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    • #38706
      Tall

        I had made a comment going down on my wife 2 weeks ago that it would be hot if a BBC fucked her and came in her. She said, “why not a Mexican?” Seemed like it was “game on” to me. She has always said she wanted a monogamous marriage but she shyly admits the thought of having sex with others sounds hot in fantasy but she says open relationships have a higher degree of divorce. She also is concerned that she might love the sex and the other man too much and leave me. I do not believe that to be likely as our relationship has only gotten stronger with time but the thought of her loving it that much made and makes me extremely hard instantly. She healed me off both times to massive cumshots but says it is all weird to her. She has cheated in all past relationships she says because the other guy showed an interest, was handsome, and was nice to her but also because it was intriguing and sexy to cheat. I think in many ways she wants to have this experience at least but is trying to be wholesome. I want her to be a sexual being but also want to fully respect her, not make her feel pushed or required to do this, but I would like to go down this path.

      • #38707
        Anonymous

          Maybe the two of you should explore a threesome and test the waters. She might enjoy being the centre of attention between two men.

        • #38760
          Say_Oy

            “She has cheated in all past relationships … because it was intriguing and sexy to cheat.” Kind of stands out. What makes you think she is not cheating on you already?

            Tell her you think that is hot if she is but you want to know. Ask “Wouldn’t it be hot to know you are cheating and I know and you are in control?” Maybe tell her that while it turns you on you also feel angst, jealous, submissive, whatever…. you need to fill or replace the “intriguing” with something equally sexy and fun.

            If she is worried about divorce offer her a contract that says _you_ can’t use cheating or her sex with others as a basis of divorce because you instigated the behavior. It could also include $$ guarantees if you seek divorce. Still let’s you get divorced but not because of the sex. If she seeks divorce (she fell in love) then the contract could have different terms. I think letters and memos to the rules would suffice if there was a divorce.

            Be careful of what you wish for… if she cheated in the past with others the only things holding her back are the “support” and “fun to have a secret” aspects.

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