Ready for cuckold marriage?

I am not the resident expert, but….

if he has opened up to you about it and if the pillow talk positively supports what he says…

open and frank discussion and planning all leads to the possibility,

and by openly discussing it he will have no illusions…

when you eventually decide to bring in a second man, he will have had time and participated in it and be ready….

i am the long term BF in a cuck relationship… in the beginning he wanted it very badly…
as we approached certain points of discussion about it we planned a photo shoot and she danced naked for us… i was invited to openly touch if i desired… we did that a few times…

he had a chance to feel his level of determination and how he felt when i embraced his naked wife and fondled he body in every way including inserting my finger. one day he told us we can go to the room and do what ever we wanted… we made love that day… eventually he came in and watched a bit then would leave…of course in the beginning condoms were used.

after several planned sexual indulgences and several months he told me i could go bareback
so i did, and as the climax approached i announced i wanted to cum inside her, he sat quiet and watched not one word… she agreed to let me… he was very quiet, and so i let it be known as i cummed a huge load inside her so he could protest and stop it, but, after i finished and rolled off and opened her legs he saw it. he sat there and, without a word went into another room … for several days he was very quiet….i imagine that was the point at which he was dealing with his feelings of the reality of the relationship. eventually he started encouraging us and planning times for us to have sex… but also let me know that i could have her without him around also…. so we did and for 13 years i am her main sexual partner.

my point is, he liked the idea, it was openly discussed, planning lead up to it, small steps let him feel secure, i was of course respectful and involved …. each step he had a chance to call it off but kept it progressing…
sounds like you are in the pre planning stage…

i am glad you are looking into it openly and open minded. it can be rewarding and fulfilling.

Best of luck to you

yes there is a wide range of experiences and ways it these experiences happen…

good luck on your journey should you travel down that path.

all the best to you both

Great advice there Sniffy and completely agree. Set up some benchmarks for him, such as just chatting to other men, gauge his reaction and ask him about it. Mention that it could have gone further and ask him his thoughts.

From his response’s you can see if he’s happy to pursue or chooses to press the eject button and halt it all.

Best of luck!

We are in the same possition. We have been married 12 years and about 4 years ago he opend up to me about this and still on his mind daily. I joined this group like you bec7ase I was unsure if he would see me difftent once I what done what he asked of me. So we have a mutual friend that’s been I our lives years and is a very sexually open single man who we both a are comfy with. So we had the discussion and he’s more than happy to help us. We have started off sensing estates picks and videos of me and my husband having sex to him which really isn’t as bad as I thaught it was going to be. My husband wants more and for me to still go ahead with it. There’s been nothing but support from my husband and he’s not once showed me he can’t handle this life. I’m very open to start small and not go the full way with him first time and see how he feels after that and if he’s ok with seeing what I being him hone then I’ll go the full way and guve him what he fully Wants. Small steps are really the key iv learnt to see how they cope at each hurdle. I hope this helps you xx

We are in the same possition. We have been married 12 years and about 4 years ago he opend up to me about this and still on his mind daily. I joined this group like you because I was unsure if he would see me difftent once I what done what he asked of me. So we have a mutual friend that’s been I our lives years and is a very sexually open single man who we both a are comfy with. So we had the discussion and he’s more than happy to help us. We have started off sensing sexy tect picks and videos of me and my husband having sex to him which really isn’t as bad as I thaught it was going to be. My husband wants more and for me to still go ahead with it. There’s been nothing but support from my husband and he’s not once showed me he can’t handle this life. I’m very open to start small and not go the full way with him first time and see how he feels after that and if he’s ok with seeing what I being him hone then I’ll go the full way and guve him what he fully Wants. Small steps are really the key iv learnt to see how they cope at each hurdle. I hope this helps you xx

if husband is talking about cuckold then he is ready for you to enjoy other cocks – you have to make him tell you his kinky fantasies while you are riding on top of his cock.

Be aware that 98% of all marriages trying swapping sharing or cuckolding get divorced within 2 years! So be very carefully what you want and what you do! Cuckolding is superficially a fetish which is science-based a mental illness! So a pretended cuckold needs psychological therapy and not a selfish wife!

The key is to be upfront about what both of you want – get it all out there. What you expect, what your spouse expects, and what the other person coming into the relationship expects. Talk about that as well as hard limits because not all cuckold relationships are created equally.

The overall goal is for all parties to be happy with the arrangement – and don’t be afraid to take sex OUT of the equation either. That too is part of the dynamic.

The more time spent upfront discussing all the aforementioned, the smoother things will go down the road.

13 years ago my husband talked to me after having sex. He admitted he knew I was faking orgasms and that he felt nothing at all coming from me in the form of passion. He said he knew he wasn’t pleasing me and it’s because of his very tiny cock. He’s only 3 inches fully hard and barely the thickness of my thumb. He told me he loves me very much and didn’t want me to be so sexually frustrated and asked me to find a lover. At first I was taken aback wondering if he had another woman in mind but it didn’t take long to understand that he was truthful about not wanting other women. He said “what woman would want three inches?” Lol of course I agreed.

We started looking together online and found a nice guy. Well I’m not going to go into detail but I ended up seeing him for over a year and my husband didn’t ask to watch us but I did invite him into the bedroom to watch from time to time. He eventually asked me if he could lick me after my boyfriend fucked me and I of course loved to let him do that lol. We would cuddle in bed and he’d ask me to tell him everything about my boyfriend’s cock and how deep it goes inside of me, and would stroke his little hard-on while I told him all about being fucked by a real cock. He hasn’t fucked me in over 8 years and is happy that my boyfriend is doing a very good job.

Well anyway there’s much more to our story (like hubby in panties etc) but I just wanted to tell you that a cuckold marriage can me a very wonderful thing for both of you. We still love each other very much and would never want to be without each other at any time. My boyfriend takes care of my sexual needs and my husband takes care of all my other needs. I’m a very happy girl 🙂 You can be too 🙂

Wonderfully inspiring story. Thank you for sharing it. It gives us all faith, those of us in this situation that this is a viable way forward for both husband and wife.

we have been married 20 years, and about 5 years ago my husband suggested to me about his fantasy/desire to see me with other guys, so after a little chat, and persuading i decided to indulge his desire, with a little apprehension, but a little excitement too, and after a few chats, and social meets we took the plunge into this lifestyle, and we are both so glad we did
over the last 2/3 years i have had 3 lovers,. but we are now discussing taking it to the level of cuckold marriage., any advice etc would be appreciated

Hey, I am the original author of this post and I am just back. I’ll keep you posted how our adventures are going. They are definitely moving in the right direction. Thanks for all your inspiring comments

Linda

We’d love to know more Linda, welcome back 🙂

Stacey and I have been enjoying this lifestyle for over 40 years. We’ve raised two sons and have 4 grandchildren. Still together because we were open and candid from the beginning. And it has always been more about sexual adventure than emotional attachment. Our activities waxed and waned over the years – in the early years we played frequently but in the “middle years” when kids consumed us, we rarely played though we did fit it in when realistic. As the kids got older and eventually moved away, we had more interest and more time to play. We set rules early and both followed them – and if Stacey wanted to deviate we talked ahead of time.

Hi Cathy et al,

The follow-up to my story was the post “Rest assured honey, I did it!” in the True Experiences forums.
https://cuckoldmarriage.info/discussion/topic/rest-assured-honey-i-did-it/

I’ll try and give you a more recent update. Thank you for all your responses and encouragements, ladies and gents. You are so sweet and genuine. The fact that we are going forward in the cuckold experience is partly thanks to you!

xxx

Linda

Have you discussed the husband wearing a chastity cage?