A good find by socalguy19: it’s an article by a single woman who briefly dated a guy wanting the cuckold role. This young woman gets a lot of things right about her own motivations for this and correctly self-diagnoses herself as a modern slut. By that, I mean a woman who is empowered to enjoy her own sexuality. Around here, the term slut is never used as a weapon of sexual repression.
I have cheated on every single boyfriend I have ever had. I used to think it was because I never truly loved any of them, but now I realize it was more about the reality of my ego and confidence. I am a flirt by nature. I seek attention from both sexes.
This aspiring cuckold was actually fortunate in that she enjoyed the experience without taking advantage of him – a common scenario for unmarried cuckold couples. Taking a submissive role shouldn’t mean the cuckold is denied what they need to be happy in their role and many younger/unmarried women lack the emotional maturity to recognize that or care if they do.
Read the article and then reflect on how important the emotional bond between cuckoldress and cuckold is and how that and that alone is what enables such experiences to transcend the sexual and feed the greater needs of hotwife and cuckold. All the negative aspects she experienced with him could have easily been resolved if they had more of a bond.
I agree with cuckmatt, he was topping her from the bottom. It seems that he was all focused on his fantasy or obsession of his wanting to be a cuckold and not at all considering her.
i always like to read accounts from wives and girlfriends of cuckolds who used to think there was something wrong with themselves because of their “infidelity.” Val had a long history of cheating on boyfriends (including a fiancé who dumped her because of it). She felt it meant that there was something wrong with her and that sleeping with other men was her way of sabotaging relationships. You can imagine how relieved she was when, after i found out about her “cheating,” i told her that i didn’t think there was anything wrong with her, just that she wasn’t cut out for monogamy. She was SO relieved to hear me say that. It breaks my heart when i think of all the pain and guilt she went through because of her need to see other men (like her ex-fiance calling her a slut and a whore).
Quite an interesting story and very pertinent to many (especially men) who are into the cuckold thing. Within a husband/wife relationship the cuckold seed is born in the husband and more often than not, I suspect is projected onto the wife which normally (I suspect again) will end in upset for one or both involved. She had a basic grasp of the cuckold meaning but appears to have taken it at face value or by its dictionary definition. This worked initially but it was doomed from the beginning. She was being topped from the bottom. Had they both taken the time to communicate and in depth then things may have worked out.
Her personality as it turned out, was not of the right kind for their relationship to work anyhow. A serial cheater or just an attention seeker? Either way she had issues that she needed to deal with in order to become a well-rounded individual and someone who could use a level head on any situation that life presented her……..and a cuckolding relationship needs level heads from all involved.
Once again, communication was seriously lacking by the sounds of things. The single most important ingredient to the cuckold relationship.