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    • #19705
      dany

        Dear readers,

        My fiancée and I discussed our sexual fantasies a while ago. I expected her to be freaked out by my confessions regarding sharing her with another man (either as a watcher or both of us having sex with her), but to my surprise she was very receptive, excited even. Sex was fuelled by these fantasies for a while and the topics were never brought up again because I feared that her conservative nature would ‘pop-up’ and drown this fantasy back into my subconscious.

        Last night, for the first time in weeks, I finally got the courage to tell her that my fantasies have crept up again and she loved it. She comes back from a business trip tonight and wants to hear about them and this is the first time (apart from a mild confession) I will discuss cuckolding. My fiancée is open when it comes to sex and I’m sure she won’t mind watching a movie as long as I do like the first MFM movie I got her to watch, by pretending to ‘accidentally’ click on the wrong video. Yup, this tactic works. I do this in order to observe her reaction, but I’m sure she will be intrigued. I mean she did watch a short clip once about a guy with two penises. Furthermore, I plan to tell her that came across a website (this one) dealing with the topic of cuckolding. So, if all works well, we will be watching cuckold or MFM porn movies and visiting this website together.

        She already confessed that she’d be okay to realize some of my fantasies but would have to think about which ones to do and not to do. I hope she gets around and accepts to bring a man into our bedroom, but if she doesn’t want to then I’ll understand.

        As a couple, we’re in love and trust each other 1000%.

      • #20093
        Felix

          Well, I wish you both all you want to receive as a couple from the decision you will make in the future.
          I can only sympathize with your courage dany.

        • #39831
          slaveofwife

            Your fiancée, sounds very receptive.Take it slow, one day at a time. You are both heading in the right direction.

            Good luck to you both and I really hope that you both get to enjoy this beautiful cuckold journey together.

          • #39832
            motley

              And a Happy Valentine’s Day to you all!

            • #40712
              Alex

                I think what is important to consider is why some women run from the idea, and others entertain it. It is because the concept represents something to them that either is a threat or adds security.

                It sounds like your significant other is entertaining the thought of it because it gives her a sense of freedom, dangerous excitement, and it also suggests that you may be very secure. That she won’t be bothered in the future over you being jealous about her talking to a male friend at work. In a strange way, it suggests an alpha mindset of the potential of losing a girl doesn’t mean anything to you, and that you don’t see other men as a threat. That can be a turn-on for her.

                I would poke around a bit and try to find out what aspects of it she likes, and what aspects she doesn’t. This will tell you what you need to work on. It is possible she likes the fantasy but the reality she has no interest in. before you go deeper, find out more.

                acceptance is a powerful tool. If she feels like you will love her unconditionally no matter what, it gives her the ability to be authentic. To express herself the way she wants to, but fears judgment or loss. We are all like that in some respect.

                give it time, play with the idea, find out more before you jump in with both feet. make sure you understand what can change and what impact it will have on the both of you.

                The best of luck

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