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jessica
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So we are a couple and its the boyfriend, James here. We have had a cuckold experience at a club and both enjoyed it. She is now talking to one particular guy that she met through a dating web site. My main question is, how honest should she be with him? She has told him that she has a long term boyfriend and that he (I) appreciate that all her needs are being met. However, she is fearful of mentioning that this is being part of our sexual fantasy/desires. She thinks being more forward about his role would put him off. I worry that if he doesnt know the whole situation he might create more emotional attachment and try and steal her away. I think I would be far less concerned if we didnt live apart. At the club I had no bad feelings, only incredible feelings of connection. But when she mentions meeting this guy (without him knowing about our relationship) i get terribly jealous and my stomach churns. I’m new to this and would appreciate any words of advice…esp when it comes to how much honesty should the lady show when talking to a potential bull?James
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Say_Oy
If I had an unmarried sex toy with a BF I would prefer if she told me he knew and approved. Makes it easier to set up dates. Why buy the cow if the milk is free? So no reason to steal her if she is there when I want sex, I don’t have to worry about boyfriend duty and I get time to play with others when she is with you. Of course I might want to take her for a weekend or vacation but I would bring her back.
Trust is a factor in a longer term relationship so if I think your GF is cheating on you then she might be “cheating” on me. And if I am constrained in when I see her I am more likely to be looking for another girl. i.e. more likely that the Bull will move on. If you want a long term bull relationship then definitely tell him.
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