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    • #19395
      Anonymous

        Chastity was never a large part of our play, I always opted for rope when tying up his genitals.
        But as we ventured more and more into cuckolding, and I experimented with chastity, I found it made him more attentive overall, both in our kink and vanilla life, since rope can come off..but chastity stays locked on.
        So I don’t make him wear it 24/7 due to vanilla life and job, but at times I put him in it for an entire weekend. I found it calmed him down, and he took more relish of his submissive role..it kept him focused on me and my needs.
        Then as I cuckolded him, I found putting him in it a few days before and not letting him out till a couple of days after really hit his buttons and he became as submissive as can be. Now he is rarely allowed to orgasm, and when I am with a lover, I give him the key so he has full control of my husband, and I really enjoy seeing him humiliated by him.
        I even wore the key out on my necklace at the mall the other day and he was praying nobody knew what it meant.
        And now I had discussed with him, when he reaffirmed his commitment to an FLR, he will be put in chastity longer and longer until I have him in a week or more at a time, and just ordered one that will be less obtrusive for his work day….
        So have any of the other wives out here found chastity a great way to get husbands under control ?

      • #19434
        Anonymous

          Our journey started about 10 years ago when we were just in our 40s. We were very busy with work and family and as a consequence our sex life started to dwindle. He then began to have problems with maintaining an erection on the odd occasions that we did make love. I was very understanding and he used toys and oral to satisfy me and for a while this was enough.

          Around this time he got interested in chastity. Without my knowledge He bought a CB chastity cage and began wearing it during the day when I wasn’t around. Eventually after a year or so he built up the courage to tell me of his interest and suggested that it might bring back a spark into our love life. I wasn’t sure at first but he was able to find links to a couple of websites that gave a sensible view on the practice. Once I understood more I agreed to give it a go.

          Almost from the outset I found that I was aroused by the power trip that locking his cock gave me which was something I hadn’t expected. So, he began his life as a chastised male. His periods of confinement increased from just a few hours to what it is today about 7 – 10 days at a stretch 24/7. We also changed cages as the plastic enclose variety was difficult to keep clean if it wasn’t being removed for days at a time. So we moved to a ‘bird cage’ type metal one, which was ok at first but was too long for me. However I liked it as the space between the bars allowed me more scope to tease him while locked up. We finally moved to using a Fetish Fantasy Extreme cage which is shorter but still allows me to arouse him without letting him out.

          The move from plastic to metal lasted for another 18 months or so and during this time we continued to use toys and oral on me. During this he had become interested in cuckolding and had brought it up in conversation a number of times. Not unsurprisingly I wasn’t interested at first, I was suspicious that it was a lead into swinging. As time went on he was able to find some more literature about the lifestyle, including this site, and convinced me that it was something recognised and to understand the husband’s motivation in suggesting it

        • #20736
          Heather G

            Chastity makes my bf absolutely more attentive , he pleases me orally daily and I allow him release on a pre determined number from random.org . We put in a number from 1 to 30 and I let him push the button. Last draw he got 29 days . He is on day 19 and is begging for release . He will do anything I ask in hopes of me allowing release , not gonna happen !! It’s a cucks life that we both agreed upon . I would never been in a non Cuckold relationship ever again .

            • #20737
              Anonymous

                Khmmm….Earlier you wrote that you have husband and boyfriend too. Have you caged both?
                Your story is not consequent.

            • #20879
              Anonymous

                My wife is about to setup a date with a man she works with. She has my blessing of course and has promised to make me her cuckold. She has always had a black fantasy and yes he is black. He is very interested in her and I’m sure it will happen soon. She has purchased a pink chastity device for me to wear when it happens, along with pink panties. She knows this excites me also but should I fight or be apprehensive about the panties and cage? She has told me she intends to cuck me often if this works out and when she does I will be pantied and caged. Does this happen to most cucks?

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