Well Overdue Update. And a Word of Thanks

First of all, a big thank you to those that have reached out with words of encouragement and care.
It’s been a rough month or so. Linda choosing to break things off with Dean. I don’t think she/we realized how challenging that would be emotionally.
But that’s (thankfully) in the past. I agreed not to air dirty laundry here.
Meeting Richard was a surprise.Linda had begun playing the field a bit as her feelings for Dean slowly diminished.
She met Richard on a dating site and she told me that he was such a breathe of fresh air. It was like, the enjoyable parts of life Dean had just been taken over by Richard. Gone was the stress and other negative emotions that Dean had begun bringing to the table.
I don’t think Linda would mind me saying that Dean overplayed his hand. He no longer respected boundaries.
That’s as specific as I get.
I love you dear. Lol.
Richard is closer to our age. Success and financially secure. So,HE ACTUALLY PAYS when they go out.
He respects our time together. He’s confident in himself to understand that “their time” and “our time” is important for the overall relationships to work.
He has a life outside of time with Linda.
I do now wear a chastity cage. Very uncomfortable as this is the first one picked up in haste.
Any ideas on a quality cage for a member on the smaller size would be greatly appreciated.
I do have to tell you though that I brought this on myself.
Some of you know that Linda despises porn. I, had a weak moment and got caught.
She hit the roof!
Understandably, this is how I ended up with this quickly chosen, very uncomfortable, plastic monstrosity on my member.
One advantage that Richard brings to the table is that he allows limited opportunities to see my wife in limited capacity of undress. I saw her hoo-hoo.
He also allows oral gratification of her after she comes home from being with him.
I know. But that’s a whole other story. Something definitely that’s going to take getting used to.
Thanks again for the support and encouraging words.
Always, your friends,
Linda and david