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Ricky Joiner
My wife spent this weekend away with her bf and he will be coming to stay with us next weekend. They stayed at a hotel near where he lives. He lives in accommodation provided by his employers. Under the circumstance she prefers him to come to us and would feel more comfortable being in her own home with him. We have no children yet, so no problem there.
Thing is, he will be visiting regularly and she wants to feel free about dating and being out and about with him in our locality. It also won’t be long before neighbours see him coming and going. I’m not to sure about being able to handle this aspect of cuckolding – the side about it becoming public and friends and family knowing too. How do others handle this aspect of it?
Do you not give a damn about what others think and just live life accordingly?
Do you lie and cover it up with excuses?
Or, especially where family and close friends are concerned, do you just admit it and say this is our lifestyle and it’s no one else’s business? -
allistan
Let them speculate. No reason to out the cuck unless he is into humiliation. Just introduce the bf as a good friend. If others witness hand holding or other acts of open intimacy, just let them guess. If they ask, ask them why they are concerned if you aren’t. More difficult for to me would be me sleeping in the guest room while they were in ‘our’ bed. have to work on that one..lol….
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beta_hubby30
Why do you think others will infer he’s your wife’s bf? He could be a friend visiting or a relative… Unless she wants to date him in public, it’s not that easy to infer anything… Even if neighbours notice something, why friends and family would?
About my experience, I prefer to keep it private and my wife doesn’t date anyone close to our social circle.
It’s not a secret to everyone because I’ve agreed she could tell about our lifestyle to her best friend and to her sister. It was because she would like to talk about her experiences with other women and because they were going on a trip together and she knew she possibly would get laid by other men as it indeed hapenned.
They are open minded and not judgmental. We’ve never talked about it but I always feel embarassed and submissive near them. It’s humiliating and exciting, can add something to your dynamic. -
rem503
I love how your wife’s friend and sister know about your lifestyle. My wife hasn’t opened up to anyone in our close circle yet like that. I think it would be helpful to have someone to talk about her experiences. I can’t help but wonder how I will feel once I am outed as a cuckold. I think I will feel the same embarrassment as you do.
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Ricky Joiner
Unfortunately my wife is an only child. She and her mum are quite close but this is not the sort of thing you discuss with a parent is it? Or is it? She has close friends and some of them are quite open about their sex lives and extra-marital affairs but I don’t think she would go as far as telling them about her bf. They can be gossip’s, she says.
Anyway, she has decided to play it low key. He is coming up for the weekend. The three of us will be having a meal at our local pub tonight and, to any friends or locals that we get chatting to, he is an old friend from university.
They will be going out on their own tomorrow night and they will keep things low-key. No displays of intimacy or such. On Sunday evening she wants the place to herself with him so I will probably end up at the local on my own.
So we will see how it goes from there.
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