A Winning Combination?

Thanks Motley.

Hi Glasgow982000,

To be honest, I could spill the beans a little more but to what end? If it’s titillation you’re looking for, you may be better off on something like Literotica.com perhaps. I’ve been on this site for many years and I know that it’s a well respected site, full of very useful resources and guidance and such. If there’s anything you think I may be able to help you with in your own quest, ask away!

The follow up date is pencilled in for Friday 26th, which I think is well timed. This one is potentially going to be a quickie for her but an over nighter isn’t ruled out yet. I’d much prefer for her to return home soon after. I want the chance to offer to go down on her and to get a taste of her well used body!

There has been a mention of her new friend everyday since their hook up and always excites me. All I can say is that I’m glad I have a cage on or I would be edging myself into oblivion! If all goes well again, I think my birthday idea will go down well with them both. If you haven’t read my idea, it’s over on the Submissive Husbands forum. It should be easy enough to find.

We’re 4 days away from my wife’s 2nd coupling with her “FWB” and as you can imagine, my mind is ramping up the activity as the date draws closer. The topic of her cuckolding me has been brought up on quite a few occasions since her first meet with her new man. Sometimes serious, sometimes light-hearted teasing but either way, always exciting for me. My wife is looking to the future too, albeit a short term future and she’s making decisions without any influence whatsoever from me. Although she is consulting me very frequently about things but I think that that is for the benefit of her confidence, which is absolutely perfect for me. Anything to boost my wife’s experience in this new found dynamic!

My wife is very confident that her new man is going to remain exclusive to us and as she’s never been a fan of condoms, she’s picked up the contraceptive pill for a month. This can be easily renewed online should things continue in a positive manner, although if they do, it is more than likely that she will visit the family planning clinic and have the Coil implanted again. The pill is only reliable if you run it like clockwork where as the Coil, you can just forget about it. So my wife has every intention of going bare with her man and this excites me greatly. I’m praying that they go from strength to strength. That they develop a physical bond and my own bond with my wife is reduced to that of physical comforting and spiritual support for her new relationship. I want her to become accustomed to his body and his sperm. So much so that she becomes dependent on it.

We have talked about how everything is filling her mind more than she’s been used to, and so she’s not rushing anything. The idea of this becoming more than just a “FWB” type relationship is just not appealing to my wife yet, although I am hoping that with each passing coupling, something a little more develops. It would be my dream for them to become a dating couple. Meals out, cinema nights, concerts, social events etc. Maybe even weekends away together? But, I must keep my dreams in check and remain in the real world for now and enjoy every moment for what it is. A bit of fun for us all.

I really can’t describe how happy we are right now. Just talking about Friday’s coupling has both grinning from ear to ear. The kissing between us both is electric! And when I ask my wife if she is still looking forward to the date and I get, I’m REALLY REALLY looking forward to it” from her and her eyes are wide and bright, it really excites me!

She has decided that she will take only two miniature bottles of wine with her so that she can really experience the pleasure of her FWB’s cock and efforts and she’s hoping he will take a leaf from her book by doing similar. Now that the ice is broken, the need for the numbing effects of alcohol is just not anywhere near as necessary this time around. The two of them can only benefit from it too. To feel every square millimeter of each other’s bodies and to have that electricity of first and second time intimate coupling is what should be on everyone’s mind. That kind of thing has my dick straining in it’s chastity device and leaking cuck tears.

In the words of one of Madonna’s songs, time goes by so slowly!

Well it is approaching 7am and the last contact that I had with my wife was 10 hours ago, via WhatsApp. She wrote, “Love you. Thinking of you while I’m having fun. Xx”. I responded with a couple of loving emojis but that wasn’t acknowledged until a couple of hours later. The fact that she is still there suggests that they were enjoying each other enormously and in a much more sober manner.

I can’t wait to hear from her!

It got to around 10am and I hadn’t heard from my wife so I thought I’d send a tongue in cheek question. Keeping it vague so that she could decide how much of an answer she gave. Check out the screenshot! Oh my!! I love my wife and can’t wait to see her come through the door, beaming from ear to ear!!

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My wife is currently napping in our sun drenched conservatory. Absolutly shattered for all the right reasons. On her drive back home, she couldn’t express enough how happy she was with the sex between her and her new FWB! They’d chatted for a few hours and enjoyed a small amount of drinks over a few hours. My wife remained pretty sober throughout and C (we’ll call him) measured his drinking too. From 10pm until around 2am, it was pretty much non-stop sex for them. She told me how she now realises that he is brilliant fuck. He knows how to tease her with his superior cock in just the right ways and how he knows how to give her just what she needs and when she needs it.

Due to the cramped conditions on the boat, I was told that apart from the morning sex that they had, it was all missionary with LOTS of passionate kissing, which she likes a LOT too. She lost count of the number of times that he brought her to incredible climaxes! And this morning, they awoke and had incredible sex again. Starting with my wife going down on his cut cock for a while. He definitely has problems ejaculating when the under the influence it seems but this morning, my wife brought him close enough with her mouth before jumping on his cock and riding him to both their orgasms and her first experience of him cumming inside her. He complimented my wife on her oral skills, lamenting how she gave the best he had ever had!

They have decided that their arrangements are to continue. No date has been set yet but once more, it can’t come soon enough for me. I have floated the idea of me treating her to a nice Italian meal at a restaurant that I know of that is part of a hotel for her birthday in a month’s time.
The hotel/restaurant are only a mile or so from where C’s home is moored. Her face lit up when I suggested that I get the pleasure of taking her for a birthday meal but C will have opportunity to use the hotel room for the night with her, providing her with birthday sex while I drive home. Only returning the next day to pick her up. Fingers crossed for that one!

I hope that tonight my wife will release my aching dick and maybe give it a nice edging while going into more details of last night. Once again, I couldn’t be happier with the way things are going currently and my wife has expressed how lucky she feels to have a husband that is happy for his wife to seek sexual satisfaction from another man. I love her more than I thought possible right now!

Hi Ricky.

Thanks for the input. I have accepted your friend request by the way.

Believe me, I am letting my wife dictate the pace of everything. I have to. We agreed to a FLR and all that comes with it. I must just simply support and encourage her choices. And where I get an opportunity to have some input, then I will for sure!

There are a couple of flys in ointment in terms of her developing things beyond a FWB dynamic but I’m not going to go into that here. That’s not for public divulging. But it is early days yet, let’s say. The thought of them dating, out and proud is such a thrilling one. The restaurant/hotel idea I thought would be a good way of opening that door for them a little. And it really would show him my willing for their relationship, but that idea is still being kicked about by my wife. It’s a wait and see for that one.

I love to buy my wife clothes and lingerie. Unfortunately for me, my wife hates the whole shopping experience. She knows what she likes and she orders most things online and usually from Next. I’ve been pretty good over the years with my choices for her though. Only on a couple of occasions has she not really liked what I bought for her. She really detests the idea of expensive lingerie though. Buying it herself or having it bought for her. She just doesn’t see the point of it. I will get her some for the restaurant/hotel date if she agrees to that. I’ll just have to down play the price.

I like the idea of your wife having a separate wardrobe that only he lover gets to see. That’s commitment to the cause right there!! Maybe if things go well, we can enjoy similar experiences to the ones you have. Keep your fingers crossed!

Well I didn’t expect to be going into that conversation soon after waking, but I suppose it was as good a time for it as any.

With or without the contraceptive pill, the whole dynamic has been very much present in my wife’s mind. Sometimes it’s joyous recollections, sometimes it’s doubt and other times curiosity. Last night she wanted some passion from me (including sex), so I gave it my all…..for about 2 minutes until I finished with my usual disappointing orgasm but it was about my wife wanted. This morning my wife woke a little time before me and once more, she went off in her head to that cuckolding place, so when I awoke, she wanted to talk about it. It was probably more of an affirmation than anything though. A stop check to confirm that we are doing the right thing and to reassure that we love each other and that love will only be between my wife and I……..and how to avoid it becoming between my wife and the two men in her life. She agreed that she was thinking far too much into things and getting way ahead of herself, but as she had been there in her head, let’s talk about it. I pointed out the glaringly obvious hurdles to my wife and her FWB falling for one and other that have been there from before we got started. He lives on a narrow boat, has a slight dependency on alcohol and a certain level social anxiety (maybe connected, maybe not) that make him anything but good boyfriend material.

We talked about these issues and I reminded her that she has only seen him twice and there is also a chance that he has revealed all the lovemaking tools that he has at his disposal, possibly revealing him to be extremely vanilla in his sexual outlook. I reiterated that they need to utilise hotels. Get him out of his comfort zone, literally and metaphorically, where there is space for the wilder sex that my wife craves and if that works out and he does have more skills in his bag, then that’s a bonus.

This kind of led to the part of the discussion about how all good things must come to an end. Deep down, I know I don’t want any of this to end. I want it to go from strength to strength. I’d love nothing more than for my wife and her FWB to become more of a dating type dynamic but as mentioned, the not insignificant issues are going to make that transition very doubtful so in the meantime, and I said this in our conversation, my wife should try and put any and all negative aspects to this dynamic to one side and just enjoy the great sex she is getting from him and treat it for what it is. Simply three adults enjoying consensual sex together in way or another and nothing more. My wife can’t help herself from thinking that one day, it has to end though and finding another guy that will tick all the right boxes is going to be impossible. She can’t see yet that however long this relationship lasts, it can only strengthen her confidence to seek out other men if and when this particular relationship fizzles out. Perhaps even better men are out there for her. Better cocks, better lovers, dominants etc. I’m hoping that if right now, we’ve only got one door open on this journey of sexual exploration and my wife is already liking what she’s found, that it will only embolden her to try more doors, more men and to get out there and find the next perfect match and subconsciously, she’s thinking along those lines too. Spending £300 (nearly $400) to have the contraceptive Coil fitted, that will last for 10 years is some commitment to extramarital sex.

My wife has said that in all liklihood, she is going to dig a little deeper into his psyche. He is well aware that she is married. She mentions me fairly frequently in the conversations but so far, all their conversations have been quite superficial. No deep and meaningfuls. Well it’s time to go a little deeper and talk more of kinks and fetishes. To find out how much he knows of cuckolding, hotwifing, swinging etc. I don’t care what anybody says, her FWB has to have done a little researching on the subject since this all began. He asked her about her tattoo, a BDSM emblem, and she told him. So again, if he didn’t already have some BDSM knowledge, I’m pretty sure he would have looked it up. I mean he used to be a Stripper so he must have heard of some BDSM elements during his stripping days. He just can not be that vanilla, that innocent. It can’t be possible. Once that conversation is had, we should be able to address the occasional interaction/involvement between him, my wife and me.

They have agreed to meet again in the next couple of weeks or so and I’m going to try and persuade my wife to make it birthday sex in the hotel that I will be pay for. I’ve already floated the idea to her and if she can lure him out of his crib for the night, it’ll be on. Fingers crossed for things to continue in the right direction!

Hi TransStar,

So far, he’s checking all the right boxes off and hopefully, someday soon, he’ll check off the “communicates with husband” box.

Well, today is the day that my wife heads to a private clinic to have the contraceptive coil fitted (almost $400) so that she can finally experience completely, unadulterated sexual release. After her first coupling with her FWB, she resorted to the Morning After pill and after that, bought the contraceptive pill online and that played havoc with her hormone. One minute she was on cloud 9 and the next minute she was confused and very sad. No way to go through life.

We touched on the subject briefly last night and she confirmed that she is excited to see C again. Excited to experience the 10/10 sex once more and to generally just be in his relaxing company. We’re still a full week away from that but just hearing her voice when talking about it, her unbridled enthusiasm is such a turn on for me.

It will be her 39th birthday in 20 days and so I will be doing everything to encourage her sleeping with C on or around her birthday and in comfortable hotel room at my expense. I can’t tell you how much I’m enjoying all this and only wish we could have had this amount of fun 12 years ago!

Less than a week to go to date 3 and my wife is getting excited for it. The 10 year contraceptive coil is in and settled and the only thing that scupper her plans is for her period to show up any time now, so fingers crossed, that doesn’t happen!

Apparently he will be cooking them a meal on this occasion. All very cosy and less FWB like and more date like! Just thinking that and typing it makes my dick stir somewhat! I really hope that the impossible happens and they start acting more like couple with each other. As I’ve outlined before though, due to his circumstances and personal character traits, I do think that the meal cooking is a just a convenient way to show some appreciation for the sex he had been getting without resorting to spending money on a restaurant and venturing beyond the safe confines of his boat. I am just guessing there though.

Our youngest child is possibly going to be going to her grandparents for an overnight stay on the same night, so there is is half a chance that I could get myself to a fairly close proximity of my wife and her FWB and catch a small sound show at least? I won’t be able to make that call until the night itself but the thought has definitely crossed my mind.

Apart from that, I’m hoping that my wife does start the conversation about me and how the dynamic needs to turn in to a 3 way relationship so fingers crossed for that too!

I can’t wait for the details!

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OK, so I’ve just had a debrief conversation with my wife as she travelled back (to work unfortunately for me) and all the signs are positive. Not much changed in terms of the kind of sex they had but her FWB is consistent if nothing else. Consistent in giving her the sex she needs and is growing to love and it’s the kind that I can’t compete with. For a start, he has me beat in the girth stakes and my wife just told me that she can feel the aftermath of their coupling. That’s something that she has never said about our sex. She said that just talking about things like that got her all tingly too. I told her that it gives me the tingles when she tells me things like that! He’s definitely doing things to her insides that I could never do.

We got on to the subject of her feeling bad for me again. I reminded her that at for now, if the bare minimum I get is titillation from hearing about their coupling and the occasion edging from her, then I’m happy! Any more is a bonus. Foreplay without the intercourse, outercourse etc. I’m not going to lie, I was getting excited and hard just hearing some of the details and what it does to her when she thinks back to the sex and she can look forward to more of it too. THAT really excites me.

Because of the industry we work in and some of the practices of the industry (hotels), my wife is going to organise a hotel for them both, in a neutral city that will happen one day after her birthday, and unless something comes up, he has no objection to the plan. So she will be able to go the whole way in glamming herself up for him and they’ll be able to enjoy more space and comfort for their sex together. They will be able to enjoy a restaurant meal together beforehand if they like. It’s not entirely what I had in mind but it excites me no less and my wife is excited about the fourth coupling too. It also turns out that the arrangement they have been enjoying is something that her FWB is beginning to enjoy and relax more with.

They touched briefly on relationships and dynamics last night and a full blown girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is not something is looking for. It doesn’t want that level of connection. It’s too much. He’s very happy to have my wife as occasional, slightly regular company and to have some sexual intimacy and release with. I think that their sexual organs are really becoming accustomed to each other. Hopefully this will mean that I will one day become cut off from intercourse of any kind, completely from my wife. Related to that, my wife said that after her birthday coupling with him, she will take a month break from him. This is to loosen any bond that may be developing between them. I assured her that if that is what she wants to do, I will completely support her but I also told her that having some regularity means that she has something sexually positive to look forward to with clockwork frequency, which I don’t think is a bad thing for her.

They did have a conversation kinks too. It turns out that he is a little coy of confessing his darkest secrets so soon but he does have a little swinging experience and so isn’t completely green about things. He doesn’t really have a dominant side to him unfortunately. Just a damn good cock and a damn good method of use with it, but as he is becoming more relaxed with things, I’m confident that direct involvement in some way between myself and him IS on the cards. I think if I haven’t had any direct involvement after the next couple of meets, I will step up and introduce myself in some fashion and start with a thank you to him for looking after my wife.

From my perspective, so far, so good!

You need to spend more time on the Literotica site. You would really enjoy it over there.

Hi everyone. Sorry for my absence over the last couple of weeks or so. Just to update you, my wife is currently, as I type this out, with her FWB on his boat and I have already had message back about an hour ago that read, “Thinking about you….. whilst having fucking epic sex! Xxx”. I’m hoping that I get another before I head of to sleep and hopefully it’ll be similar to the earlier one.

I’ll try and update you tomorrow when my wife is home and napping. She likes a nap to catch up on lost sleep from all the great sex from the night before.

Finally managed to find a few minutes.

My wife had arranged a hotel meet with her FWB at the end of March. Had it panned out, it would have been a nice birthday treat for her but in the end, it wasn’t to be. He cancelled a few days ahead. Thankfully, no deposit on the hotel room had been paid of petrol put in the tank. The room was going to cost nothing (a loophole/benefit of working in the hotel industry) thankfully but did leave my wife feeling frustrated to say the least. Every dark cloud has a silver lining though, right?

This hiccup allowed my wife and I to take stock a little. To reflect on the situation and in the end, we remembered that nobody is beholden to anyone and that any one of us could call it quits at any given time. So cherish the good times and………that’s it. Just enjoy things for what they are and lower expectations to more realistic levels. Disappointments are going to be less frequent with that kind of mindset.

Fast forward a week or so and new plans were made. The usual arrangement though. My wife travels to him, they remain on the boat, chat, relax, maybe a drink or two and loads of great sex. In preparation, my wife bought new underwear for the occasion. She had a new dress that she wanted to test out too. Both items got little attention from her FWB. When the time came, the underwear was quickly dispatched to the floor with little or no time for admiration. The sex part of the evening started earlier too, so the effects of alcohol made no impression on them, which was a bonus. It was more of the same kind of goings on though. Lots of missionary, lots of kissing and my wife rode him more this time. He still couldn’t cum though. Not until the morning fun started and my wife gave him one of her blowjobs. He came then though and again complemented her oral skills. At some point in the proceedings, my wife straddled his face and according to her, he’s pretty good at oral also. This guy has the talents it seems. Oh to find out what he would be like with more room to romp around in!

I got a WhatsApp message quite early in the evening and it just said, “thinking about you while I have lots of really great sex. Xxx”. That was it though. I didn’t hear from her again until the next day when she was on her way home. I was busy doing something though and after a little chat, it was decided that we would continue the debrief upon her return home. When she returned, we had hug and did some kissing ourselves and she did taste different. 40 minutes prior, she had taken his cum in her mouth. I couldn’t say what the kiss tasted like but it was definitely different. We tried to talk about her night but we kept getting interrupted by our daughter so it was going to be a bedtime discussion in the main but we did touch on a couple of things.

They did discuss me a little more. Along the lines of, “Is Matt still OK with things?” So that was a yes and with a little further discussion, my wife came to the conclusion that her FWB was practically vanilla in his sexual outlook and the bad news for me is that in all liklihood, me being in the same room anytime is just not going to happen. Being in the general vacinity is going to be unlikely too. So I suggested an open ended phone call. She calls me at an opportune moment, doesn’t talk but just leaves the phone on the side so I can listen in. But it’s finding that moment. The idea of her saying, “let me just call my hubby so he can get his rocks off” just as they’re getting going just isn’t going to work. My wife knows that I need some form titillation to keep this 3-way dynamic alive and we discuss ending things if she was sure that he couldn’t be brought into our marriage some more and ending things is a serious option. But I love how happy and full of joy and sexually satisfied she is when she comes home so for now, unless that changes, we’re going to carry on for a while. Who knows. Maybe (hopefully) he can come out of his anxiety a little more.

Later on in bed, after releasing me from my chastity device, I was given a loving and long edging session by my wife’s hand at first before moving onto PIV missionary edging. A little dirty talk thrown in helped things along very nicely. I did say to my wife that as long as she is happy to continue getting the sexual servicing from her FWB, then I am happy too, but I do need this physical teasing to make it worth while for me. She could cut me off from PIV stimulation but I definitely need physical stimulation of some kind. Hearing this was delightful to her and so it shall be this way……at least for a while.