Some Advice

A year ago I met one of our members here on this website who indicated he would like to be cuckolded. (I emailed him that 10 years ago I had the opportunity to cuck a friend who was medically unable to have sex with his wife. (I mentioned this in my bio). We all enjoyed the situation once his wife became comfortable, that did take some time to achieve).
I contacted this member and over the past year he and I have traded emails and photos, getting to know one another. We are close to the same age and have some diverse but also some common interests. I found his story interesting: He desires to be a cuckold, but his wife is, perhaps, “sitting on the fence”. Can he convince her to have sex with other men, hopefully me? What course of action should he take to make him a cuck? His wife is by definition a “hot wife”. She is attractive, intelligent, and well educated. This is the most desirable kind of woman I can imagine! He is very lucky to have her…. I would also like to “have” her on occasion.
Of course no matter how each one of us desires to engage with this hot babe, it is totally up to her to engage with us….me, in particular (he obviously already has sex with her). He has been making some exploratory inroads with her, mildly suggesting a sexual encounter with me. If she seems interested, the next step would be to arrange a meeting. A successful meeting would imply that she is willing to, perhaps, go further. The final step would be to meet and fully cuck her husband.
Of course, women are notorious for changing their minds. Should I encounter this woman, fully naked and looking so very hot and ready, but at the last minute says, “no”, so be it, her husband will remain un-cucked, at least this time. I would never force any woman to have sex with me.
If she did consent and prepared herself for a night of lusty sex, I would ask her husband to remain in the room with us. He has indicated he is unsure about staying with us during our coupling. I, as the Bull, would want to make sure he would have a most erotic experience. I want to make sure he knows he is being properly cucholded.
I told him I would like to see him wear a chastity device as long as I am with his wife. From the day arrive until the day I leave. (I have worn one and was teased until I thought I was going to explode! I watched and experienced a naked lady fondle my balls and teased me until I thought I would explode, realizing that there is nothing I can do to satisfy that urge. She released me a week later, a very long week I might add). I am sure that if he is kept in chastity while watching his gorgeous wife having sex with another man, he will be in a state of untold erotic high. I may have him do other things as well during the coupling, but being in chastity is high on my list.
I would like to hear any suggestions as to how he/I should proceed. He would be the one to work with his wife to convince her or rather bring out the desires to explore her sexuality with other men. I am sure he will read and consider any suggestion you present to the Forum. We are not in any rush.