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bca11
ParticipantOctober 6, 2025 at 5:55 pmPost count: 1So basically a few months ago we decided to try cuckolding, at first it was just over text, but she found an actual dude to fuck quicker than I thought. I didn’t really think much because at first it was kinda just hugging but then she started full making out with him, so I asked her if we could maybe stop and every time I asked she said yes we can, but she would always end up having sex or making out with him anyway. First thing she did was sucked him off and let him fuck her with his tip. They had sex about 7 times till now, and every single time she didn’t tell me until a few days or weeks later because “it makes me so horny”. She hasn’t seen him in two weeks, or atleast that’s what she told me, I really doubt she’s telling the truth.
I also remember however at the start she said “I said yes to dating him, but just for sex”, but later she would deny this. After this happened I noticed her being online a lot but never responding to me, which is something very out of character for her. She also mentioned many other times “What if I told you I was dating him” but then she would quickly say it was just a hypothetical. What do you guys think? What should I do? At times it makes me so horny but other times I’m miserable.
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Squier
ParticipantOctober 6, 2025 at 9:24 pmPost count: 23I find that a bit difficult to answer because a lot of context is missing.
“…we decided to try cuckolding… doesn’t exactly sound like a well-considered act. Why did you decide to do this? What else have you done? Swinging? BDSM? Voyeurism? ….
Well, the question for me isn’t what you should do, but what you can still do. Pandora’s box is open; what was locked inside is simply coming out. No matter if You like it. In my opinion, this damn box is opened far too often just for fun without even the slightest precaution as to how the contents should be handled…. But if that weren’t the case, then it wouldn’t be Pandora’s book but a labeled shoebox.
No matter who opened the box, you can’t close it again. You’ve talked about it, but you don’t trust their word—and not for the first time, and probably not without reason? So why keep blathering on, keep letting yourself be lied to? There are only two things left you can do: Either you breakup, now. Or you can continue to enjoy the good things and see how it develops and whether you can or want to handle it.
I would do the latter. Right now, you only have a lot to throw away, but very little left to lose. It’s quite possible that your girlfriend will get fed up with the whole thing and pull herself together again. And the thing with the bull… that wouldn’t be the first time a woman thinks this is her great new love, only to then realize – oh wonder, he’s a good fucker, but my loving heart is waiting at home. There are roles for cuckolds and bulls, and a woman can easily get lost in them. Especially when they get really turned on by something, they react no differently than horny men: thoughtlessly, headlong. Maybe you’re already practicing mentally taking her back without much instruction, without accusations? Remember, you wrote “We” decided. You were part of the decision. So: wait and see how it develops and enjoy what you can enjoy about it (and can’t change anyway).
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