her journey to his house boat. There is a bar very close by but they definitely skipped the bar and headed straight to his place. They’ve been there about 15 minutes. I hope that he is already reminding her of how much enjoyment his cock can give her. I’ll have to wait until tomorrow to find out though, unless she treats me to a surprise WhatsApp message before then?!?

        • #38567
          Cathy & Jerry

          Fingers crossed for you here 🙂

    • #38569
      cuckmatt

      Well it is approaching 7am and the last contact that I had with my wife was 10 hours ago, via WhatsApp. She wrote, “Love you. Thinking of you while I’m having fun. Xx”. I responded with a couple of loving emojis but that wasn’t acknowledged until a couple of hours later. The fact that she is still there suggests that they were enjoying each other enormously and in a much more sober manner.

      I can’t wait to hear from her!

    • #38570
      cuckmatt

      It got to around 10am and I hadn’t heard from my wife so I thought I’d send a tongue in cheek question. Keeping it vague so that she could decide how much of an answer she gave. Check out the screenshot! Oh my!! I love my wife and can’t wait to see her come through the door, beaming from ear to ear!!


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    • #38572
      cuckmatt

      My wife is currently napping in our sun drenched conservatory. Absolutly shattered for all the right reasons. On her drive back home, she couldn’t express enough how happy she was with the sex between her and her new FWB! They’d chatted for a few hours and enjoyed a small amount of drinks over a few hours. My wife remained pretty sober throughout and C (we’ll call him) measured his drinking too. From 10pm until around 2am, it was pretty much non-stop sex for them. She told me how she now realises that he is brilliant fuck. He knows how to tease her with his superior cock in just the right ways and how he knows how to give her just what she needs and when she needs it.

      Due to the cramped conditions on the boat, I was told that apart from the morning sex that they had, it was all missionary with LOTS of passionate kissing, which she likes a LOT too. She lost count of the number of times that he brought her to incredible climaxes! And this morning, they awoke and had incredible sex again. Starting with my wife going down on his cut cock for a while. He definitely has problems ejaculating when the under the influence it seems but this morning, my wife brought him close enough with her mouth before jumping on his cock and riding him to both their orgasms and her first experience of him cumming inside her. He complimented my wife on her oral skills, lamenting how she gave the best he had ever had!

      They have decided that their arrangements are to continue. No date has been set yet but once more, it can’t come soon enough for me. I have floated the idea of me treating her to a nice Italian meal at a restaurant that I know of that is part of a hotel for her birthday in a month’s time.
      The hotel/restaurant are only a mile or so from where C’s home is moored. Her face lit up when I suggested that I get the pleasure of taking her for a birthday meal but C will have opportunity to use the hotel room for the night with her, providing her with birthday sex while I drive home. Only returning the next day to pick her up. Fingers crossed for that one!

      I hope that tonight my wife will release my aching dick and maybe give it a nice edging while going into more details of last night. Once again, I couldn’t be happier with the way things are going currently and my wife has expressed how lucky she feels to have a husband that is happy for his wife to seek sexual satisfaction from another man. I love her more than I thought possible right now!

    • #38573
      TransStar

      Thanks for the update.
      So C came in your wife? They both must have enjoyed that intimacy. Perhaps a romance is beginning to develop!

      What’s it like to know your wife was under another man — welcoming his tongue in her mouth and his cock in her pussy? Seems clear she already prefers him to you sexually. She’s fortunate to have a husband that is proud to be a locked, supportive cuckold. Nicely done, Matt! Enjoy your cuckold status.

      Are you discovering you want to tell others? Friends? Family? Is there someone that would celebrate w you besides your friends on this site?

      Say hey to your wife from us!

      • #38577
        cuckmatt

        Hi TransStar,

        It’s everything I thought it would be, so far. Knowing that another man with a superior cock was making love to my wife is incredibly exciting. Knowing he was stretching her like I could never, and then depositing his genetics inside of her has my cage working overtime! I do think that romance is not on the cards though. Certainly not yet, anyway. But the kissing that she tells me of sounds very intimate indeed and she loves it!

        There isn’t anyone that I wish to tell about this in particular. My wife says that her brother’s partner knows and I haven’t seen her for a while. I don’t think she would say anything. She’s into the hotwife lifestyle too, so she has some idea of discretion. A couple of colleagues that my wife has know of her activities. One of which will never breathe a word of it to me (I also work with her) or anyone else. The other is more of a business associate. She may very well say something to me. We’ll find out soon enough with her. And an old friend is visiting today that knows about our kinky past and has participated in some historic kinky adventures with us. We did some swapping many years ago. She will no doubt be getting the full low down today.

    • #38574
      Cathy & Jerry

      Congratulations, you’re now a full fledged cuckold, keep us up to date please. It’s nice to see another successful coupling, they just might fall in love!

    • #38578
      Ricky Joiner

      Congrats to you… and your wife! So much in your posts that I (and my wife) can relate to. We seem to be further along the road in our success story than you but those early memories are still fresh in my mind…. the date preparation… the waiting to hear from her…. the greetings the morning after…. and that special time of togetherness as she talks about her time with her lover.

      Things have moved on now. They are still seeing each other. He lives quite close, and we have even recruited another couple in the locality to the lifestyle. TransStar knows much of our story – too drawn out for here.

      Sounds like the next stage for you both is for your wife to introduce you to her lover and form a lasting friendship. There is something sublimely erotic in having dinner together, chatting over a few glasses of wine, and then the evening ending with your wife taking her lover off to bed for the night, leaving you with the guest bedroom.

      Those are the times when you don’t mind being kept awake half the night, and getting a noisy wake up call next morning!

      • #38579
        cuckmatt

        Hi Ricky and thanks!

        I have waited for these days for what seems like an eternity and now they are here, they are, so far, everything I’d hoped for. Meeting C could be a little way off yet. But I’m a patient person. Being in the vicinity of their coupling….being able to listen or see it must be so incredibly exciting. Listening to one’s wife moan in pleasure, the sounds of their lips coming together in a passionate embrace, the slamming of bodies together? It sounds like heaven to me. If if it was once in a blue moon, I’d be happy. Fingers crossed for that, for sure!

        My wife told me that she is going to play a little waiting game now though. She wants him to come to her, in terms of making the first move yo arrange their third date, which I think is fair. Although that said, if his cock and the way he uses is so good, my wife may not be able to hold out! In the meantime though, I’ve been told that our penis sleeve/extender is to be put to use more often. Hopefully with that being closer in size to him, she will direct me in the ways that C fucks her. That would be nice, to try and imitate him.

        Fingers crossed it will be sooner rather than later that I can report back with more news.

    • #38580
      Ricky Joiner

      Look forward to it!

      Secret is not to push things. Let your wife run at her own pace. She has to develop a relationship with him first and then feel comfortable with being in the presence of you both. With my wife’s first lover she spent a little while getting to know him on her own before bringing me on the scene. He didn’t last long because he got a bit pushy with her. The guy she is with now is in complete contrast. We get on great – apart from the fact that he supports Arsenal!

      Your idea about paying for a hotel room for the night for them is an excellent one. Last summer we booked a holiday cottage for a week, which I paid for. I let them have a few days on their own before I joined them. Being away from our locality meant they could behave like a couple – hold hands.. cuddle.. that sort of thing. We had a great time.

      Other suggestions – if you haven’t already done this, take your wife to her favourite lingerie shop, let her choose a few things to wear for him and then pay for them. Lets her know that you are more than fully supportive of their relationship. My wife more or less has a separate wardrobe of things she wears especially for him.

      Enjoy these interesting times!

    • #38581
      cuckmatt

      Hi Ricky.

      Thanks for the input. I have accepted your friend request by the way.

      Believe me, I am letting my wife dictate the pace of everything. I have to. We agreed to a FLR and all that comes with it. I must just simply support and encourage her choices. And where I get an opportunity to have some input, then I will for sure!

      There are a couple of flys in ointment in terms of her developing things beyond a FWB dynamic but I’m not going to go into that here. That’s not for public divulging. But it is early days yet, let’s say. The thought of them dating, out and proud is such a thrilling one. The restaurant/hotel idea I thought would be a good way of opening that door for them a little. And it really would show him my willing for their relationship, but that idea is still being kicked about by my wife. It’s a wait and see for that one.

      I love to buy my wife clothes and lingerie. Unfortunately for me, my wife hates the whole shopping experience. She knows what she likes and she orders most things online and usually from Next. I’ve been pretty good over the years with my choices for her though. Only on a couple of occasions has she not really liked what I bought for her. She really detests the idea of expensive lingerie though. Buying it herself or having it bought for her. She just doesn’t see the point of it. I will get her some for the restaurant/hotel date if she agrees to that. I’ll just have to down play the price.

      I like the idea of your wife having a separate wardrobe that only he lover gets to see. That’s commitment to the cause right there!! Maybe if things go well, we can enjoy similar experiences to the ones you have. Keep your fingers crossed!

    • #38582
      Ricky Joiner

      My wife sounds quite the opposite as far as shopping is concerned. She will shop till she she drops! There was a time when I would be dragged round shops kicking and screaming but now she either goes out on her own (or with her bf) or if with me, I find somewhere to relax and have a pint or two!

      Maybe your wife doesn’t feel comfortable sleeping over in a hotel? Another option would be for you to offer to have a night away and her bf can come over. Maybe she would feel more comfortable within her own surroundings. I would imagine her bf would very much enjoy taking your place in her bed! I know my wife’s bf enjoys staying over and sleeping in my side of the bed.

      Anyway, as you say, it is early days. It may be that she’s not quite sure if the relationship with her bf has legs! Women tend to be more circumspect in these situations than men. We do tend to be led by our dicks!

    • #38583
      TransStar

      How did you go about getting your wife to agree to an FLR? Mine thinks it means it will be more work for her. I’m trying to help her realize she can delegate to me at her whim.

      • #38584
        cuckmatt

        Hi TransStar,

        My wife being the kind of woman that she is, we were already 80% there really. She is the bigger wage earner, she generally gets what she wants in the home and at work. By her own admission, she is a control freak.
        The remaining 20% (it may have been less) revolved around me relinquishing control of a few personal aspects to our lives.

        I’m a very laid back kind of person in what I do, say, eat and wear so I have had to adapt some of those aspects of my life. I already did the vast majority of the chores at home but instead of me wearing my usual layabout clothes of jeans and hoody (during winter months), I have to look a little bit smarter, and so the hoody is relegated and the smart jumpers that she prefers me to wear are promoted. During the summer, the it’ll be shirts or plain t-shirts with jeans instead of the logo’d t-shirts I usually wear.

        I have not to contradict her or question any dad to day decisions that she makes. I have to bring her flowers at least once a month. I have to compliment her much more frequently. Just generally make more of a fuss of her. That means that in the bedroom, her pleasure must always come first and it maybe that I get none at all! I think I mentioned it one of my earlier posts upon returning to this site, that in recent years, my orgasms had lost their appeal to me. They just didn’t feel anywhere near as nice as they used to do and I would much prefer to edge or be edged. When your wife prefers hard and fast sex, edging sex just doesn’t work. So I looked forward to edging inside my wife previously but her itch wasn’t being scratched. Quite selfish of me really. That changed. Until she hooked up with C, if she said she wanted a good fucking, that meant no edge for me and a disappointing orgasm to boot. It maybe disappointing but it doesn’t hurt me. 24 hours after her first coupling with C, she had me fuck her. She just needed it to be me, her husband inside her. And that’s what I did. I even cleaned her up afterwards without being asked to. And that was 3 weeks ago I think.

        It is all about her now. Any sexual attention I get is a huge bonus to me now and I make sure that she knows I appreciate it. The bottom line is, that her life in general gets easier and nicer and her sexual needs come first and foremost. Hopefully, combining all that and the extra, fantastic sex that she has has and hopefully will be getting regularly, will only cement the dynamic that bit more.

    • #38592
      cuckmatt

      Well I didn’t expect to be going into that conversation soon after waking, but I suppose it was as good a time for it as any.

      With or without the contraceptive pill, the whole dynamic has been very much present in my wife’s mind. Sometimes it’s joyous recollections, sometimes it’s doubt and other times curiosity. Last night she wanted some passion from me (including sex), so I gave it my all…..for about 2 minutes until I finished with my usual disappointing orgasm but it was about my wife wanted. This morning my wife woke a little time before me and once more, she went off in her head to that cuckolding place, so when I awoke, she wanted to talk about it. It was probably more of an affirmation than anything though. A stop check to confirm that we are doing the right thing and to reassure that we love each other and that love will only be between my wife and I……..and how to avoid it becoming between my wife and the two men in her life. She agreed that she was thinking far too much into things and getting way ahead of herself, but as she had been there in her head, let’s talk about it. I pointed out the glaringly obvious hurdles to my wife and her FWB falling for one and other that have been there from before we got started. He lives on a narrow boat, has a slight dependency on alcohol and a certain level social anxiety (maybe connected, maybe not) that make him anything but good boyfriend material.

      We talked about these issues and I reminded her that she has only seen him twice and there is also a chance that he has revealed all the lovemaking tools that he has at his disposal, possibly revealing him to be extremely vanilla in his sexual outlook. I reiterated that they need to utilise hotels. Get him out of his comfort zone, literally and metaphorically, where there is space for the wilder sex that my wife craves and if that works out and he does have more skills in his bag, then that’s a bonus.

      This kind of led to the part of the discussion about how all good things must come to an end. Deep down, I know I don’t want any of this to end. I want it to go from strength to strength. I’d love nothing more than for my wife and her FWB to become more of a dating type dynamic but as mentioned, the not insignificant issues are going to make that transition very doubtful so in the meantime, and I said this in our conversation, my wife should try and put any and all negative aspects to this dynamic to one side and just enjoy the great sex she is getting from him and treat it for what it is. Simply three adults enjoying consensual sex together in way or another and nothing more. My wife can’t help herself from thinking that one day, it has to end though and finding another guy that will tick all the right boxes is going to be impossible. She can’t see yet that however long this relationship lasts, it can only strengthen her confidence to seek out other men if and when this particular relationship fizzles out. Perhaps even better men are out there for her. Better cocks, better lovers, dominants etc. I’m hoping that if right now, we’ve only got one door open on this journey of sexual exploration and my wife is already liking what she’s found, that it will only embolden her to try more doors, more men and to get out there and find the next perfect match and subconsciously, she’s thinking along those lines too. Spending £300 (nearly $400) to have the contraceptive Coil fitted, that will last for 10 years is some commitment to extramarital sex.

      My wife has said that in all liklihood, she is going to dig a little deeper into his psyche. He is well aware that she is married. She mentions me fairly frequently in the conversations but so far, all their conversations have been quite superficial. No deep and meaningfuls. Well it’s time to go a little deeper and talk more of kinks and fetishes. To find out how much he knows of cuckolding, hotwifing, swinging etc. I don’t care what anybody says, her FWB has to have done a little researching on the subject since this all began. He asked her about her tattoo, a BDSM emblem, and she told him. So again, if he didn’t already have some BDSM knowledge, I’m pretty sure he would have looked it up. I mean he used to be a Stripper so he must have heard of some BDSM elements during his stripping days. He just can not be that vanilla, that innocent. It can’t be possible. Once that conversation is had, we should be able to address the occasional interaction/involvement between him, my wife and me.

      They have agreed to meet again in the next couple of weeks or so and I’m going to try and persuade my wife to make it birthday sex in the hotel that I will be pay for. I’ve already floated the idea to her and if she can lure him out of his crib for the night, it’ll be on. Fingers crossed for things to continue in the right direction!

    • #38593
      TransStar

      Your wife has a husband that checks off most boxes. C needs to check these boxes: great lover, big dick, respectful, handsome.

    • #38622
      cuckmatt

      Hi TransStar,

      So far, he’s checking all the right boxes off and hopefully, someday soon, he’ll check off the “communicates with husband” box.

    • #38623
      cuckmatt

      Well, today is the day that my wife heads to a private clinic to have the contraceptive coil fitted (almost $400) so that she can finally experience completely, unadulterated sexual release. After her first coupling with her FWB, she resorted to the Morning After pill and after that, bought the contraceptive pill online and that played havoc with her hormone. One minute she was on cloud 9 and the next minute she was confused and very sad. No way to go through life.

      We touched on the subject briefly last night and she confirmed that she is excited to see C again. Excited to experience the 10/10 sex once more and to generally just be in his relaxing company. We’re still a full week away from that but just hearing her voice when talking about it, her unbridled enthusiasm is such a turn on for me.

      It will be her 39th birthday in 20 days and so I will be doing everything to encourage her sleeping with C on or around her birthday and in comfortable hotel room at my expense. I can’t tell you how much I’m enjoying all this and only wish we could have had this amount of fun 12 years ago!

    • #38624
      CCwifetjhusband

      You should have just had the boyfriend get a vasectomy so that the wife does not have to have her vagina messed with and the burden of contraception is placed on the lover or lovers. Besides the expense you had to go through is not what you can afford in this Biden economy.

      • #38625
        cuckmatt

        Hi CCwifetjhusband,

        How do you go from having coupled twice only to telling the guy he needs to get a vasectomy?? 100% of the time, the “boyfriend” would run a mile. That is unequivocal. So if my wife wants to continue having great sex with this guy, the choice is condoms or female contraception. There are no other options. The pill doesn’t work for my wife and nothing else comes close to bring as reliable as the Coil. It’s just unfortunate that in a post-pandemic UK, free NHS contraception (or any other medical treatment) now has a bit of waiting list due to staffing levels and supply issues.

        I understand that inflation is rampant over there in the States but I can assure you, we’re getting it too. We’ve been at $9+ per gallon for several years now. But I digress. This isn’t a place for politics.

    • #38633
      cuckmatt

      Less than a week to go to date 3 and my wife is getting excited for it. The 10 year contraceptive coil is in and settled and the only thing that scupper her plans is for her period to show up any time now, so fingers crossed, that doesn’t happen!

      Apparently he will be cooking them a meal on this occasion. All very cosy and less FWB like and more date like! Just thinking that and typing it makes my dick stir somewhat! I really hope that the impossible happens and they start acting more like couple with each other. As I’ve outlined before though, due to his circumstances and personal character traits, I do think that the meal cooking is a just a convenient way to show some appreciation for the sex he had been getting without resorting to spending money on a restaurant and venturing beyond the safe confines of his boat. I am just guessing there though.

      Our youngest child is possibly going to be going to her grandparents for an overnight stay on the same night, so there is is half a chance that I could get myself to a fairly close proximity of my wife and her FWB and catch a small sound show at least? I won’t be able to make that call until the night itself but the thought has definitely crossed my mind.

      Apart from that, I’m hoping that my wife does start the conversation about me and how the dynamic needs to turn in to a 3 way relationship so fingers crossed for that too!

      • #38636
        Cathy & Jerry

        I tried to post this but it disappeared, if it doubles then I apologize for that.

        Reading about you hoping to have a good three way relationship with your wife and her lover reminded me of our own situation. Being friends with your wife’s lover/boyfriend is terrific, speaking as someone who knows this very well. Cathy’s boyfriend and I go fishing together and play golf together, we’re very good friends. Of course we often get into conversations about Cathy, and Ken has no problems telling me how much he loves how tight her pussy is and how she thrusts up to make his thrusts harder and deeper into her because he knows that it turns me on immensely.

        I still remember the time we were sitting in his boat sipping on beers with our lines in the water and he said “I have something to ask you and if you say you don’t like what I have to ask you then I’ll respect your answer. I of course was curious and said “ok, what’s up?” He pulled a small box out of his pocket and opened it up to show me a small gold ring with a row of small diamonds along it. I joked and said “Oh Ken, you shouldn’t have, but what will I tell Cathy?” He laughed and said “Ok I take it then you know who it’s for, so what do you think? I’d like to have Cathy wear it alongside of her wedding rings, but only if you tell me you’re ok with it”. I was a little bit surprised but not shocked because I already knew that they were in love with each other as they told me. Actually in all honesty I got a little woody right then and told him I’d be happy to see him give it to her.

        Well that made him happy for sure but nowhere near as happy as when he stood in front of her that evening. opened the box and asked her if she would wear his ring with her wedding rings. She was shocked and looked at me, I just smiled and nodded my head and she turned to him and hugged him, kissed him and told him she’d be happy to wear it. He slipped it on to her finger, it was a little large but he got that corrected later. They stood there and kissed passionately for a few minutes then we all went out for dinner and I paid. I knew right then that my cuckolding just got kicked up a notch and I loved it lol. Needless to say that after dinner they spent many hours upstairs making love, very noisy love! 🙂

    • #38637
      TransStar

      What a wonderful modern romance story. Thanks for sharing, Jerry. I’m so envious. Having a wife in a LTR with your good friend while she denies you… priceless!

      Do you think Ken or Cathy might ever post here? I’d enjoy hear Ken tell us how he enjoys your wife.

      • #38643
        Cathy & Jerry

        TransStar Cathy does post and reply quite often in here, just search for our posts and replies and you’ll see some of hers. As for Ken, no, he doesn’t know we are in any online cuckold groups, that’s our thing alone. Cathy is with me at this moment reading all that Cuckmatt has posted/replied to and loves to see that he’s doing so well in this lifestyle, she sends him hugs and says to tell him that she’s proud of him, I’m proud of him as well!

    • #38638
      TransStar

      Are you completely denied or do you occasionally get to clean Cathy after she is with Ken? Does Ken tease you about it? Do you let Ken know you enjoy the taste of his semen?

      • #38644
        Cathy & Jerry

        TransStar I do get to clean Cathy from time to time when Ken is here to spend evenings and weekend with Cathy, I enjoy it very much. Ken will tease a little but not very much. He’ll ask me things like “how does my cum taste mixed with Cathy’s juices?” or “when you’re licking and sucking our juices off of my cock which do you enjoy more, our juices or sucking my cock”? lol. And yes I have told him many times that his semen is on the sweet side, very rarely is it salty, he likes that. I have also told him that I get the most excited when I get to see his sperm leaking heavily from Cathy’s pussy just before I lick it up because I know that there’s still much more deep inside of her. 🙂

    • #38647
      Luvinsunshine

      Clean up is very bonding for us. Especially kissing with my Boyfriend’s semen. This way we both share a bit of the experience together. I think it’s extremely important to keep hubby involved from start to finish.

      • #38648
        cuckmatt

        Hi Luvinsunshine,

        My wife and I was only discussing how different she tasted on her return home from her previous stay over, even though it was about 2 hours later and most of her FWB’s semen had been lost or absorbed by the time that she had gotten home. They are meeting again this coming Saturday but she has to be present at a wedding fayre in a one of the hotels that she manages sales for straight after, so there will be even less for me to savour upon her return.

        But right now, I’m just still beaming at the fact that there is a third coupling happening and my wife’s enthusiasm is only growing! It really is exciting times and there is still a chance that she is going to try and talk him into the hotel visit that I have talked about further up this thread. If that happens, I’m almost guaranteed to be able to go down on her as soon as he has left her side which I will be so happy to do! If words of adoration and encouragement have been enough for her so far, having me carefully and lovingly clean their joint lovemaking left-overs will surely cement the deal!

    • #38649
      TransStar

      Jerry,
      Pumping is loaded into your wife and and watching you with residuals off your cock must give Ken great satisfaction.
      Is anyone inquired about the additional wedding band on your wife’s finger?

      Cuckold Matt,
      Don’t assume there will be a straight line progression to your couple dream. Ricky’s Wife Just ended the relationship with her Second bull

      • #38650
        cuckmatt

        TransStar,

        I don’t understand what you’re saying. Can you remind me of what I have assumed?

      • #38652
        Cathy & Jerry

        TransStar

        Yes he loves to know that I enjoy his semen in my wife and he thinks it’s great that I enjoy the taste of him in her or on his cock. As for the ring, a few people who know us have asked what it’s for and we just tell them that we renewed our vows and the ring was an addition during our vows, they all just say “Ok, cool”! lol

        And to reply in regards to what you mentioned to Cuckmatt, I doubt that he thinks there will be a “straight line progression” but is more like “hoping” that there will be. There’s no guarantees about anything in this lifestlye, more like hopes and dreams that everything both parties desire are fulfilled. There are many more fish in the sea to hook so he and his wife will do just fine if they understand this and don’t give up if a love affair/tryst ends. He’s doing very well with his progression with his wife and we’re so happy to read about it. My wife has had 24 lovers in the 16 years she has been cuckolding me and every new lover seems to bring even more excitement into her/our lives. We might be a little down when an affair ends but we know she’ll be back in the saddle in no time lol.

    • #38653
      TransStar

      it would be great fun to renew wedding vows.
      You vow to give your wife her sexual freedom while staying chaste.
      She vows to fuck whomever she wishes while staying your loving slut wife.
      Ken agrees to fuck your slut wife every chance he gets and to be a good friend to you.
      Invite us to you ceremony!
      Ken will consummate the vows on your behalf while we stay at the bar.

      24 lovers? Your wife is a slut! Some guys have all the luck.

      Cuckold Matt,
      Maybe I read too much into your “cement the deal” comment. Jerry had a good follow-up response

      Jerry,
      Do you prefer your wife wife having more than one lover at a time? One stable lover? Or going from one to the next every few months to keep things interesting?

    • #38657
      cuckmatt

      I can’t wait for the details!


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    • #38659
      cuckmatt

      OK, so I’ve just had a debrief conversation with my wife as she travelled back (to work unfortunately for me) and all the signs are positive. Not much changed in terms of the kind of sex they had but her FWB is consistent if nothing else. Consistent in giving her the sex she needs and is growing to love and it’s the kind that I can’t compete with. For a start, he has me beat in the girth stakes and my wife just told me that she can feel the aftermath of their coupling. That’s something that she has never said about our sex. She said that just talking about things like that got her all tingly too. I told her that it gives me the tingles when she tells me things like that! He’s definitely doing things to her insides that I could never do.

      We got on to the subject of her feeling bad for me again. I reminded her that at for now, if the bare minimum I get is titillation from hearing about their coupling and the occasion edging from her, then I’m happy! Any more is a bonus. Foreplay without the intercourse, outercourse etc. I’m not going to lie, I was getting excited and hard just hearing some of the details and what it does to her when she thinks back to the sex and she can look forward to more of it too. THAT really excites me.

      Because of the industry we work in and some of the practices of the industry (hotels), my wife is going to organise a hotel for them both, in a neutral city that will happen one day after her birthday, and unless something comes up, he has no objection to the plan. So she will be able to go the whole way in glamming herself up for him and they’ll be able to enjoy more space and comfort for their sex together. They will be able to enjoy a restaurant meal together beforehand if they like. It’s not entirely what I had in mind but it excites me no less and my wife is excited about the fourth coupling too. It also turns out that the arrangement they have been enjoying is something that her FWB is beginning to enjoy and relax more with.

      They touched briefly on relationships and dynamics last night and a full blown girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is not something is looking for. It doesn’t want that level of connection. It’s too much. He’s very happy to have my wife as occasional, slightly regular company and to have some sexual intimacy and release with. I think that their sexual organs are really becoming accustomed to each other. Hopefully this will mean that I will one day become cut off from intercourse of any kind, completely from my wife. Related to that, my wife said that after her birthday coupling with him, she will take a month break from him. This is to loosen any bond that may be developing between them. I assured her that if that is what she wants to do, I will completely support her but I also told her that having some regularity means that she has something sexually positive to look forward to with clockwork frequency, which I don’t think is a bad thing for her.

      They did have a conversation kinks too. It turns out that he is a little coy of confessing his darkest secrets so soon but he does have a little swinging experience and so isn’t completely green about things. He doesn’t really have a dominant side to him unfortunately. Just a damn good cock and a damn good method of use with it, but as he is becoming more relaxed with things, I’m confident that direct involvement in some way between myself and him IS on the cards. I think if I haven’t had any direct involvement after the next couple of meets, I will step up and introduce myself in some fashion and start with a thank you to him for looking after my wife.

      From my perspective, so far, so good!

    • #38660
      TransStar

      Glad to hear everyone enjoyed the coupling.

      Here is another option to not being with the guy for a month to prevent getting a case of the feelings. Be with someone else in the interim. Yup, if she were to have great sexy with a per person it kinda diminishes the feelings she has for her houseboat guy.

      • #38661
        cuckmatt

        That’s not really an option though is it. That’s the stuff of fantasy for husbands who wish to be involved in the Hotwife lifestyle. Even then, finding somebody worthy is no easy thing. In my wife’s words, we’ve stumbled on to a bit of a unicorn. The guy is visually attractive to her, intelligent enough to hold a conversation that keeps her intrigued and engaged, has a good sized cock and knows how to use it. This is cuckolding, not hot-wifeing. If it was hot-wifeing, she could go out every weekend and get laid but that’s not what we want.

    • #38662
      TransStar

      So you both prefer one lover for your wife. Perfect.

      I have no idea where you live. If you are in or near a big city it maybe not be difficult to fined a second suitable lover.

      But if that is not what you want then yes, the point is mute.

      Eager to hear details of the latest coupling if you care to share.

    • #38663
      cuckmatt

      You need to spend more time on the Literotica site. You would really enjoy it over there.

    • #38665
      motley

      A good man is hard to find. Best of luck to the three of you! And wishing the the friendship among the three of you develops in the best ways possible.

      • #38668
        cuckmatt

        Thanks Motley!

    • #38669
      Luvinsunshine

      Developing feelings is a slippery slope and a easy way to end up with a divorce. In the beginning there was a close call for us. The guy attempted to get way to close. Even when we explained that wasn’t going to happen he wasn’t deterred. I had to break up with him and it didn’t go well. We took a long break before trying again. It’s great for you marriage that she is looking for ways to prevent the wrong feelings from coming in. It seams to show she is still in love with you and wants to spend her life with you. From a girls perspective I don’t see how adding another will prevent feelings like TransStar mentioned.
      We started reading online advice about how to prevent these problems. The biggest one that worked out for us was to see younger guys. This helps in a few ways. Normally they will see you as a bit of a authority figure because of age. For us this journey is mostly physical. So the younger guys tent to be in better shape and can go many times. I’m my experience they also are eager to please and learn. It’s also not hard for them to realize a deep relationship isn’t in the cards. Along with at that age that’s not what they are looking for anyway.

      • #38670
        cuckmatt

        Hi Luvinsunshine,

        I can definitely see how dating younger guys could work as a means keeping some emotional distance. If my wife decides that this lifestyle is a thing that we should get used to, I will certainly lay that down as a brilliant piece of advice!

        We have discussed the future a little and right now, in my wife’s mind, we have found a unicorn. Or rather, he is a unicorn in my wife’s eyes and I don’t think at this stage, that if things came to an end between her and her FWB, that she’d be looking for a replacement. I would love it if she did but I’m just not convinced that it would be so. A lot of planets aligned to bring us to our current circumstances so right now, we’re basking in the here and now.

        Thanks again for your brilliant input.

    • #38671
      Luvinsunshine

      Glad I could provide a small bit of insight. Hopefully your current situation will work out well. If not that’s why we are here. To help each other along.

      • #38712
        cuckmatt

        Thanks Luvinsunshine and sorry for the late reply!

    • #38713
      cuckmatt

      Hi everyone. Sorry for my absence over the last couple of weeks or so. Just to update you, my wife is currently, as I type this out, with her FWB on his boat and I have already had message back about an hour ago that read, “Thinking about you….. whilst having fucking epic sex! Xxx”. I’m hoping that I get another before I head of to sleep and hopefully it’ll be similar to the earlier one.

      I’ll try and update you tomorrow when my wife is home and napping. She likes a nap to catch up on lost sleep from all the great sex from the night before.

    • #38716
      TransStar

      I’m excited to her about your wife’s latest coupling.

    • #38759
      cuckmatt

      Finally managed to find a few minutes.

      My wife had arranged a hotel meet with her FWB at the end of March. Had it panned out, it would have been a nice birthday treat for her but in the end, it wasn’t to be. He cancelled a few days ahead. Thankfully, no deposit on the hotel room had been paid of petrol put in the tank. The room was going to cost nothing (a loophole/benefit of working in the hotel industry) thankfully but did leave my wife feeling frustrated to say the least. Every dark cloud has a silver lining though, right?

      This hiccup allowed my wife and I to take stock a little. To reflect on the situation and in the end, we remembered that nobody is beholden to anyone and that any one of us could call it quits at any given time. So cherish the good times and………that’s it. Just enjoy things for what they are and lower expectations to more realistic levels. Disappointments are going to be less frequent with that kind of mindset.

      Fast forward a week or so and new plans were made. The usual arrangement though. My wife travels to him, they remain on the boat, chat, relax, maybe a drink or two and loads of great sex. In preparation, my wife bought new underwear for the occasion. She had a new dress that she wanted to test out too. Both items got little attention from her FWB. When the time came, the underwear was quickly dispatched to the floor with little or no time for admiration. The sex part of the evening started earlier too, so the effects of alcohol made no impression on them, which was a bonus. It was more of the same kind of goings on though. Lots of missionary, lots of kissing and my wife rode him more this time. He still couldn’t cum though. Not until the morning fun started and my wife gave him one of her blowjobs. He came then though and again complemented her oral skills. At some point in the proceedings, my wife straddled his face and according to her, he’s pretty good at oral also. This guy has the talents it seems. Oh to find out what he would be like with more room to romp around in!

      I got a WhatsApp message quite early in the evening and it just said, “thinking about you while I have lots of really great sex. Xxx”. That was it though. I didn’t hear from her again until the next day when she was on her way home. I was busy doing something though and after a little chat, it was decided that we would continue the debrief upon her return home. When she returned, we had hug and did some kissing ourselves and she did taste different. 40 minutes prior, she had taken his cum in her mouth. I couldn’t say what the kiss tasted like but it was definitely different. We tried to talk about her night but we kept getting interrupted by our daughter so it was going to be a bedtime discussion in the main but we did touch on a couple of things.

      They did discuss me a little more. Along the lines of, “Is Matt still OK with things?” So that was a yes and with a little further discussion, my wife came to the conclusion that her FWB was practically vanilla in his sexual outlook and the bad news for me is that in all liklihood, me being in the same room anytime is just not going to happen. Being in the general vacinity is going to be unlikely too. So I suggested an open ended phone call. She calls me at an opportune moment, doesn’t talk but just leaves the phone on the side so I can listen in. But it’s finding that moment. The idea of her saying, “let me just call my hubby so he can get his rocks off” just as they’re getting going just isn’t going to work. My wife knows that I need some form titillation to keep this 3-way dynamic alive and we discuss ending things if she was sure that he couldn’t be brought into our marriage some more and ending things is a serious option. But I love how happy and full of joy and sexually satisfied she is when she comes home so for now, unless that changes, we’re going to carry on for a while. Who knows. Maybe (hopefully) he can come out of his anxiety a little more.

      Later on in bed, after releasing me from my chastity device, I was given a loving and long edging session by my wife’s hand at first before moving onto PIV missionary edging. A little dirty talk thrown in helped things along very nicely. I did say to my wife that as long as she is happy to continue getting the sexual servicing from her FWB, then I am happy too, but I do need this physical teasing to make it worth while for me. She could cut me off from PIV stimulation but I definitely need physical stimulation of some kind. Hearing this was delightful to her and so it shall be this way……at least for a while.

      • #38762
        Cathy & Jerry

        Matt. Isn’t is wonderful to visualize your lovely bride lying naked on her back, her lets spread wide, her pussy glistening from her excitement, and a much better lover than you is between those hot legs, his large hot cock deep in her married pussy, and they’re going through the ritualistic moves of a loving couple in the act of mating?

        I am always hard as a rock (tiny rock though lol) when I know that Ken has mated with and inseminated my pretty lady. I also enjoy knowing that I’ll never be doing that ever again, my semen is usually all over me instead as it should be being a cuckold, it never gets old!!

        Enjoy all that this lifestyle has to give, and as you stated – don’t give up and don’t let the negative parts disappoint you or your lovely bride because “things will happen” and the thrill will start anew! If she decides to bounce him, both of you just need to know that there will be another good man out there who will be most delighted to be the next man to make passionate love to her. 🙂

        • #38770
          Ricky Joiner

          Might be an idea Jerry, for you and Cathy to renew your marriage vows, and have Ken take care of the consummation on your behalf!

        • #38773
          Cathy & Jerry

          Ricky, it’s already happened lol. We did that in Las Vegas. We had our friends and family there for the re-wedding then had the party at a small hall with entertainment. Ken was best man (more than anyone else there knew lol). At the end of the night I walked her up to the bridal suite where Ken met us at the door. I took her hand (left hand with wedding ring) and put it into his hand and kissed her goodnight and asked him to please take good care of her, he replied “oh I fully intend to!”. I went to his room for the evening while my bride welcomed Ken’s big cock inside of her newly married pussy, he inseminated her numerous times during the night as I had hoped he would. He took two photos to send to me, one of his big cock about to enter my bride’s pussy, then another one of his first largest load of sperm leaking out of her – I came so hard when I saw those photos, wishing my pretty lady was still fertile :). It was the perfect re-wedding for this cuckold couple lol.

    • #38807
      cuckmatt

      Right now, there’s a high probability that my wife’s FWB is balls deep inside my wife on this, her 5th visit to him. Slightly different this time as it’s not a weekend night and she has work tomorrow. Fortunately, her position in the company that she works in allows her the privilege of working from home occasionally. It also means that she can take her sweet time getting home as she works to her own schedule and demands.

      This morning as I left for work, my wife was getting ready for work in the usual way, only today, she wore a skirt, a Hawes & Curtis satin pussybow blouse, suspenders and stockings and t-bar stilettos. My favourite kind of look on a woman and I’m quite sure that her FWB will be quite appreciative too! I’d like to think that the at least the heels are still on while he’s fucking her ways that I can’t. Filling her fuller that I absolutely can’t and I really think that my wife is getting quite comfortable with our arrangementt/dynamic.

      We discuss her FWB with some regularity. It can be related to their connected work or it will be related, to their sexual chemistry but the conversation is easy often but without it being obsessive or worrying and I think that we both share the same perspective in that regard.

      The dynamic and nuances of it are slightly different to how imagined it would be. The chastity element is inconsistent but that has it’s plus and negative sides. The plus sides being that my wife is more likely to indulge me with some physical teasing if my dick is free and easy and edging is just so much more exciting when done by her. It also means that I can edge a little when time and circumstances afford me it. As easy as it is to wear my current device, day-to-day life is a little easier without it too. Working and especially my bike riding benefit from things being loose. Negatives of not being locked are things like not being constantly reminded of the kind of relationship that we are in. Constantly? Perpetually I mean! Haha!! That’s about it really.

      What I am loving is how relaxed and enjoyable things have been getting for my wife. We’re coming to the end of the, “well this is quite weird” stage and entering into a very relaxed, “what will be, will be” plain of thinking. Not in a devil may care type of attitude but more like a natural state of mind. Things are just humming along nicely. The strange thing being, that that state of naturalism is actually quite thrilling to me and whilst there isn’t the creampies, the photo’s or videos and the various other peripheral elements often associated with cuckolding, I know that tomorrow evening, my wife and I will enjoy some intimacy together ourselves and it will be electric when we’re touching each other and the liklihood of me cumming or being made give her every ounce of me, seems to be slowly waning.

      That’s where we are at.

    • #38810
      cuckmatt

      It was 10:40pm-ish when I messaged my wife to say that I was hoped that she was having a great time and getting lots of the good sex she’s come to expect from her FWB. It was roughly midnight when she responded with “Round three already 😀😘 Xx” and then 4 hours later came the next message saying she hadn’t slept at all and would likely have to pull a sick day as she would be too exhausted to get any of her work done and would need to recuperate. I was asleep when both messages landed in my phone and didn’t pick them up until shortly after 5am. I immediately began to get aroused whilst reading the messages and began edging. I responded with a message saying that if she was going to completely scrap the work day, she may as well spend some more time with her FWB and get some more of his sex.

      I hope she does spend some more time than planned there this morning. Maybe get breakfast/lunch together and top things off with more sex before coming home to me? Now there’s a horny thought!!

    • #38811
      cuckmatt

      As I was typing that last update, I received a message from my wife and a very short video of her surroundings. The message read, “Up at 5:44 edging. Very naughty. I kinda like the thought of you edging while I’m out getting fucked. 😉

      We have just enjoyed some phenomenal morning sex and now he is dozing while I cuddle up to him. I might go back to sleep myself.

      😘😘😘

      I love you xxxxxx”

      What a wife!!

    • #38819
      cuckmatt

      How many stories and memes must I have read and seen on Literotica, Tumblr and BDSMLR about wives catching feelings for their regular FWB? The whole kissing and cuddling and time spent together resulting in emotional bonds and attachments? This sort of cuckolding has always resonated with me and struck chords within me that have resulted in huge excitement, but it always seemed so unlikely. We had very serious conversation yesterday afternoon when I returned home from work and again in the evening in bed. My wife has been self aware enough to see signs of feelings blossoming between her and her FWB and thought it a good idea to discuss things now, rather than later.

      There has been a combination of elements that have culminated in this situation. The first being the obvious one. Great sex. The kind of sex that has been missing in our relationship for some time. That raw, basic instinct type, animal attraction style sex. Throw in a cock that fills her more than my own and does things to her in different ways that mine can’t and voila! But there has also been other elements of their intimacy that have contributed to these feelings my wife has discovered.

      The constant close proximity to each other when they have been together. His safety net or comfort zone of his small house boat means that even during regular conversation, they are practically on top of each other. Lots of unavoidable touching when passing each other there. Perhaps to bathroom or to make something in the kitchen area or going outside for a smoke. When they are in bed, it’s a small bed meant for one person so they are constantly intertwined with each other to prevent someone literally falling out of bed. That’s front to front or spooning between episodes of intercourse. Their bodies becoming so very accustomed.

      Then there is the increased frequency of interaction when not together. Beit for work purposes or just in innocuous like on a Facebook or Instagram (they’re friends/following each other) or comment on a posting. It has all come together to form those feelings that all new couples go through in those early days when they realise that the numbers add up VERY well. And upon hearing my wife’s confessions, I could just feel myself getting happy and more tellingly…..hard!

      I couldn’t tell my wife fast enough that the words coming from her mouth were exciting to hear. She was actually expecting me to say to her that now would be a good time to break it off between them. It turns out that she already had gone ahead and told him that the brakes were being pumped hard on their relationship but not completely halted. She told him that she needed a few weeks of thinking space. Time to recalibrate. About 3 weeks of absolute minimal contact. That contact being for business purposes only. Social media contact being zero. She hasn’t unfriended/unfollowed her FWB but she’s “muted” the connections. All she has to do for her own piece if mind, is to resist the temptation to have a look to see what he has been doing with himself. To keep him at arms length. Maybe when she has had that time to reflect, time to calm down and think rationally about things instead of with emotions, she can make a decision about their future. What my wife says that she wants, is that ability to separate the emotion from the act. Much like men seem to be more capable of. So that’s the plan. Take a step back and reorganise mentally.

      What hasn’t helped her is my insistence that whatever she chooses to do, I will support her 100%. As I have done since day one of our marriage. Of course I would be disappointed if she broke things off but as it stands, with her current outlook, it is my wife that is the one that is going to be hurt the most if things are ended. Her FWB will very quickly reset. I will get over the disappointment quite well and quite quickly but my wife has been having the time of her life! Fantastic sex with a guy she has the serious hots for, different mental stimulation that she has been enjoying and then being able to come home to me and warm and enthusiastic embrace and all the rock solid constants that she appreciates from me. Not to mention the reinvigorated passion that we are sharing lately.

      One of the things I have said to my wife is that as long as communication remains strong between us on the subject, then I think that we can work through anything. It’s when things start getting held back that problems arise. The little secrets. My wife said that she actually doesn’t want to give her FWB up. She enjoys every thing they have together. His seemingly inability to venture beyond the confines if his houseboat for anything other than absolute necessary work. She loves the way he not only fucks her, but the way he makes love to her. His passion for her. His kisses, the way he holds her close and tight. Both during sex and between bouts of sex. They converse easily now. Any awkwardness is almost nonexistent now. She likes how he cooks meals for her, she likes how she can smell him on her when she is on her way home. She so SO sexually satisfied by him, she can’t believe it! And I don’t want her to give any of that up if it’s making her happy. She has my unyielding love and support that she knows only I can give her and if he can live with her leaving him every time to return to me and her HOME, then I’m happy for her to have a different love with him.

      Last night, we enjoyed each other again as we discussed things. I was allowed to edge inside her and she felt different. She was very wet and definitely a little looser. Her FWB will have spent more time inside my wife during their 5 meets over 3 months than I have in that time. As we were making our new kind of love, I asked her who’s cum did she want inside of her the most. Until last night, she has wanted me to finish inside her and preferably by way of me having a full orgasm. Almost like she needed her husband to take her back? Last night though, she didn’t want me to cum at all. She said that she wants only his cum inside her. I want that too and I hope when they next get together (fingers are crossed that her emotions win over her rationale) that I can cum inside her without the aid of her exceptional oral skills!

      I have never been so in love with my wife as I have today!

    • #38825
      Cathy & Jerry

      She’s falling in love with him as she should be, it’s just a different kind of love. It’s unlikely that she’ll want to leave you for him, you offer her much more in support etc. As for sperm, she now knows how she feels when he inseminates her and wants it to remain that way. A woman’s body eventually knows who her “mate” is and will absorb his sperm and give her endorphins that leave her feeling wonderful, you can look it up. Be happy with what is developing and always stay tuned in to her, talk to her lots and be let her talk to you as she would a best girl friend, it’s what she will need.

      Congratulations on this stage of your cuckolding 🙂

    • #38899
      cuckmatt

      My wife is on her way home and has been giving me the low down on last night’s hotel meet with C. It’s been 4 week since they last met and few little wrinkles in plans but they’ve been ironed out. The hotel was one under my wife’s Sales control and he was there as a performer for an event booked by my wife. So there was some concern about the wrong people being in the know or suspecting my wife of having an affair or at the least, a one night stand with the star performer. Any concerns went out of the window after a few drinks had been downed!

      The initial plan was for my wife to go to to work and then wind down for a few hours and prepare for C’s arrival at her room when he’d finished his act. In the end. Before he’d even begun though, he visited her in her room, but only to say hello and to grab a quick kissing session. A little later, as his performance got going, she went down to see how things were going but with no intention of sitting and staying. Some colleagues who were there as paying spectators invited her to their table though and so a glass or two of wine were consumed. Then there was some dancing and then the main set finished and C’s duties become those of a party DJ so he could start to relax a bit. Him and his business partner joined my wife and they all began to socialise.

      As the night wore on into the early hours, hand-holding at the bar and kissing began to increase in frequency. Things are getting a little more public! I’m happy for this development but I wasn’t expecting it to occur on the premises of one of my wife’s business interests. But it’s happened now and we can only wait to see what happens, if anything, in terms of gossip. Come what may though, my wife told me that she enjoyed to moments and the night of sex/love making that followed.

      C’s partner is fully aware of their dynamic now. As strange as it seems, C’s business partner is female and also doubles up as his best friend. My wife and I are still a little puzzled at how it’s remained platonic between them as his partner clearly adores him and will do anything for him. They take small vacations together too. He invited my wife to join them on their last one a little over a 2 weeks ago but my wife declined, feeling it was a little odd. But after last night, she feels she would be more comfortable accepting such invitations. It turns me on thinking how that could develop. Possibly into small weekends away between just my wife and C? I would be more than happy for them to go down that route.

      They discussed their relationship some more and my wife told C that he can make the first move if he wishes as she felt things were getting a bit one sided in the chase. He being who he is said that he was shit at organising himself and dates when he was free but my wife responded by telling him that short notice was not a problem for her. All she needs is a text message the day before and she can shuffle things around. Maybe even shorter notice than that!!

      I like the way things are moving. Developing a relationship of sorts with hints of romance in it is the stuff of my cuckold dreams. I’m going to start dreaming of them in our bed here at home and on vacations together!

    • #39003
      cuckmatt

      I feel like I’m living the dream these days. My wife and I spent the weekend together on city break away. It was my 47th birthday on Sunday but we got the celebrations rolling on Friday. We checked into the Novotel Hotel and my wife had told them it was my birthday so they upgraded our room to an executive. Much better appointed and with more space. We decided early on that we do the drinking on the Friday night to get it over and done with and the rest of the weekend could be spent recovering/relaxing.

      We have penchant for Rock and heavy metal music so we located the bar that was exclusively rock/heavy metal themed and the drinks started flowing. We talked about our music experiences, dug deeper into the memories about concerts and festivals and what not, until finally, our conversation turned to C. I’m going to cut to the chase here or you’ll be reading all day. My wife mentioned that a friend had confided in her that she had been sleeping with another guy behind her very long term partner’s back. Maybe only 2 or 3 times per year but it had been going on for 5 or 6 years. My wife had obviously talked about what we were doing and her friend offered her some advice. Be careful not to fall in love, because she had herself developed deep feelings for the guy, even though they saw each other very infrequently. What was not infrequent was the messaging between them. This is where my wife began to confess that the feelings she thought she had for C a couple of months back, instead of being put in a box and packed away, had developed further. Especially after their last encounter that included public displays of affection.

      My wife went on to explain that she was actually falling in love with C. She told me how it was different to we have as married couple though. She explained that it was like having a girlfriend that she could sleep with and with no regrets or embarrassment after the event. I must tell you before going any further that one of her best friends has slept with my wife on several occasions and there has been no trouble following. It’s just a thing that happens from time to time. They meet up, have a drink, get up to date on their lives, talk turns to kink events that have transpired or are coming up and before they know it, they’re enjoying each other physically. And my wife has likened C to this friend. Someone she can talk with, laugh with, put aside her home life and then have incredible sex with him. Wake up the next day thoroughly refreshed and return home to me. Her loving, doting husband. Her carer, her true confident, her partner in life and soul mate.

      My wife went on to consider him as a genuine boyfriend. They were slowly developing into just such a dynamic between them and although she is aware that if he called the sex off, that would be a bullet she would have to bite, she would still consider him a very good friend that she would like to remain in contact with. And just like her female friend that she has slept with, if the occasion was to present itself, she could sleep with him again without fear of condemnation or embarrassment.

      All this talk had me very excited and straining in my chastity device. I was so happy, excited and deeply in love with my wife that night. When we returned to the hotel, she released me from my device and edged me several times before we finally went to sleep. The next day we discussed events further. My wife plans on asking C if he would like to go away for a weekend together with her. Maybe a secluded lodge with a hot tub, Friday to Sunday, just the two of them so that they can spend some quality time together without my wife worrying about getting home to me and the kids. They could go to a tourist type location, see sights, take lunch and a restaurant together or whatever. All without the constraint of time hanging around their necks.

      Another thing we talked about was the possibility of C not genuinely believing that my wife has a husband that fully on board with her having a boyfriend/lover. So when they next get together, I’m to call my wife to ask her something. Just a brief a call but I’m to say something along the lines of “Sorry to bother you while you are with C” or, “I hope you’re having a nice time with C”, and she will have the volume up so that he hears it.

      Going back to the friendship thing, my wife has said that as long as things go good, she has the intention of inviting him to her 40th birthday party next March. For obvious reasons, the public displays of affection are going to have to be curbed for the duration but afterwards, they can retire to a hotel or if we can get our eldest child to go to his grandparents with his younger sister, they can go back to our house to have intimate birthday celebrations.

      As we discussed all these things, I was again edged several times, pegged and given a ruined orgasm and then edged some more. What a birthday weekend I had. The best to my memory. And the icing on the cake is that she is seeing C again on Friday night and he is paying for a hotel for them and much closer to our house too.

      I love my wife!!!

    • #39037