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January 19, 2019 at 5:16 am #26752cuckmatt
My wife and I have been out of the kink/fetish game for a while now but over the years, we’ve dabbled with 3rd party involvement games including cuckolding, cucqueaning, chastity, denial etc but alas, life seemed to find a way of getting in the way. What never helped our cause was the few times that my wife did indulge herself with other men, they didn’t gave her GREAT sex. Now we all know that seriously great sex requires a chemistry that is hard to find. It’s not just about the size of a man’s penis, positions, stamina etc. It takes some brain power too. For both individuals to be in the zone, so to speak and that’s where my wife’s experiences were found to be short.
One guy that she knew as a former colleague had the equipment and the moves but he didn’t stimulate her mind enough. She’d had a one-night-stand with him towards the end of her previous marriage. A It was a release for her. After marrying me and knowing that I was happy for her to call upon his services whenever, she did so twice but familiarity bred contempt and she dropped the guy from her mind like a brick. The second guy that she had a couple of meets with ticked a few more of her boxes. Mediterranean looking, nice physique, good sized equipment etc but he had some emotional baggage that would always seem to be brought into the post coital conversations. There had also been a couple of one off situations but with all of the encounters, there was one thing that my wife would always reflect on. They weren’t me.
I have never doubted her love for me in the 10 years that we have been together. I’m a very lucky man in that respect. And my wife knows that I have never raised any objections to her sleeping with other men. All I want is the best for her. For her to be happy and satisfied both emotionally and physically and that’s why I have been playing the long game when it comes to cuckolding. Never pushing the subject. Letting it play out at a very gentle pace. We spice our sex lives up from time to time with talk of other men, using toys to simulate what bigger cocks might be capable of. Some dressing up (feminization of myself). Some chastity periods etc. And with chastity, that’s where we round up this particular post.
My wife decided to purchase another device for me recently. It’s yet to be brandished though. But I do know that she has an event in mind. Or possibly two. One is night out with a former, mutual female colleague who just happens to be so very filthy minded and one that will want to take advantage of my wife, sexually. And who knows, maybe encourage my wife enough to find a man each or to share for the night? I’ll enjoy any or all three of those scenarios. Especially if I’m locked up!
The other event is a night out at a local-ish adult club. Again, with the former mutual colleague and that little bird has told me that if my wife agrees to that night, I will be in attendance but I will most definitely be locked up! My fingers, toes, balls, legs and everything crossable is crossed that on one of these occasions, my wife finds a man that ticks a lot of boxes and finally gives her an experience that will leave her craving more and with no doubts at all.
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January 25, 2019 at 5:40 am #26804Gracie
It sounds like you are making some nice progress. Do not think that you should not encourage her to have sex with other men. By all means, let her know that you think she should. Encourage her to do it! There is nothing wrong with that. Talk to her female friend before they go out and get her to agree she will help your wife find some guys she can fuck.
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