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    • cuck
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        January 1, 2026 at 2:20 pm
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        #106817

        Hello everyone.

        This happened a long time ago. My wife spent several months at my friend’s house and their relationship eventually turned sexual. When I found out, we had a fight and she told me she was ending the relationship with him.

        A few weeks later, after a small gathering with friends, my wife said she wanted to invite the same friend over and suggested that the three of us spend some time together. Things escalated quickly between them and I was left watching. Later that night, after she left, I was still very aroused and ended up having sex with my wife, even though she was tired and her pussy was very slippery.

        The next day I felt very aroused by the whole situation, although I wasn’t sure if they had used protection because it was all done in the dark and I think my friend finished inside her. At the time, I didn’t know how to describe these feelings, but later I learned that this dynamic is often called a “cuckold” fantasy. Fortunately or unfortunately, I realized that this scenario turns me on.

        My friend finally got married and we haven’t had anything like this since. I’d like to rekindle that passion in my wife. I often fantasize about her having sex with another man, but I don’t know how to bring it up after 25 years of marriage. It’s not an easy subject to talk about.

        I’ve been thinking about finding someone who would be willing to flirt with her, but I’m not sure how to handle the situation. I’d appreciate some guidance on how to move forward.

      • cuck
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          January 4, 2026 at 5:31 am
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          #106881

          For the first 25 years or so of our marriage, we had decent sex. But I could never give my wife the orgasms she needed and deserved. My problem is that I have terrible stamina. Most of the time, she would be disappointed. No matter how hard I tried to think of something else to avoid my quick orgasm, my penis would just explode. I have had secret fantasies about my wife having sex with another man. But it was this man who was able to give her incredible sex and multiple orgasms. One day I suggested that I wouldn’t mind if she had sex with another man. She looked at me like I was crazy. She got mad that I suggested it. “She couldn’t cheat on me and all that.”
          We have sex very rarely now, I understand that she doesn’t want to have sex with me.
          How can I get my wife interested in another man?

        • uhohithinkiwantherto
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            January 4, 2026 at 7:35 pm
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            #106885

            Hi cuck,

            I’m a little confused by your wife’s recent statement that she “couldn’t cheat on you”, since at least at one point, she did exactly that, and then was so taken with having sex with him that she subsequently openly cucked you with him on at least one occasion, which you both seemed to enjoy immensely.

            So she obviously has no compunction about fucking other men during your marriage, at least with the right man. Either 1) he was an exception because she found him so attractive, 2) she no longer feels like she is sexy enough to be with another man, or 3) she regrets that she hurt you and is a changed woman.

            I kind of reject #3 almost outright – that’s just not how women work. Once a horny slut, always a horny slut.

            It does not seem like it should be that difficult to get to the root of the issue. Saying you wouldn’t mind if she had sex with other men is not the right approach — that is somewhat focused on you rather than her (“I” wouldn’t mind), and she might interpret that either as you do not love her enough to care if she has sex with other men, or that you simply do not find her attractive anymore.

            It should not be that difficult to get a conversation started with a slightly different approach. Something like “remember that night back when you and X had sex, and then you and I had really great sex after? I was thinking about that because it seems like our sex life has become a little stale and I remember it driving me crazy how sexy you were that night, I could not stop thinking about it for days. I would love for you to feel that sexy again. Maybe it is possible to do something like that again and it would make us both super excited. What do you think?”

            The key is to reassure her that as her husband, you think she is sexy and want her to have great sex, and to let her know how sexy you think “that kind of thing” is, i.e., cuckolding. Get her talking about what was sexy about it and how it made her feel and her juices will probably get flowing again thinking about it.

            Good luck!

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