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July 8, 2012 at 6:24 pm #9397BlkMasterSHANGO
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Know Your Bull
Know your Bull, ladies and gents, white hubbies, slut wives, GFs and BFs. Take it as if it were a commandment from me. You may not like it when I say this, or think of it as a waste of time, but from my experience, fucking goes better once you know that all other options have been taken care of. Think of it like you’re a stunt man driving a fast car down a lone highway. You want to march your foot down on that pedal and burn rubber like you want the bitch to race off into the moon, the last thing you want is to see some porthole along the way that might make you veer off course. Thus is the reason for this article.
I have always stressed for couples to always start with one black bull and move forward from there. It’s surprising to see a lot of couples here and there making postings in various cuckold and interracial sites seeking for different men to come cool down the wife’s fire. Sometimes it’s hard to know if the individual making so-and-so post is anything but real. Doesn’t it really piss you off when you read such a post only to realise it’s a fucking dead end? I know a lot of bothers out there aren’t happy about such, and I’m one of them. Prior to when I recently made my trip down to the U.S., I hooked up with this hubby who presented me with loads of pics of his naked wife. Talked about wanting her to get her first taste of black pussy, and I was just game for it, only to arrive on U.S., soil and realise the fool was presenting a mirage all the time. But fuck the fool; this post isn’t for the likes of that wimp but for the realest ones in here.
Most Bulls wouldn’t be much concerned about a white hubby wishing for the Bull to come bang the wife, and sometimes I can understand that. Except I’m not like one of such. Being a Bull with a swinging dick between his legs is more like hiring a gunslinger back in the wild West. But having a Master around, that takes a lot more tact and sensitivity than most would think to have. I vision a Master as one would a shepherd guiding his flock along the grazing verdant. The flock, in this case, the Black-Owned couple, look up to him for direction and they know no matter what hole they fall into or what boulder of rock they encounter, the Black Master is there to act as guiding light to where they ought to be and how submissive they should towards him.
Thus it’s only natural every white couple get to know their Master/Bull just as much as he too needs to be familiar with every facet of their life.
Never Rush
For the couples contemplating about getting involved further into this lifestyle, the first law is never be in a rush to get involved in it. As in never be too quick to cross the street not when you haven’t checked either lane to make sure no speedy vehicle comes barrelling into you. This lifestyle isn’t meant for everybody. Not every white husband deserved being turned into a cuckold hubby just as not every wife too would appreciate her husband suggesting to her of how much he’d love to his next-door neighbour fuck the shit out of her. That could just about be the end of a good marriage and I’m not here to break up anyone’s homes, so don’t go saying I forced you into this when you know I didn’t.
I know a lot of hubbies out there visit porn sites, most especially interracial ones, and they love watching those white pussies getting fucked by thick black dicks. Same group of hubbies you’ll likely find populating cuckold and hot-wife forums, hiding under unassuming user-names, making up phony posts and asking this and that from whomever. The temptation always gets strong over time for most of these hubbies who begin to imagine their wives getting involved in such. I’ve gotten a couple of mails from them wanting me to show them how to turn the wife’s head around, like I’m some head-shrinking psychiatrist or something. For some, the thought of getting involved in this is a fantasy thing. If you’re one of such hubbies, then I’d advise you keep it that way, only until you’ve ascertained that you want to get into this with the wife tagging along. If the wife says no, and her no remains that way long after you’ve tried suggesting stuff to her, then you’d better desist from it and don’t try to push her buttons. But circumstances differ for all of us. Whatever way that works for you, let it work for you and her … but heed my warning when I say that don’t rush into things. Take your time. The journey is what matters and not the destination. At least that’s what the Chinese say.
Interracial Sites/Cuckold Forums
There’s plenty of such to choose from these days. Gone is the time when you’d need to really comb through the net hard enough for you to find such. Those days are long gone. Sex is the new money and everybody who’s not getting some of it is either living in the past, or spending too much time glued to the TV, wondering if the Republicans are going to win the next American election. Find yourself an interracial site that speaks more to your personality and has all the stuff you’d always want to know more about it. If you’re into cuckolding, the same too goes.
There’s multiple cuckold forums, both ones that charge a little Dollar and others that’s free. Sign up with them and start mingling with others who’re already there. Keep your postings straight and most especially, try and be honest about what you’re into and don’t try putting stuff out that you’re not sure about. Don’t be like Steve Carrey’s naive character in “The 40-year Virgin” and be mouthing off like you’re the man when you’re not. If you’re a cuckold wannabe, say so and let it known others know of whatever hip-cups you’re having. If you’re there looking for a special brother to own the wife, admit it and post some pics of her white ass so others can admire.
Sift Thru the Bullshit
An online forum is like any other market place you might walk into. There’s loads of people in there talking, hollering, shot-calling, bragging, dissing, cursing, ogling … and just plain hovering about like vultures looking for a place to perch. You could be one of them, I don’t know. When in a forum, just as when reading through older posts and thinking about making some of yours, learn first to sift through the bullshit talk that’s going on in there and know where your white ass fits in. Some posts made by folks in there are bound to stir your imagination and others aren’t. Follow through with the ones that you like and see where it leads. Don’t get all excited making posts about searching for a Bull to come fuck the wife when you don’t know what sort of individual would be answering it. For a lot of forum visitors, this section is where a lot of them usually spend their time at.
I’m not saying this to diss anybody’s game, but there’s a lot of fakers online than there are women walking the street with breasts implants. Make subtle conversation with anyone in there who grabs your attention. Hear what he has to say, listen to how he says it and if you want further proof about whatever it is he’s saying, don’t be afraid to ask. Words are like blueprints to whom we are. The way we frame them on a page tells a lot about us than we care to think. Keep tabs on one or two black bulls whose posts you’ve been noticing and reading about and don’t be afraid to hook up with them. that I feel is the best way to know someone online than just jumping into the ‘Let’s Meet’ section where even a Jeffery Dahmer fellow could be lurking (I’m just playing, but you get my drift). Make conversations and see where it leads to. If and as long as you’re comfortable with whomever it is you’re chatting with, then maybe you can decide to hook up with him outside the forum via any chatting Messenger and maybe go ahead to exchanging emails.
Curb Your Expectations
A lot of people (I’m talking about white couples, hubbies and wives/GFs), have a picture of the sort of Bull they desire. Much of it is stereotyped and that’s just sad to admit. They almost always want the brother who’s got a six-pack abs, muscles and wide torso, wears a doo-rag and talks ghetto with an insolent grin on his face, looking like he just stepped out of a 2pac video. Some want an athletic brother who probably looks like he played for the Lakers, and some want an older dude who acts like a pimp and has been around the lifestyle long enough to have his own Social Security number tattooed on a slut’s ass. I’ll be quick to disapprove a lot of these myths when I say that I don’t fit into any of this stereotyped nonsense. I don’t wear doo-rags and I don’t slouch when I walk, and my English comes from watching too many Woody Allen movies and Bruce Springsteen albums not from smoking weed and nodding my head to Dr. Dre’s ‘The Chronic’, so I’m no ghetto. I don’t need to be ghetto to be into this.
For the hubbies who’ve got this on their mind: knock it off. Life is never what you read in the magazines or what you watch on TV. Don’t come into this lifestyle thinking that everything is going to be all what you thought it would be. There’s going to be some slips, so get used to it. Wait for what you know is close to what you desire and then roll with it.
Exchange Reliable Information
For every white woman, hubby, couple of whomever that contacts me, I always want to know as much about them than they can offer. It helps to know who’s for real and who’s blowing smoke up their ass. The typical questions I ask is where/what city do they/he/she reside in; what status of relationship he/she/they’re into; how long he/she/they have been into this lifestyle; what they/he/she is willing to give to become a part of what they wish to be a member of; a snapshot or two of them/him/her. These are all harmless stuff and it don’t take much for me to get what I want to start with. I as well expect them to ask the same of me too. It don’t matter if they reside in some faraway city; one never knows how one meets these days with the world getting smaller every day.
However there is one question I’m never happy with answering, and it’s one that most wives, hubbies and cuckold couples out there are fond of asking:
“How big is your cock?”
Here’s a word of advice to some of your white bois and wives and couples out there: when meeting with a bull for the first time, don’t bring you the question of how big his cock is. It’s not a good way to start a friendship and unless the brother is gay and won’t mind whipping his dick out for anyone around to watch, he’s going to feel offended. Don’t go there. Start from scratch and work your way up the tree. Only the slut wife/GF is meant to ask the black bull how big his cock is and never the white boi.
Black Bull – Black Master
There is a big difference between a Bull and a Master, and most of you will do better to know the difference. Just about any black man who’s into interracial cuckolding can be a considered a Black Bull. However a Black Master is far from it and more.
A Master is one who’s into controlling a white couple: hubby, wife, daughter and son. The Master takes over the couple’s entity: their home, finance and well-being and just about everything else that goes in within and around their lives. They both are his property to do with as he wants to without questions or hindrance towards disobedience. Everything the hubby does is answerable to the Master, same goes to the wife. To their children, the Master appears more and more as an Uncle: someone whom they can look up to without fuss. The Black Master practically has an open license to fuck and use the couple whichever way he wants, and the hubby must opt to forfeit all or what he feels as him towards the Master’s daily upkeep. The couple may decide to sign a ‘Black-Owned’ contract between them and the Black Master and that practically spells everything on fine-print. It is the Master’s prerogative, if he so chooses, to impregnant the wife slut, as well as sissify the hubby whichever way he wants. Let it be known that whatever the Black Master wants, he keeps. The white couple must learn to deal with and accept that … most especially the hubby.
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July 10, 2012 at 11:18 am #10404LuvrKeymaster
Welcome, Shango – I liked / agreed with a lot of what you had to say.
With regard to the difference between a Master and a Bull, I would add to that by suggesting a Master is only a Master when someone entrusts them with their submission – otherwise, they are a Dom until such time. I don’t allow anyone to address me as Master unless we’ve made a commitment to such a relationship to each other. Semantics aside, there is definitely a large difference between a bull who is mainly a sexual surrogate and a Dom or Master who takes both responsibility.
Where I disagree quite strenuously:
Ownership. Ownership is simply an agreement among all involved to deepen the commitment of Dominant/submissive themes in the relationship. No Dom, in my opinion, should ever think to have or seek any financial control over a couple – money clouds all other objectives and anyone seeking to have say in the finances of a submissive or submissive couple should be carefully considered as being abusive of their role. A Master may be sought to provide guidance or opinion as a trusted individual, but no couple should ever give up their financial security to anyone.
“Let it be known that whatever the Black Master wants, he keeps. The white couple must learn to deal with and accept that … most especially the hubby.”
These sorts of statements won’t get you very far with the couples who are members here. Submission is a gift the offer, not something you are entitled to.
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