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    • April 5, 2020 at 1:33 PM #32616
      Cutieandswitch

        Hey all,

        Here’s a synopsis of my situation and what turns me on, pic of gf incl for reference. Hoping to chat with other people in the lifestyle and see if anyone has similar interests as me and might be able to share porn/stories/experiences.

        I’m a switch shes a sub though so i never get to be dominated.

        i think that’s why this whole cuckold thing has developed she knows i have bi/sub fantasies but doesnt know i want someone to dominate us both.

        I’m on here chatting with people in the lifestyle learning more about what turns them on so i can discover what I really like.

        my gf and i are gonna start dipping our toes in soon and I’m kinda trying to explore the fetish. she is very interested in other men joining us. im especially interested in learning what other cucks are in to because it’s what turns me on and I dont really understand it… so I’m frustrated with myself; I like being manipulated by my arousal.

        I like her stroking me while asking if she can fuck someone. and then her coming back to bed with me after shes been fucked and telling me about it while she blows me i like the idea of being somewhere a distance away and going out lingerie shopping with her to buy stuff for her boyfriend and having her make comments that make other people raise their eyebrows. Especially younger women.

        I like the idea of driving her around while she sucks a date getting her ready and then helping him fuck her those are my biggest fantasies.. obviously we will start slower than that. but that is the idea that has turned me on the most i want to be submissive and I guess its some kind of particular kind of exhabitionism/exposure/light humiliation? I dunno like i said my ultimate fantasy is to have us both submit to someone who allows her to keep me satisfied with her mouth/hands but keeps her pussy for himself.

        Thinking about doing some cam stuff potentially.

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      • April 8, 2020 at 4:12 PM #32691
        curiousmwm

          You have some very interesting thoughts and fantasies. Like you said, obviously you are not going straight to those, but one step at a time. We started slow and have had two adventures. Both watching her give a hand job and once giving oral only.
          My fantasies include walking in on her getting fucked. “catching her” so to speak. I would love to watch and play together so she can experience two cocks in a mmf, where I would clean/suck her cum off of his cock.
          I have this one fantasy that gets me hard just thinking about it. We have a threesome and it goes great, in the middle of the night we are all sleeping in the same bed and I wake in the middle of the night and the bed is moving, I roll over and just watch her fucking him with the light through the window, but she thinks she is fucking him without me knowing. Then it turns out she could not sleep so sucked his cock to wake him up. I watch them have sex until he is close and she goes down on him and swallows his cum…… I moan as she looks over and I cum all over myself.

        • May 10, 2020 at 12:19 PM #33450
          WillTell

            hey mate, you sound, well, normal. lol. enjoy the fantasy and whatever excites you and your wife is golden. that’s the real golden rule. i am an experienced bull and have trained wannabees and full on cuck couples. being submissive is a gift. nurture it. with her. let her amp up the desire. tell her that you even hope someday to lap at her clit while she is being deeply fucked. imagine her own hand calmly directing your face to clean the cock of her luver that she holds in her hand. watch porn for ideas. see what arouses and what offends. or is just meh. dont look back, dont worry what others do or desire. your tastes and limits will be discovered in due course. that is a fabulous journey to share with your wife. enjoy… and if you wish to chat
            privately, feel free to reach out. TTYS

          • May 22, 2020 at 7:27 AM #33645
            Professor

              hello mate

              I wish you the best of luck. I have extensive training experience, and my best advice would be to develop better communication with your gf. What I mean by that is you need to establish a “safe space” so that you can share freely your fantasies and wants, and vice versa. Your gf needs to know that you won’t judge her for her own fantasy needs.

              Right now, it sounds like you are not 100% comfortable sharing and that will become a potential risk to your relationship down the line, if you choose to start exploring.

              good luck

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