Not All Cuckold Couples Are Created Equal

It seems when newbies want to get into cuckolding or being a Bull, they think all cuckolds are the same, weak, have a small dick, and are submissive. That thought line couldn’t be farther from the truth. Some cuckolds have larger-than-average penises, some are very dominant, and for many, their submissiveness is subjective and directed.

Many cuckolds indeed want to believe they have small penises, and some do, but many are adequately sized. Very few men are as weak as people presume they are. I remember a “bull” years ago that thought he could disrespect me and order my wife around because he had a dick and I was a cuckold. That didn’t end well for him. You can’t disrespect another man’s wife or him and think that nothing will happen.

One “man” recently told me that he wanted to get into cuckolding, as a Bull, because he wanted to have sex with a man’s wife and control them. I had to laugh. I wished him luck, knowing he was going down the wrong path. Thinking you’re going to just walk up and control everything is a fool’s way of thinking. I see being a Bull as approaching a wild horse and thinking you’re going to be able to saddle and ride it just because you say so.

Every couple is different, as is every woman, even at various times of the month. When trying to become part of a couple’s marriage, you are facing a tight-knit team. Cuckold couples love each other and are not looking to replace the husband, and they will defend one another. If you are looking to take the husband’s place entirely, then you need to be prepared to see all the good and the bad that comes with a relationship. Remember, you are an addition to, not an instead of.

In cuckolding, the Bull is the man having intercourse, or sex in general, with a man’s wife or girlfriend. The Bull is essentially the “Guest Star.” He is the one performing for the woman and her cuckold. Many Bulls are experienced lovers with experience in cuckolding. A bull is usually in good shape and is often well-endowed.

What separates a Bull from someone who just wants to fuck another man’s wife is the Bull’s understanding that being invited into a couple’s relationship, and their bedroom, is a sacred privilege not easy to come by and very easy to lose.

A genuine Bull knows he is not just there to have sex with the wife or girlfriend. He is there to enhance the couple’s relationship and improve it in any way he can. A Bull is essential in a cuckold relationship. A cuckold wants his wife or girlfriend to have sex with other men and often to have a favorite. A cuckold wants his wife or girlfriend to have someone with whom she can have intercourse regularly.

If your husband or boyfriend is a cuckold, he will want you to desire your Bull and think of him when you want sex. Although a cuckold may enjoy seeing his wife or girlfriend with any other man, he desires a connection with the Bull and wants to have a friendship with him. It’s up to you, but often the cuckold will wish to communicate with the Bull. Some couples have the husband or boyfriend make all the contacts. Other times, the wife has private conversations with her Bull or other lovers.

Your cuckold might be looking for a buddy in your Bull, someone he can talk dirty with and share his fantasies with. Your cuckold may also be looking to be seen with you and your Bull when you are doing mundane things. Your cuckold may want other people to see you in public with your Bull, and to see their reactions to you kissing your Bull, holding hands, or having your arms around each other.

When you are in public, your cuckold may want to be “the friend,” and your Bull appears to be your husband or boyfriend, which will excite your cuckold. Some cuckolds may want their wives or girlfriends to date alone, but most want to be there. Your cuckold wants to see you kissing and hear you giggling. He wants to be part of the action, just not always physically involved.

It may seem counterintuitive, but when your cuckold expresses a desire for sex, you can tell him you want your Bull. Instead of feeling rejected, your cuckold will think that you want to please him even more by pleasing another man. That part of cuckolding confuses many wives and girlfriends. How can saying you want another man when your husband or boyfriend desires sex be a good thing? Some cuckolds’ needs are satisfied when their wife or girlfriend has intercourse with another man or other men.

As a “Bull,” it is best to remember that many wives are not faithful to their husbands, which means they likely won’t be loyal to you. You might also want to remember that reality and fantasy are rarely the same thing. Most of all, cuckolds and their wives are often married couples who wish to play. Learn the rules and don’t fuck up!