Whimpy Fag Cuckold Wantabee with no balls seeks advise

Indycuck:

Very nice, I wish you all the luck.  I am much in the same boat.  I'll be interested in what you learn on your journey.

indycuck4u said:

Luvr kindly suggested that I start a new post here, in hopes that someone can help guide me to making my ultimate fantasy, become a reality. To be come a cuckold to my wife.

First I am very grateful and thankful to Luvr for developing this site as a real resource amid the fake pay sites that proport to be real cuckold sites.

I
am the hubby half of a married white couple and have been lucking in the shadows of the old fmsb site and now here at
the new site. I am a cuckold “wantabee”, and have been for many many
years. As a whimpy fag cuckold wantabee I have just never had the “balls”, (can a true cuck claim to
ever have balls?) to move forward and even discuss this with my wife.

As a married white couple, we have been together
ever since we were high school sweethearts, and the wife has NO sexual
experience other than ours. And with a 5.5″ uncut cock, it's obvious she has not had much in the way of sexual experience. She simply has no way of knowing this, and no way of ever knowing what kind of real pleasures are out there with a real man, let alone that this is what I desperately want for her.

I am looking for ideas, assistance and help in making this undying
fantasy finally a reality. Anyone that would like to coach me one on
one would be most welcome, or here via the forums.  I hope to make the most of the forums and
other site information and still trying to find my way around the site
and trying to get the chat to work for me for futher detailed discussions.

I really can't explain why I would want this. How I could want to see my wife give in and submit to another man, a real man with a much bigger and more powerful cock and for her to allow, even desire his touch, feel, taste and ultimately his cum deep inside her. And all the while she will know I am watching helplessly and in fact encouraging him and her. And, as she will be able to see that I am completely aroused and stroking my 5.5″ toy of a cock, what thoughts will be going thur her head, what will be be thinking of me, as I will likely be crying by her side and dying inside while stroking as big a hardon as she will have ever seen on me?

I understand that all this sounds fantastic to me as a fantasy. And I understand at this point it's just a fantasy. I understand that should I ever get this fantasy to be a reality, once another man touches her, caresses her tits and then her pussy, once she touches his massive cock and then the head of his big cock touches her pussy lips, once he guides himself into her and he starts to enter her as he holds her ass firm to push deep into her, as her pussy lips part for an unfamiliar cock, things will have changed forever and we can never go back. Once he unloads his cum into her willing white married wife's pussy, that will be the eternal point of no return. She will never be able to erase that experience, that sensation, the taste, feel, desire and the climax she would have would likely be like no other in her whole life, all for a real man.

I fear that while this is a fantasy, I can not get out of my mind, even knwoing with my very soul it will be very very painful, humiliating and demasculating for me, it's all I think about. As they say, “Be careful what you wish for.”, however I just can't get this thought and dark desire out of my head. I really don't know or have any idea how I would react if this became a reality. I fear I will cry in great dispair and humiliation and know that I will never ever be the same person or boy that the wife thought I was and she knew.

Is there anyone that can help me?

You made a good post – explained your situation well.

I can try to help you, but honestly, the buik of the effort has to be yours. I often see or hear or people who want their wife 'seduced' into this. While i can understand their desire to see this fantasy lived out, wanting it without investing their own effort is usually the sign of someone either lazy or unwilling to admit their desires to their wife. Don't be that guy.

Having only experienced your dicklet, your wife has absolutely no idea what she's missing so it's like telling someone blind how awesome red is.

Bottom line is it starts with you: you have to open a dialogue with your wife. It's up to you to explain to her that she's been missing out on a fundamental human experience and out of your love for her, you want her to experience what nature intended she enjoy.

Have you ever discussed/shared or explored other fantasies together? I mean anything at all of a sexual nature. I ask because if this is going to be the first time you've ever brought up a sexual topic, it's just going to be that much more difficult, but if you've been able to discuss sexuality in the past, you're much better off.

For the reluctant, I usually suggest bringing up some of these ideas as dreams i.e. by saying “Honey, I had this strange dream last night where…” and you share a simple, but obviously erotic scenario you think she'll respond to based on knowing her (can't really help you there).

The benefits to this method are :

1. being a dream, anything is possible
2. being a dream, you're not responsible for the content
3. being a dream, if she doesn't react well, it's easily left behind

It's common for wives to react negatively to discussions or ideas of her with other men even if the idea is appealing to them simply because they can't imagine it's something you would react positively to and/or they are embarrassed to admit such a thing appeals to them. These are also the reasons you've not had these discussions with her, so unless one of you gets off the fence, this sucker ain't going anywhere.

I totally agree with Luvr.

I was initially against having sex with other men. But one thing convinced me, the love of my husband.

If you want to introduce your wife in this way of life, you must do as he says Luvr. But do not forget to continually show her you love her. If you wish, you can get. But only if done with patience and love. Never try to go fast, that way you can know what are the limits.

A warm kiss

Claudia and her cuckold

Indy,

This is in reply to your comment where you seek audience with me one on one. The problem is that so far, to date, you have failed to even mention any of these ideas to your wife. I cannot do all the work for you. OK, maybe I could, but I'm not going to. You have to invest in this if it's something you want.

I will have my article on the topic of introducing this lifestyle to wives out in a few days and from there you can choose to take active steps in the direction of your cuckolding or forever be whining about what could have been.

Indycuck4u, any progress on the wife?