Does A Person’s Sexual History Affect Their Marital Happiness?

According to the National Survey of Family Growth, women who’ve only slept with their spouses are, at 65%, most likely to report very happy marriages. Thereafter, a modest decline occurs. The lowest odds of marital happiness, 52% in the baseline model, accord to women who’ve had 6 to 10 lifetime sexual partners. Yet, women who’ve had 11 or more lovers are more likely to report happy marriages at 57%.

What the National Survey of Family Growth essentially found was that a woman who has had numerous sexual partners is predictably only 8% less happily married than a woman who has only had one sexual partner. According to the survey, there is only a 9% difference in the divorce rate between women who’ve only had one partner and those who have had a multitude of sexual partners.

The Internet and social media will have you believe that women who’ve had multiple sex partners are not wifeable, which is untrue. To most men, a woman’s sexual past has nothing to do with her attractiveness or ability to be a good wife or mother.

A study by the University of Michigan, on the other hand, revealed that jealousy levels were lower and trust levels were higher among those engaged in committed open relationships, meaning that women who continued having sex with others while in committed relationships enjoyed benefits that those in monogamous relationships did not. The men in committed open relationships benefited, too, because they were able to have sex with others without fear of reprisal.

Because sex is still a taboo subject for most people, they rarely talk openly about their sex lives. Still, many people have entered polyamorous relationships, accumulated friends with benefits, and opened their marriages. The University of Michigan study also found that people in open relationships feel more love for their primary partner when they can and do have sex with others.

It is often religious men and those who have swallowed the Red Pill who see women with a larger body count as having less value. These same men usually have a lower sexual body count as well, meaning they have little sexual experience themselves. I have discovered that the men who put women down for having too much sex are men who have trouble getting sex.

The men who do not see a sexual woman as lesser are the men who are getting laid. This being the case, many men who see sexual women as less than are sexually less mature, have the least amount of sex, and often have issues with their penis size. Why else would a man put such high value on virgins?

I have had sex with numerous virgins in my lifetime, and I can’t say they were the best sexual partners. Of course, when you have sex with a virgin, your penis is the biggest she’s ever had. Still, I personally do not enjoy all that goes with having sex with a virgin. I prefer a woman who wants and enjoys sex, knows what to do, and is good at it.

To this day, my wife says our honeymoon, when seventeen other men consummated our marriage, has been the best part of our marriage. She has also said numerous times that she is glad we are non-monogamous. She likes having her stable of men.

I asked my wife why she married me, and she said, “You got me gang-banged on our third date. Who else would have done that?” She admits, “I like knowing I can be with other men and still make you happy.” Opposed to men who only want sex with virgins, men who have participated in gang bangs know that the more sexually experienced a woman is, the better the sex is.

Common sense tells us that a committed relationship in which each partner is sexually satisfied is a happier relationship. What doesn’t make sense is why so many people deny themselves the sex they could be having due to outdated beliefs. Before meeting me, my wife had no idea that men liked to have sex with women in group settings. My wife was also surprised to find that even men who were happily married sought out sexual pleasures they couldn’t experience at home.

Early marriages were not based on love. The focus was on property rights and family lineage. The 1980s were when people started looking for their soul mates. A spouse was to be a best friend, a lover, a provider, a protector, a confidant, a listening ear, a fix-it person, someone who loved unconditionally, was not jealous, was a pursuer, could put their wants and needs on the back burner, was affirming, uplifting, sexually experienced, intuitive, forgiving, willing to compromise, someone who communicated openly and was empathetic, emotionally supportive, vulnerable, and the list goes on. That’s a tall order for anyone.

In the early 1980s, people began realizing that it’s possible to have multiple soul mates and that marriage can be defined by those within it. My wife and I are not each other’s type, we are not in love with each other, and sex with me does nothing more than frustrate my wife, which is why we have had a cuckold relationship since day one.

On our first date, my wife told me she had never seen such a small penis on a grown man, and I told her I enjoyed seeing my wife having sex with other men. This seemed a logical choice to my wife-to-be because she was attracted to me, just not sexually.

Because the other men my wife-to-be had sex with were well-hung, she knew what brought her the most pleasure. After seeing me naked, she realized that other men would be needed for her sexual fulfillment. Because I am compersive, meaning I find my happiness in the happiness of others, that didn’t bother me.

On our third date, my wife-to-be allowed seven men to gang-bang her, and one of them stayed the night and had intercourse with her through the night and well into the next day. This was her first time being gang-banged, and she loved it. That was when I felt most attracted to her.

In our first month of dating, my current wife got gang-banged eight times and had intercourse with eighty-eight different men. I was so happy because she let me take pictures and videos of her with the other men, which was a total turn-on. My wife felt like a celebrity and knew I was the man she wanted to marry.

Two months after I married my first wife, we went to a swinger’s club where she had intercourse with twenty-four other men, and she called that her “happy place.” This was in 1983. My wife was eighteen, and I was nineteen. We returned to the swinger’s club every Friday and Saturday night for eight months until my wife found a man she wanted to move in with us.

The more men my wife had sex with, the happier she was. And I benefited from her happiness. She was less irritable, more sane, and seemed to love me more every day. When my current wife and I have sex with each other, it is boring, predictable, and unfulfilling, which, again, is why she has several lovers.

My current wife’s fondest memory is of our wedding night when seventeen other men consummated our marriage, and my first wife’s fondest memory is of when she first got gang-banged. These were good times for everyone involved. My wife and I had intercourse this morning, and afterward, she felt frustrated. Thankfully, she was able to call one of her lovers, who was willing to make her happy, which I deeply appreciated.

I wholeheartedly believe, without a doubt, that the more people you have sex with, the happier you can be.