Being Open about Cuckolding.

Let them speculate. No reason to out the cuck unless he is into humiliation. Just introduce the bf as a good friend. If others witness hand holding or other acts of open intimacy, just let them guess. If they ask, ask them why they are concerned if you aren’t. More difficult for to me would be me sleeping in the guest room while they were in ‘our’ bed. have to work on that one..lol….

Why do you think others will infer he’s your wife’s bf? He could be a friend visiting or a relative… Unless she wants to date him in public, it’s not that easy to infer anything… Even if neighbours notice something, why friends and family would?
About my experience, I prefer to keep it private and my wife doesn’t date anyone close to our social circle.
It’s not a secret to everyone because I’ve agreed she could tell about our lifestyle to her best friend and to her sister. It was because she would like to talk about her experiences with other women and because they were going on a trip together and she knew she possibly would get laid by other men as it indeed hapenned.
They are open minded and not judgmental. We’ve never talked about it but I always feel embarassed and submissive near them. It’s humiliating and exciting, can add something to your dynamic.

I love how your wife’s friend and sister know about your lifestyle. My wife hasn’t opened up to anyone in our close circle yet like that. I think it would be helpful to have someone to talk about her experiences. I can’t help but wonder how I will feel once I am outed as a cuckold. I think I will feel the same embarrassment as you do.

My wife & I had talked about this at length and agreed to be open about it. While it was not easy at 1st, we do not flaunt it but when asked she tells people her guy is her bf. He has now been introduced to some of the family and some of our friends who have met him as Sara’s BF.

Many years ago when I was dating a girl that I’m no longer with… her uncle would attend Christmas events with his wife and her boyfriend. I was naive and didn’t understand it at that time. But yes, be like them. You only have one life to live, be true to your deepest desires and you will be more free than the majority of men living on this planet. Who cares if insecure men try to insult you. At the end of the day, you get to watch and clean up if you’re lucky.

In my actual relationship but also in previous ones that were all cuckolding-relationships my girlfriend exposed me as being a cuck. She likes and I like it also (most of the time) the humiliation aspect of it.

It started long ago with telling her friends and some of her coworkers that I was not fulfilling her sexual desires. In my opinion to justify her cheating on me.

She also did tell relatives and friends when I got my vasectomy. Most wives chat with their best girlfriends about very private things that men would not even dare to think about such as the size, stamina of their men/boyfriends etc. But concerning vasectomies there seems to be not really a problem to this outside of the inner circle of girlfriends. Almost every time were with friends and the subject regarding having children arissed she mentioned and even made a snipping movement while looking at me that I had been snipped sometimes even looking at my crotch. Sometimes people do as they did not hear or see her remark but sometimes their is a little smile and sometimes they look at my crotch. Very humiliating…
Knowing that friends and relatives know that you have been snipped or hearing that your girlfriend/wife told them this sometimes in a humiliating as she would mention this about the dog is quite special… Or that one time that you heard her tell you sister in law that you got snipped lately sounds like you became a harmless male. Or that you noticed that female coworkers were gossiping and looking at your crotch after they heard that you got sterilized.

To our best friends we (and especially my girlfriend) are open that we are a cuckold-couple because she otherwise would be seen as cheating on me while I would not know it and put our friends in a somewhat difficult situation that they would know and I would not. What is almost necessary because they also know her lover and see her regularly with him. Especially the friends that she meets while doing sports activities with. I clearly feel that I am frequenty looked and considered as at as a lesser and impotent male.