I Love Watching

It is an amasing vision to see our Wives with men that they are attracted to and work hard at pleasing

I have found that sitting and watching my wife with another guy has an incredible affect on my penis and my mind. And for some reason, as I sit and watch, the feeling of being ignored provides a special kind a heightened excitement. But, feeling ignored also triggers a feeling of being humbled; a discrete feeling of humiliation. I see firsthand that I am just not adequate. I experience an extra hard erection as I am overtaken with paradoxical feelings. Watching forces me to realize that my wife has choices and that if I do not adjust, I will be felt behind. Watching shows me that her preference is for large; and, the claims made by my wife, earlier in our marriage and while dating, that size does not matter, just was not at all true. Watching shows me that she truly enjoys intimacy with others, including deep kissing, cuddling, bedroom talk and being kissed all over her body. Watching can tear me up inside and cause me to feel humiliation that is not discrete at all.

The space you now occupy as her cuckoldry is one of commitment, certainty and willingness to be selfless in demonstrating your love for her. To emotionally kneel and witness her journey in desire and love is the ultimate cuckold experience and brings self enlightenment and genuine love for your partner. No one could love her as much qs you do, not even if she loves another more at any one specific moment than she loves you. Congratulations, some of us truly get that cuckoldry can traverse sex and become self enlightenment and spiritual awareness.

April C. And you make a very valid point. And that’s what I think is so great about this lifestyle. Is that the husband and the wife but it’s good to see witness and understand that what they thought they had as a married couple, is actually very small in comparison to what the wife and the boyfriend have. The the marriage is not in jeopardy at all. However, there is just a more natural deep and intimate bond between the wife and boyfriend that does not naturally exist between the wife and husband. And so, the husband gets to witness his wife literally be truly in love with another man. And because he gets to witness it, and see it from a different perspective, he has a better understanding and appreciation for that. Because he knows that that she will never have that with his wife.

Thanks all for your thoughts..

I must admit loving to watch my wife and her lover as well! It is gratifying to be in a well adjusted cuckold relationship!

For my wife and I, it is not just my watching that excites both of us. But, it is the before and after, as well. Before her lover is even with us, I help her get ready. This helps keep me in the loop but it also requires actions by me, that let her know that I truly want her to have sex with someone else. I am part of the process and therefore can never complain that I did not want it to happen. My wife wants this reassurance. But, she also so enjoys my actually helping her prepare, for her lover. Each time I help her get ready, I feel some embarrassment. And, I feel real excitement. Knowing that he will be seeing her cleavage and become excited himself, is exciting to me. And, this even creates a feeling of humiliation. And even a kind of desperation within myself.
And, just before their intimacy begins, most times, I take off her clothes. This too is embarrassing and enters the realm of humiliation.
After I watch, I want to lick and kiss her vagina. Condom or no condom, I always want to do this. And so if there is his fluid inside her, this only increases my passion. Each time she is with another man, besides her vagina, as I said, I want to kiss her all over, in fact, very desperately. And, often I do this while he remains present. If he is still with her, I will do this if I am invited to proceed. If his arm is around my wife, and I am kissing and licking her vagina; the feeling inside me becomes so much more exaggerated. And if they begin to kiss as I do this, it is even more exciting for me. I feel inferior to him and to my wife. And watching add to this greatly. Even a couple of years after we began cuckolding; watching her with another man….floods my emotions each time. And each time I am reminded of how much I love my wife.

Like many of the husband’s satisfaction of see his wife with another man or men,
I find it so very intense and at same time a confirmation of our cuckold marriage.
What I do find disappointing is the times my wife has had company spending the night with her in our home only to find that the man with her is not allowing me to watch.
Listening at the door is not the same as being able to be in the room and watch. I
don’t say anything to my wife after the fact as I know our reason for our cuckold lifestyle is firstly for her satisfaction.

I am lucky in that we have a rule that I am always allowed to watch her. If it is a new guy, I sometimes give them some alone time first but for us, me being able to watch her, enhances the whole cuckold experience ! Although I am a proud cuckold and my sex life consists almost exclusively of eating her pussy and masturbating, I for one, do NOT want her to fall in love with her bull. He is for sex only for us. Her regular bull understands this and it ideal for him because he gets to have amazing sex with a beautiful sexy women without having to do or worry about any “relationship” type of things. I understand that there are many levels of cuckolding and what works for one couple doesn’t work for others, but I just wanted to express how it is for us. Thank you !!!

Hi, just joined- saw this forum and thought – yep thats me- I LOVE to watch my wife having sex with other men- I cant get enough of it