Experiment: Pt. 6

As I have stated in a previous posting, there are a lot of people who have approached me about the possibility of my fiance getting pregnant with her boyfriend. These people who have discussed this with me, include Luvr–the creator of the site. So, when my fiance and i were discussing where things are with our relationship I decided that we needed to discuss such a topic. So I asked ‘I know you are on the pill, but have you ever thought about the possibility of you getting pregnant?’ “Yes”, she replied. “Ive always thought about that, even when you and I had sex.” ‘Oh, ok’, i said. ‘Well, hypothetically, if you were to get pregnant, would you want ro keep the baby?’ Her response was then said with understanding of my question, but also with affirmation. “Oh yeah. I would definitely keep the baby. There would be no reason not to. The same goes for when you and I were having sex.”

I then asked her what she would want to do as far as her and as relationship, and she assured me, that if she were to get pregnant with him, that she still wouldn’t leave me, but there would definitely need to be some kind of Fail-Safe that we all three needed to discuss. Which I agreed, and later that night when her boyfriend came over we all three sat down and discussed some possibilities.

About an hour or two before he arrived at the house, my fiance had already texted him telling him that we all had some important matters we needed to discuss. So, when he got to our house and we all had a little bit of time to casually chat and settle in, he asked what it was we wanted to talk about. So I went ahead and stated that my fiance and I had been syncing and done a little talking, and we wanted to talk to him about the possibility of pregnancy. He then said, “I was wondering if something like this was going to be brought up.” And then asked if she was pregnant.

We told him that she wasn’t, however we wanted to have some plans, or ideas set in place as to what to do if she were to get pregnant. We explained to him that if she were to get pregnant that she would undoubtably keep the baby, but we wanted to run a few questions by him. He nodded and agreed to answer what we would present to him. We explained that we still wanted to appear within social norms, whoch he shook his head and answered in agreement. We continued by saying we think it best that we would say the baby is mine. He then responded, ‘Oh of course, I wouldnt want anything to happen that would jeopardize or cause issues for you two, or your marriage.” That answer really meant a lot to both my fiance and I. And we then asked him our second question, which is how involved he wanted to be and the baby’s life. “Wow. Okay”, he responded.”I honestly dont know an answer right now. I’m so sorry. We then explain to him, that it was really no big deal. That we completely understand. Perhaps an answer to a question like that is something that is better answered in the moment. Especially, considering that she’s not pregnant, and there is expecting of her getting pregnant. It’s one of those things that we can worry about if we come to that bridge.

We then continued to explain that the whole idea of the conversation was to make sure we were all on the same page in regards of realizing that she can get pregnant. And if she did get pregnant, he would not need to worry about anything, because we’d take and raise the baby and not expect anything from him. And whatever he chose as far as being a part of the baby’s life, we’d support. He shook his head and thank us. He then went on just say that he feels like he would want to be a part of the baby’s life, but not overbearingly, or in a way that interfered. Just, in the sense that he was there and present.

We said we understood, and the conversation kind of began to change course and we continued talkin about various things for the next hour or so. Then, once it was getting close for bed, my fiance and her boyfriend began getting in the mood. And, to me, there was something very special about the interaction they had the rest of the night. There love making seem to be way more passionate, and much more intimate than it typically already was.