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    • #9442
      pdxtaboo

        Hi…. 

         

        Our “lifestyle” began just this year… in May.   The road to get here has been a long one.   My wife and I have been married for 28 years, and for most of that time(28 years) we have been monogamous.   She was always conservative… never flirting, no showing her cleavage, never ever thinking of another man… happy with her hubby. 

         

        Meanwhile, during this time her hubby (me) is a closet pervert, I have erotic fantasies of soo many thing – some include her, some do not. I’ve never had a problem with arousal, and jerking off…. too soo many different eroticisms (some taboo/kinky)

         

        During our 28 years of married life I try to gently persuade, cajole, bribe her to become more erotic.  We would discuss my fantasies on occasion, but for the most part she was just not interested….. as she once put it, “it would be like growing a third arm….” having sex outside our marriage.

         

        Well, this year she agreed to do some looking of “bulls”, and we currently have 2 lovers… one white, one black.   We are still looking for new ones, because as with any human interaction… things change, lovers move on.

         

        I’ll try to keep up with this… no promises.

         

        one of her lovers….

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        more soon…….

      • #10604
        Luvr
        Keymaster

          Better late than never!

        • #10606
          kuckold2b

            Wow! I am super-interested in hearing more especially about how she decided to ‘take the plunge’ and try the lifestyle We have vey similar situations (vanilla wife / pervy guy) She is 47 and has been with me since she was 23 (I’m early 50’s).I’ve been trying to gently encourage my Alpha Wife to cuckold me but she is suspicious of my motives So far all she’s done is relegate me to outercourse (which is now all I’m capable of). I’d love to hear more about how your wife got started in the hopes that I can use the ‘lesson learned’ to help my Wife ‘let the genie out of the bottle’
            Thanks, k

          • #10613
            pdxtaboo

              How it began was simple… 1st… our cuckold play is VERY mild… little or no humiliation.   My wife just isn’t the cruel type.  I showed her photos, and got her to watch some videos.   We played with dildos for a while.  We then looked @ Craigslist… too uncertain, we then joined Fetlife, and that was a bit too extreme… at least as beginners.  we settled on a site in the Adult Friend Finder group – Cuckold Personals.  We looked, and emailed.  We set rules… for example… my wife needs more than a big cock… she needs a brain in the larger head…..  so our potential lovers are asked to email her… a good email will be a couple of paragraphs, and will entice, and excite my wife… she will then respond.  They have a little flirting, and if all is well there, we schedule a meet and greet… agreed that initial meet and greet have no sex.   All the time she is sharing all the flirts, and email with me…   the quote on the front photo that is posted in cuckoldmarriage.info is SOOO accurate, “When practiced properly, cuckolding will bring a couple closer together & greatly increase intimacy despite of and also because of the intimacy the wife now shares with her lover.”

            • #10617
              matmagic99

                A very articulate entry.  It provides me with even more encouragement to enter the cuckold lifestyle with my pretty wife.  Well done!

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